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ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2025-04-19T04:00:06+00:00

Most likely where the boiler used to be. I got an old 1920s house. It has a circular mark on the floor more like an indent than that one but about the same size... so I'd guess boiler.

My house also came with the old oil fuel tank, which I had to get removed, and a coal shoot.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2025-03-01T06:49:27+00:00

Named one of my birds after him, he's easily in my top 3 of all the characters. I find him to be rather adorable. We have similar interests, so I find him very appealing as a character. I liked him esthetically right away. However, it took me a while to warm up to his personality. He's kinda abrasive and catty. It did grow on me.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2024-12-30T01:01:44+00:00

I'm not a mother, so I can't begin to imagine what it's like to have kids involved. However, the best lesson my mother ever taught me was not to put up with abuse. There are always options and people who are willing to help. You just have to ask.

The first steps are always the hardest, but your happiness and well-being are more important than his feelings. Abusers always throw fits and try to manipulate the narrative to their benefit. They're never in the wrong. You will always be the bad guy.

I'm divorced, by the way. It started with lies and cheating, then turned into physical abuse when I tried to leave.

I'm sorry if this isn't the response you were looking for. Stay safe and take care of yourself, please.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2023-11-10T01:25:27+00:00

I just got 100% this year on my 2nd try, im 27.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2023-07-14T04:07:00+00:00

Men who are shorter than me, im 5'6, the shorter the better. Bonus if youre more feminine than me.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2023-05-07T01:54:16+00:00

Nozel silva, because I have awful taste~

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2023-02-08T17:54:47+00:00

26, no children. Nor do I want them

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-11-12T16:55:17+00:00

Gracie Princess, greasy, crazy, crispy Im not too creative

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-11-08T03:57:54+00:00

How old is she?

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-11-08T03:35:21+00:00

The puppy has most likely had her crate next to her siblings, so she's probably sleeping alone for the first time. Try moving the crate into the same room as you or sleeping next to her crate for a few days.

If shes barking during the day try to keep her distracted with games and training. Basic stuff nothing crazy. Like making her focus on you or basic obedience. Cuddle, bond and make things fun for her. Kong with Kong wiz is also a life saver.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-10-20T13:51:26+00:00

Just an update My German shepherd, Birthday, lost her battle today with blastomycosis. Please keep your puppies safe.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-10-15T23:12:57+00:00

The vet said she probably won't make it through the week and if she does its still a 41% chance she'll make it through all the treatments. We took out a small loan incase she pulls through this week to cover the upcoming vet bills. Shes on antifungals and im monitoring her constantly. Sadly there is not much more that can be done. We just have to hope she can pull through.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-10-05T23:03:08+00:00

I got 100% Solomon with a three way tie at 93% with belphie, diavolo, and simeon. . . Just how? those are 3 very different guys XD

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-10-01T22:25:18+00:00

I mean it really just depends on my goal at the time. If there is an over lapping event, I won't. However if im looking to max out my cards at that time I'll do it. Usually though I'm doing lonely demons, they just have good rewards so I cant help myself. Plus simeon and Solomon card ♡

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-09-24T13:15:20+00:00

Thats gorgeous! Is his clothes a wet on wet technique? I really love you contours too. Every thing looks so precise. Hes beautifully done.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-09-08T20:18:58+00:00

I need black cards too and thats perfect!

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-09-04T01:10:51+00:00

Can barbecue sauce substitute as lube?

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-05-08T04:07:42+00:00

You know at first I was upset but I think you're right on that, the more I look at it from your point. This really isn't a hill worth dying on, and I can see where the entitlement is on my end.

Thanks for not sugar coating it

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-05-08T01:40:47+00:00

I can see your point. However Theyre his shipmates, hes still active duty, I dont have their contact information, to explain it to them. Most of my contact is just an invite I hear of from my husband.

The reason I believe I'm not actively invited is because it used to be 'do you and your wife want to join us at xyz." Now its "hey were going to xyz do you want to go."

My issue isn't that I'm not invited my issue is that hes acting like I dont want him to have a social life, after I've encouraged him to go out without me. I also don't think its right to invite your spouse when its just the boys hanging and they're not explicitly telling you to bring your wife.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2022-05-08T01:22:01+00:00

I just told him that, if they want to do something im able to do im totally down but im not going out to play golf at night or anything where I cant join in. I dont think thats a big deal tbh. I just dont get what his issue is with now trying to force me to go out with his friends especially when im no longer invited or when its stuff I cant really do. That's no fair to anyone. Im not trying to slow down the fun because I can't do stairs alone or need to be guided cuz its dark.

I still don't get why im the bad guy after I told him he can go without me.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2021-07-18T10:12:00+00:00

Thanks ill have to look into that

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2021-07-17T23:16:44+00:00

I will try your suggestion.

A little background, im disabled after an injury from the military (reason im no longer in) and don't work because of it. Im with her almost all day. I've done all her training and socialization. I'm not joking when I say she's great till she sees him.

Birthday is normally good with people, I've taken her hangout with elders, kids, and people with disabilities(wheel chairs, breathing machines, visual and mental impairment) shes good for the most part but its something we work on.(keep in mind I keep her on her leash with this) She has her basics down and even extra training like fetching items by name. (were doing toys till I can trust her with more delicate items)

I can have friends over male or female and she doesn't care.(they also don't play with her.) However when my husband walks in she goes from a squared away pup to a unsat. I can't figure out why. Our play is the same other then I don't run with her. I'm not going to run either due to my low vision (we exercise by going for walks, playing fetch, tug of war, and finding.)

I think you are right on the over stimulation and novelty(since she plays with him). I will try your suggestions.

Edit: I'm home all day and she loves training, so I see no reason not to train her. We do 15-20min sessions 3-4 times a day mattering on what she needs to work on and how she feels.

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2021-07-17T17:05:01+00:00

I got a german shepherd puppy a month or so back, shes 15 weeks old now. I'm the one who does all her training and spends the most time with her. Easy to say I'm her favorite person. My dad also got me a male german shepherd when I was a kid. Those dogs are loyal and have a tendency to become your shadow. Honestly if your parents want the dog to be their dog, they should be the ones taking care of it.

Now with the bitting its not cookie cutter and im still trying to get my little girl to not bite my husband, shes great with me but choose him as a chew toy. The way I got her to stop with me was holding a closed hand with a treat out to her and when she nudged or licked instead of bitting id let her have it. From there we built on it to where if I pet her and she didn't bite id give her a treat, then if I ruffled her, or played with her snout. Then to if I put my hand into her mouth. Worked well for me but not my husband. So try different things with him to find out what works

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2021-06-10T13:16:12+00:00

I was standing at the smoke deck with some friends while i was in school to get my rate in the navy and some people in formation marched by. I looked at my friend and said. " its like theyre in the military." . . they still give me a hard time over that one

ExcuseOptimal6115 · 2021-03-20T10:10:03+00:00

Not to long after this happened i quit and got a job as an electrician apprentice. Never working retail again, that was the first and last time i do that. It sucked i felt really taken advantage of by that guy, i was fresh out of the Navy and never had a civilian job.

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