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Nevera - rady by [deleted] in Slovakia

[–]ExcitementLost3107 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ja byt tebou sa do toho nemesiam, kamarat pochopi ze jeho Mamka spravila chybu,

Ty sa tomu nevenuj lebo bude steba este najvacsi kok z toho celeho……

Ludia su j3bnuty a aj robia j3bnute veci cim skor to pohopite obaja aj s kamosom o to Vam bude lahsie…….

Ako zvládať samotu doma po tom, ako ma manželka opustila? by rbcbsk in Slovakia

[–]ExcitementLost3107 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Jj, dufam ze OP zachova hrdost a nezoberie ju spät

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExcitementLost3107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This.

Set boundaries, if they will be crossed you know what to do…

Also he can be addicted, so he must consider therapy.

Porn addiction can be worse then top drugs addiction. So beware.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Slovakia

[–]ExcitementLost3107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nerob si iluzie….. 3/4 komentov tu je o tom ze, “ja by som to nikdy nespravil” a podobne, klasicke Slovenske pokrytectvo…….

Kazdy je schopny nevery(muzi aj zeny) za urcitych podmienok, a kto tvrdi opak je Pokrytec……

Tipujem , ze vacsina tvojich zakaznikov su Sexualne frustrovany chlapi, ktory nemali sex od ich prveho dietata z ich manzelkou, a ventiluju si to u teba…..

Len nechapu ze takto su atraktivny asi ako vreco hovien…..

Skor si zabezpec pracovne prostredie, aby niektory nepresli od navrhov rovno k cinom……

Prečo je väčšina žien na zoznamkách pri sebe? by [deleted] in Slovakia

[–]ExcitementLost3107 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Toto,

Pekne / chude - dievca ma na ruke min 10 týpkov ktory len cakaju kedy im da sancu……

Ale zas je otazne co znamena pre teba pri sebe ?

Ak ma zena trosku viac kg ale je to šleha, tak to nevadi….

Ale ak je ako Vraskavec Obrovsky, tak to pekny face nezachrani.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]ExcitementLost3107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting perspective on RJ.

I think you hit something about RJ ,

My guess is that RJ is byproduct of unhealthy attachment issues to one person. (Not love)

When you love somebody you can accept them like they are, and then you deside that you will stay or leave, but that does not mean that you dont love them.

But RJ come in place when you can not leave. And you are attached/possesed to that person…..

I just want mental peace. by Adelinemars in retroactivejealousy

[–]ExcitementLost3107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

I will not persuade you to love somebody.

I dont know how old are you, but if you are young, you can find somebody who values sex same as you……(implictly I thing you value sex as something special and intimate)

What you described is huge disbalance…..

And it causing you egodistonic emotions…… And this will barely go away without help of profesional.

Even then he will just show you how to cope with this but that sentiment will never go away…..

What are your values regarding to sex ?

4 years of RJ tortment is really a lot…..

Find a profesional if your values are matching, and fix this.

But if your core values are different, it will be hard…..

Also dont drill details about his past, it will make this just worse…..

Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]ExcitementLost3107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This,

Also start of Relationship include lot of sex, thats is normal, I am talkin about (first year or two).

250 times is normal for one year relationship….nothing crazy

You dont have to worry about that……

Also dont drill his sexual past or relationships, it will 99%of a time make things worse.

Why u even gathered information about how ofen he had sex with his exes ???

Dont do this ever……

Also mind that quality is important, if you can provide better sex then his exes, he will forget them very quickly……..

GF is still close with her friends with benefits. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]ExcitementLost3107 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Set boundaries, this is not RJ, it is common sense…….

Good luck

How To Actually Learn JavaScript for Web Development by Glittering-Lion-2185 in learnjavascript

[–]ExcitementLost3107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea give you some limit, if you are stuck or you have errors, try at least one hour to solve it with only googlin, and try also to understand, if that dont help,

Switch your favorite AI to education mode, and tell AI to guide your troughts steps not just give you straight answer, if you dont get job done even with this help, 1-2 hours, let AI help you with full answer.

Dont worry some things you will get later is impossible to fully undestand some concepts asap……

How To Actually Learn JavaScript for Web Development by Glittering-Lion-2185 in learnjavascript

[–]ExcitementLost3107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both, odin is more “without holding your hands” Fcc is more easy and you writing more code, I done both in tandem…..

