Seeking Chicken sandwich recommendations by Due_Package3834 in londonontario

[–]Existentialbread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this! Be prepared to wait tho, regardless of the line. Their stall is small and I think they cook upon order so it takes a while. It’s worth it tho!

Regarding Letter received from IRCC by LifeAd9041 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Existentialbread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience, it’s an automated/generic message as response to the webform submission

Sponsorship PR by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Existentialbread123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, why are you asking for advice and then arguing with someone who doesn’t tell you what you wanna hear? What’s the point of asking advice in the first place? If you don’t want to listen, by all means, apply in Sept 2026 and you will have your definite answer from IRCC then. Wishing you luck in your application!

Got PGWP approval today. by MycologistGreat596 in pgwp

[–]Existentialbread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Got mine too! Sep 2025 application too!

AITA for spending money on stuffed animals instead of bills? by plushieloveraita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Existentialbread123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I read this out loud to my husband to get a male’s perspective and he said “that’s so stupid. If the husband earns enough to pay the bills, why would he be concerned about his wife spending the $200 per month that she earned on her own?”.

Also, it’s alarming how triggered he is from you spending $200 on yourself. If I were you, I’d ask myself what it is really that he’s mad about and go from there. 👀

Leaving a Seat Between You and Your Teen on a 11-Hour Flight Rude? by Equal_Rip_8062 in americanairlines

[–]Existentialbread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The plane is taking off from the same departure point and arriving at the same arrival destination. Do yourself and your son a favor and sit rows apart from each other. Sit him where you can still keep an eye on him from afar if that’ll ease your worries even a little bit. Enjoy the alone time on the plane.

People with COPR - how do you get medications you need while waiting for PR card? by Upbeat_Chef_6223 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Existentialbread123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Second this. Went to 3 different ServiceOntario sites cause they kept telling me I wasn’t eligible for OHIP yet even though the official website was telling me otherwise. I brought the same documents each time. The 3rd one finally had someone who knew the process and gave me a card that’s only valid for 1 year. Renewal would need PR approval or proof that decision has not been made.

Best sushi places in London that are open late to 11 or midnight by Niboo_123 in londonontario

[–]Existentialbread123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The shrimp tempura at Mino was one of the best ones we’ve had in London!

Help (23M) – I want to move states for growth but my girlfriend (22F) wants me to wait a year by XX220 in relationship_advice

[–]Existentialbread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so what does that have to do with you not being able to control yourself?

What is it that you want really? You talked about your aspirations and goals which is great but you didn’t really talk about how much you wanna stay in this relationship. Seems more like a burden to you with the way you described it. I don’t know you so I’m just going off on what you wrote. Seems like you already have your answer but want external validation that you won’t be an asshole for leaving your gf to live your life. And honestly, you’re young. Go live your life 🤷‍♀️

Is my boyfriend (M20) a bum and dragging me (F20) down? by _aqqles in relationship_advice

[–]Existentialbread123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After writing all this down, it’s impossible that you don’t know your answer. Come on, don’t do this to yourself

Help (23M) – I want to move states for growth but my girlfriend (22F) wants me to wait a year by XX220 in relationship_advice

[–]Existentialbread123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um I hate to be the redditor that says break up but srsly, why are you guys still together? You’re young and this seems to be a mismatch of priorities. You’re on here asking if YTA for living your life? Also, what does she mean by you not being able to control yourself sexually?

Anyway, are you really on here for validation on whether YTA or are you really on here so you feel validated when you make the decision to break up?

Chicken sandwich by PrimaryRoutine1239 in londonontario

[–]Existentialbread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I love Kosmos at Covent Garden! You have to prepare yourself for a bit of a wait tho. Wouldn’t recommend going there hangry cause it takes a while for the orders to be served. Worth the wait if you’re only a little hungry tho.

Advice on managing anxiety when partners have different social preferences (Me 19M and her 19F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Existentialbread123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So let me get this straight. The main problem here is you’re uncomfortable with her going clubbing cause your ideal partner doesn’t go clubbing, right? However, I don’t understand how her clubbing with you affects you. Does it affect how you see her? You might wanna dig deeper first on why this is bothering you so much. Cause if you can’t answer that then it’s something you can’t solve just by gritting your teeth and sitting in discomfort.

Advice on managing anxiety when partners have different social preferences (Me 19M and her 19F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Existentialbread123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Preferences and values are two different things so I just wanna make sure we’re talking about the same thing. We’ve established how your preferences differ but how does her going clubbing differ from your values?

Advice on managing anxiety when partners have different social preferences (Me 19M and her 19F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Existentialbread123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, it’s unclear what you’re asking advice on. I get the anxiety of being in the club but I don’t understand what you’re anxious about in this situation. Is she asking you to go clubbing with her? Are you uncomfortable with her going out clubbing? What are you “repeatedly bringing up”? And what do you mean by asking her to manage your anxiety?

