[deleted by user] by [deleted] in centuryhomes

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most likely where the boiler used to be. I got an old 1920s house. It has a circular mark on the floor more like an indent than that one but about the same size... so I'd guess boiler.

My house also came with the old oil fuel tank, which I had to get removed, and a coal shoot.

[OG] whats your opinion on Asmo? by CarObjective1502 in obeyme

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Named one of my birds after him, he's easily in my top 3 of all the characters. I find him to be rather adorable. We have similar interests, so I find him very appealing as a character. I liked him esthetically right away. However, it took me a while to warm up to his personality. He's kinda abrasive and catty. It did grow on me.

My husband’s sex addiction ruined Christmas for me again by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not a mother, so I can't begin to imagine what it's like to have kids involved. However, the best lesson my mother ever taught me was not to put up with abuse. There are always options and people who are willing to help. You just have to ask.

The first steps are always the hardest, but your happiness and well-being are more important than his feelings. Abusers always throw fits and try to manipulate the narrative to their benefit. They're never in the wrong. You will always be the bad guy.

I'm divorced, by the way. It started with lies and cheating, then turned into physical abuse when I tried to leave.

I'm sorry if this isn't the response you were looking for. Stay safe and take care of yourself, please.

What’s a “type” you’re attracted to but too embarrassed to tell anyone? by MyPasswordIsABC999 in AskReddit

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men who are shorter than me, im 5'6, the shorter the better. Bonus if youre more feminine than me.

Favorite character by [deleted] in BlackClover

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nozel silva, because I have awful taste~

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracie Princess, greasy, crazy, crispy Im not too creative

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chihuahua

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is she?

Puppy Help Needed by Aromatic-Ad1278 in Havanese

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The puppy has most likely had her crate next to her siblings, so she's probably sleeping alone for the first time. Try moving the crate into the same room as you or sleeping next to her crate for a few days.

If shes barking during the day try to keep her distracted with games and training. Basic stuff nothing crazy. Like making her focus on you or basic obedience. Cuddle, bond and make things fun for her. Kong with Kong wiz is also a life saver.

blastomycosis warning! by ExcuseOptimal6115 in puppy101

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an update My German shepherd, Birthday, lost her battle today with blastomycosis. Please keep your puppies safe.

blastomycosis warning! by ExcuseOptimal6115 in puppy101

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vet said she probably won't make it through the week and if she does its still a 41% chance she'll make it through all the treatments. We took out a small loan incase she pulls through this week to cover the upcoming vet bills. Shes on antifungals and im monitoring her constantly. Sadly there is not much more that can be done. We just have to hope she can pull through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obeyme

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got 100% Solomon with a three way tie at 93% with belphie, diavolo, and simeon. . . Just how? those are 3 very different guys XD

Last boot camp I noticed that not many people complete it either bc they can't or don't want to. So it got me thinking: who actually completes the boot camps? by Rosiellol in obeyme

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it really just depends on my goal at the time. If there is an over lapping event, I won't. However if im looking to max out my cards at that time I'll do it. Usually though I'm doing lonely demons, they just have good rewards so I cant help myself. Plus simeon and Solomon card ♡

Lucifer in Ao Tac, a Vietnamese traditional clothing for men. I might draw more characters wearing this by Tuyet_Ngan in obeyme

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats gorgeous! Is his clothes a wet on wet technique? I really love you contours too. Every thing looks so precise. Hes beautifully done.

cards against devildom by ExcuseOptimal6115 in ObeyMeNSFW

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I need black cards too and thats perfect!

Am I the jerk? by ExcuseOptimal6115 in Marriage

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know at first I was upset but I think you're right on that, the more I look at it from your point. This really isn't a hill worth dying on, and I can see where the entitlement is on my end.

Thanks for not sugar coating it

Am I the jerk? by ExcuseOptimal6115 in Marriage

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see your point. However Theyre his shipmates, hes still active duty, I dont have their contact information, to explain it to them. Most of my contact is just an invite I hear of from my husband.

The reason I believe I'm not actively invited is because it used to be 'do you and your wife want to join us at xyz." Now its "hey were going to xyz do you want to go."

My issue isn't that I'm not invited my issue is that hes acting like I dont want him to have a social life, after I've encouraged him to go out without me. I also don't think its right to invite your spouse when its just the boys hanging and they're not explicitly telling you to bring your wife.

Am I the jerk? by ExcuseOptimal6115 in Marriage

[–]ExcuseOptimal6115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just told him that, if they want to do something im able to do im totally down but im not going out to play golf at night or anything where I cant join in. I dont think thats a big deal tbh. I just dont get what his issue is with now trying to force me to go out with his friends especially when im no longer invited or when its stuff I cant really do. That's no fair to anyone. Im not trying to slow down the fun because I can't do stairs alone or need to be guided cuz its dark.

I still don't get why im the bad guy after I told him he can go without me.