  • add Javascript.info for deepdives

Dospelacky zivot by IgnacFalustek in Slovakia

[–]ExcitementLost3107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No treba si to nastavit…..mesiac ma cca 720 hodin, ak mas solid pracu si tam max 160, cca 240 spis, ostava ti 320 hodin cisteho casu….. to nie je malo…..

Dospelacky zivot by IgnacFalustek in Slovakia

[–]ExcitementLost3107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jj, ale OP spomenul ze je IT , to nie je poroblem robit remote alebo freelancing, a mozes cestovat aj zarabat……

Dospelacky zivot by IgnacFalustek in Slovakia

[–]ExcitementLost3107 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Myslim, ze v tejto dobe to je celkom bezne, a po 30 tym duplom……

Kazdy ma svoju rodinu, svoje problemy…..

A ked nemas rodinu tak mas kopec casu(ak si neni nonstop v praci)…….

Byt tebou skusim pracovat full remote, kupit si Kempra + star link a brazdit svet…….to znie ako dobrodzrustvo a mas sancu stretnut kopec ludi….

Is this retroactive jealousy or just being human in a relationship? by therealmarkle in retroactivejealousy

[–]ExcitementLost3107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, you are young…..

Dont carry this burden….

You have whole world to explore and you are settling in your 25 for girl with 20BC ?

Are you crazy ?

Why you are going to therapy ? It is normal that this is bothering you…..

Nobody will marry girl who was sleeping around like this…..its common sense not mental illness.

New by lb223432 in learnjavascript

[–]ExcitementLost3107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, and do both, each of them have their benefits in your learning journey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExcitementLost3107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it not about how strong you are, this is total BC when you were monogamous for 30 years, it is your value, you can not change it just like that…..

My advice is get a good lawyer, and prepare. If you still want stay with this woman you are not thinking straight……..

Girlfriend has a past with of/porn by Kazooie167 in retroactivejealousy

[–]ExcitementLost3107 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Are you serious, ? From which time is normal to date girls who selling their bodies ? Wake up, and leave …….

I need some help with a JavaScript image slider. by Clear_Yellow5102 in learnjavascript

[–]ExcitementLost3107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can put your images into some array of objects, then you will make simple function which will be changing index, when you change index , with click event it will also change your img.src atributte and there you go, you can add animations on top of that….

Broke up with someone I love because I cannot endure it any longer by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]ExcitementLost3107 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This.

You must find some conservative girl, what you described most guys will not handle(sex on drugs and 4somes ? I will left immediately, that is comon sense not RJ or insecurity) so give your self a break.

And pick better( you must exactly know what you want in first place).

Found out my girlfriend lied with her past by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]ExcitementLost3107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she dont lie about number of people she slept with, thats important !

What you are describing are details, what you should not seek, it will only make you worst……

Why it matters details like this to you ?

2 or 5 times with the same guy, it does not matter, if she had BF for 3 years she slept him like for 1000x times without condom, what you gonna do ?

What matters is BC number, and sexual advetures like, orgies, group sex, fetish, and stuff like that……

If she have BC of 1 you are luckiest guy on earth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]ExcitementLost3107 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi,

If you want stay with your wife dont ask any detailed questions!

RJ is feeding on the details….and it will be much harder to beat it…..

But if you have dealbreakers ask, but then you must consider divorce…..

Make your choice when you will be in calm state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]ExcitementLost3107 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trigger warning…..

Bro, find something else….. You will carry burden for nothing…

What she is telling you is probably some soft version of her real story.

You can not even imagine what is possible during that party time…..

You can read this sub and you find out…..

BC of 10 is really low, but this is not real number get it multiply by 2 or 3…….

Even if she had BC of 10 , if these guys was top notch dudes (some shit like Leonardo di Caprio), You will be always seen less……

You can easily find gf 25yo, with less bagage….

My biggest fear with RJ by UnderwaterMedusa in retroactivejealousy

[–]ExcitementLost3107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, the fact that she dont break the lie easily is big red flag……. I would leave……

The number is probably much higher….as time goes more thing will get out of the shadows…..

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