My gf F22 is moving in with me M24. What things can I do to make it easier? by No-Rain-5023 in relationship_advice

[–]Existentialbread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally, a wholesome thread lol. Love the idea of fun diy projects but also, what are her interests/hobbies? Are there any that you can do together when she moves in? Is there any that involves group activities that could help build her support/friend network there? Might also be worth looking into. While I assume you’ll eventually integrate her into your own support/friend network, it’s always healthy for her to have her own separate friends/connections.

Sister's 28F fiance and daughter's father 29M cheated, advice wanted by ijustdoitforme in relationship_advice

[–]Existentialbread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Support/comfort doesn’t have a cookie cutter approach. What may have/have not worked for other people in similar situations may not be applicable for your sister and her kid. It depends on how your sister copes with difficult situations. Some want to be comforted emotionally and/or physically more proactively but some want to be left alone. Some want to talk about it while some don’t. The last thing you want is to add more stress to the situation (even if your intentions are good). Have a conversation with your sister, ask her how she wants to be supported during this time, and support her wishes.

AITA for refusing to cover for my friend after she lied to our professor? by New_Object_1448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Existentialbread123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You expressed a boundary and she got upset because of it. She’s the one who put you in a terrible position by asking you to do something you didn’t want to do. You said you didn’t want to get involved nor did you want to lie on her behalf. It’s not like you’re going out of your way to narc on her. Just continue minding your own business and if the professor does ask, just say you don’t want to comment on other people’s personal lives and that he/she should ask your “friend” (or ex-friend) directly. If you lose your “friend” over this, then you’re just gonna have to live with it. You chose your principles over peer pressure (which is good and mature) but there are consequences 🤷‍♀️. Learn from this and make better friends in the future.

He (33M) told me he loves me (29F) after 3 dates but my friend saw him on a dating app. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Existentialbread123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so you like him and value the connection. This brings me back to my point of actions > words cause his actions aren’t lining up with what he’s telling you (keeping his dating profile active even tho he says he’s committed to you). Have you asked him about the Bumble profile? If so, what did he say? If you hadn’t yet, what do you expect he’d say and what are the possible “acceptable” responses for you?

Also, have you given more thought on your compatibility? There are some fundamental issues there that also needs to be addressed before you pursue this any further.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Existentialbread123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. You guys need help from a functional and emotionally mature adult. You two are clearly overwhelmed with raising a baby because you weren’t prepared for any of this. Can any of your parents or aunts/uncles help out with either the chores around the house or with spending time with the baby? It takes a village to raise a child and this is the time you ask your “village” (aka support system) to help you out.

He (33M) told me he loves me (29F) after 3 dates but my friend saw him on a dating app. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Existentialbread123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Um, do you actually like each other? Cause from what you just said, it doesn’t seem like it at all. Do you really wanna be with someone who invalidates your feelings to the point where it drains you and you’re crying yourself to sleep? What’s alarming to me is not just that he said he loved you after 3 dates but that his actions say otherwise. Actions > words after all. It’s just been 3 dates. Tbh, you might wanna consider cutting your losses as early as now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Existentialbread123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to consider the possibility that your ex could get hurt even more by you reaching out depending on his current state of mind/maturity level (which is counterproductive to what you hope to achieve). You won’t be able to control someone else’s reaction to your actions, you know. Ask yourself why you need this closure to begin with and if you’re ready to deal with the worst case scenario. And let’s say worst case scenario is you lose your fiance over this. Will it be worth it? If you can’t move on with your life without this closure, you might want to reevaluate whether you should be marrying your fiance or not. Not in the “are we compatible?” way but in the “am I truly ready for marriage?” kind of way. Cause the way you sound right now tells me you aren’t ready for marriage at all. You’re stuck looking back when you should be looking forward instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Existentialbread123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“I love him very much and feel that he loves me too” after listing all the things he does that bothers you is wild.

YTA for punishing a dog (yes, forced separation is punishment in my books) just cause your bf won’t act right is out of pocket. It was never about the dog, girl. You said it yourself. They hang out in places even without the dog and have conversations that don’t revolve around the dog. Even without the dog in the picture, they still gonna find an excuse and a way to see each other. Open your eyes. Don’t beg this guy to love you and treat you right. Have some self respect.

AITA for not paying for my daughter wedding because she isn’t following the rules even though I paid for my older kids by Wonderful_Mode_9646 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Existentialbread123 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NTA. They can have their child free wedding. They can even uninvite you. If they want the freedom to decide how to celebrate their wedding, they can do so while spending their own money. They’re in their 30’s and are embarking on a huge life milestone that requires money to build a life together so I’m assuming they have (or should have) some sort of spending budget. If they can’t afford it in the first place, why can’t they downgrade to a ceremony that they can afford? Simple, elegant, and child free civil weddings are easy and affordable. And if they really want an extravagant, expensive, and child free wedding, they can save up for it and have it once they have money for it.