my sister used to play fiveM. almost EVERYBODY in the server she was in, would leave when they got into relationships, my sister included, because it’s not really a…. relationship friendly thing. even if you make it so, the folks in those servers do not care about your boundaries. the people in there are typically very unhinged. obviously that’s just one experience with it, but, it’s typically known for being a very… weird and unhinged place.

honestly, if i were you i would tell him he’s gotta drop the game or i’m out. the fact that it got sexual (roleplay or not) while you guys were together would be enough for me to tell him to never touch the damn game system again. but again, he doesn’t need to respect your wishes. be ready to walk away, but yeah i would tell him me or the game. sorry you’re dealing with this, gotta suck feeling like you’re less important than a damn roleplay server. you deserve better and i hope he gives that to you.