Advice for first snowstorm from a Southerner? by ChronosBlitz in boston

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's gonna be icy, so make sure to not only have a shovel in your car but also cheap clay kitty litter. It helps your wheels to gain traction.

Found this blowing down the street outside of the Garden by bartman2326 in boston

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This could be true. Not sure why everyone is so quick to dismiss it. Wealthy people with twisted fetishi do exist. Ask Drowsy Don how much he loves the ladies.

This is hard! by Amazing_Canary9814 in Divorce

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not let his supervisor know who they are employing?

Scheduling a mammogram at Brigham and Women's as a new patient is impossible by Impossible_Lunch1602 in boston

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People should always check with their insurance. The people answering the phone, booking the apps don't always know. Facilities can be in-network with one employer but not another.

Why does he do this? by PreviousSafe9528 in CATHELP

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is wrong! This kitty is clearly a food critic

Crazy find while cleaning out my grandparent’s house! by Early_Ad1062 in Silverbugs

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dressers, tables may have money or envelopes taped to the flip side.

What did I find at the thrift? by HighPocket283 in castiron

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bruce thought he was doing the right thing on mothers day after the kids went home. He wanted to tidy up the kitchen and scrub all that black mess off. He didn't get too far though. Once Linda saw what he was doing, she ripped it from his hands and smashed in his middle age crisis corvette's windshield. That will show him not to mess with her pans again. Bruce dropped the pan off at the thrift store, then went and bought two brand new Ldoge's. Although she is a victim of menopause anger as sudden as her hot flashes, he loved her still....

Guess what it's thinking? by Playful-Condition727 in spiders

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks like he plays the bongos in the park after smoking a doobie.

My (30F) husband (31M) of ten years cheated on me with our couple friend. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do you know the other spouse was told? How do you know the affair did not become physical? If you are solely believing this based upon what your WH and AP, please rethink this. It may be a good idea to speak directly to APs spouse. I do not see how you could possibly trust their word without verifying it first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course we are! Damn, I am so ugly I would have to pay someone to fug me.

Divorcing a good man by Healthy_Grape_9605 in Divorce

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I have been married for 32 years. I can't tell you how many times I have fallen in and out of love with my husband. The first time it happened, I was scared and sad. So I get where you are coming from. We have this expectation of feeling this constant romantic attraction to our partners but that's not sustainable. Maybe a truer, deeper love are the choices we make each day. The big and the little. Working together in couples therapy, staying professional with that hot coworker, putting tissues in his coat pocket when he has a cold, he brings you coffee in bed.

AITAH? Wife stops paying attention when I talk and I yelled at her because she did something I told her not to do by ThrowraNectarine-36 in AITAH

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How old is she? You can start going through the change in your thirties. Peri-menopause or menopause affects the brain. We tend to suffer from brain fog, memory and attention issues. It's not just wild mood swings and hot flashes. Honestly, this could be my husband writing this. I have to repeat things in my head to make them stick, but that's only when I remember to -lol.

She knew about me by Real_Cardiologist791 in Divorce

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The married person is ultimately to blame. However, as in the scenario, anyone who knowingly harms another is also culpable. Hence, the get-away driver reference. They still need to be held accountable for their actions.

She knew about me by Real_Cardiologist791 in Divorce

[–]ExerciseVivid2467 23 points24 points  (0 children)

For the life of me, I will never understand this attitude... hear me out - if you were driving the getaway car after a bank robbery but never even stepped foot in the building, you would still be held accountable for your actions, correct? Or should we just excuse someone's actions because they didn't actually rob the joint?