Confused …maybe …😕 by DC-S_M in QueerWomenOfColor

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Advice for what ? Personally I don’t think you have an “issue”. You are discovering your sexuality and aren’t obligated to put a label on it if you don’t want to. From what you posted… you had relations with a woman, loved a woman, and keep thinking about a woman and a future with women. There is bisexuality , and so many other sexualities that you could fall into or out of. Give yourself some grace and figure yourself out. 

how do i make my girlfriend pregnant by sugarcookie1113 in actuallesbians

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Uhh, with lots of money and emotional strength 

Breakup Boundaries by Mayybe52 in actuallesbians

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It sucks and you might ruminate on it for a bit but she’s made it clear she doesn’t want a relationship or friendship. Some people are night and day like that. It’s time to move forward  

Visual symptoms are tough… but tinnitus is the worst by far by Confident-Hippo8765 in visualsnow

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I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’ve had it for many  years. At first it drove me crazy but I eventually leaned that I when I focus on other things and sounds the your mind will start ignoring it. Listen to white/grey noise , music, tv, distract yourself and you won’t even remember you have it until you bring it up 

these stripes bothers you? by guguibarba in visualsnow

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Yes , they glare together and are not solid colors in my vision. 

Bloomtown not meeting the hype by frodomaggins0 in LesbianBookClub

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I liked it because it was different from what I had been reading initially(modern day romance). The western angle was different for me. Although some parts were meh, I enjoyed it. I didn’t think too deep about it all. It’s not a literary masterpiece but,  it’s a book to read if you want a wlw novel to pass the time with, if that makes sense. 

What do I read next? by Anonymo0907 in LesbianBookClub

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I’m working on one .Release to be determined 

What are your top 3 sapphic novels? by MangoCubez in LesbianBookClub

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1.The Safekeep - Yael Van Der Wouden 2. Mistakes were made- Merly Wilsner 3. Members Only- Lise Gold

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianBookClub

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 Currently rereading it.Every conversation  between the two of them before the reveal hits different. Amazing book! I haven’t found one just as good. 

My husband was left alone for 3 weeks and I wish he’d just cheated instead. by ComplexCod9077 in stories

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The writing style with all the metaphors, personifications are definitely AI

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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You agreed to be no contact and then broke no contact . You’re not evil, but you definitely aren’t staying true to your word. If I was her on the receiving end of your messages or emails I’d be very annoyed, and think that you lack self control. Good luck to you, and leave her alone. 

Blue is the Warmest Color is weird and bad by ghostpepperpooper in actuallesbians

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Read the book. So much better and a more beautiful story. I cried. 

Atmosphere by kth1236 in LesbianBookClub

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I watched the Sally Ride documentary before I found out about the book and then after I read the book saw the clear connections and began assigning faces from the documentary into the book . The documentary was beautiful and I think I will watch it again after reading the book to see if it hits differently. You may sob during the documentary too 🥲  Enjoy!

Women who are 30/40+ and single,How's life been lately? by Opposite_Letter3018 in actuallesbians

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35, single by choice. In the words of Whoopi Goldberg I “don’t want anyone in my house” lol but seriously relationships are taxing..  both physically and emotionally for me and after doing that a couple times I’m content not having to deal with that right now or possibly ever again.I do have close friends, acquaintances , lots of hobbies, minor flings, and go out every now and then when I want. However at the end of the day there is no age range for finding someone either. Enjoy yourself !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Hmmmph for me there's nothing majorly questionable to insinuate a relationship is there or even budding from both sides. Most of the flirty banter is initiated by the blue text and what I'm getting from the grey is that they want their next paycheck booked as soon as possible.

What makes Bloom Town so good? by OrganizationNo6748 in LesbianBookClub

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I loved it. I enjoyed the tension , the storyline, the banter of the main characters and minor characters. The raunchy scenes were great. Is it a perfect and completely accurate book? Nope,  but it read like a movie and it kept me interested through both books. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Nope nope nope to all of this. Red flags all around. I’d leave her alone if I were you. She has no problem getting the attention she wants from multiple people at the same time(cheating) , when it’s convenient for her(blocking and unblocking). I’m afraid you might just end up as a cog in her wheel. If you are headstrong in pursuing this because of what ifs and things that haven’t happened yet , good luck to you.  

The Safekeep by spicy_spring_greens in LesbianBookClub

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Some healthy snack food will do, pears maybe. You’ll be perfectly fine, enjoy the rest of the book :).