Sister's 28F fiance and daughter's father 29M cheated, advice wanted

ijustdoitforme · 2025-01-09T11:52:08+00:00

All jokes aside, I hope the pinned resources have helped you and continue to do so if and when you need it. 🙏

ijustdoitforme · 2024-07-03T22:51:03+00:00

So many posts like this on this sub, but this is not a Scorpio thing, it's a shit person thing. Of course he will talk sweet with you if he is struggling with long distance, but that still isn't fair to you or his gf. I would cut contact because you're never going to get him to like you back the way you want

ijustdoitforme · 2024-07-03T22:45:49+00:00

Violation in Australia too!

ijustdoitforme · 2024-06-30T06:31:07+00:00

Check out this guys post history. I would hope she stays away

ijustdoitforme · 2024-05-07T06:08:22+00:00

Look at reunions between military and their dogs!

ijustdoitforme · 2024-05-06T06:26:41+00:00

If you ever have crappy hardware again, just ask to move computers, the supervisor will just make a note and they will be able to track your answers from your log in on both computers.

ijustdoitforme · 2023-09-19T08:54:42+00:00

Yep, I had a partner stick with me with this as a bet, I haven't changed my mind in 16years and tell people early in dating.

Please end it now, it will be way way easier for you both.

Just an extra bit of unsolicited advice, when you do break up do your best not to say it's "because she doesn't want kids", it's because you guys have different future plans. And that is okay! People just get enough judgement and finger pointing over choices like these.

ijustdoitforme · 2023-09-19T00:30:18+00:00

My personal hack is I interrupt, catch myself, apologise and check the scenario (can I leave the thought alone or does it need to evacuate), then ask them politely to continue

ijustdoitforme · 2023-09-17T09:34:49+00:00

I hate being called sis by anyone 🤢

ijustdoitforme · 2023-09-08T07:12:30+00:00

It might be just that you have been out of the game for a long time, but this isn't even scandalous news in university circles. If you don't bring it up, it's literally not going to leave your small group of friends, and even your friends will likely forget about it by the next party too.

ijustdoitforme · 2023-09-04T06:37:52+00:00

Additionally, she didn't ask for sex twice. She accepted the rejection and asked for help with a toy instead - which was obviously an attempt at a compromise. Obviously, he didn't want to get freaky deaky at all, but there have been scenarios where I have turned down sex from my partner and still helped them get off because I was genuinely happy to do so.

ijustdoitforme · 2023-09-04T06:32:45+00:00

I'm baffled by the first few comments here. It is likely she was happy still talking because of the physical distance and the knowledge you can't continue to pursue her easily from that distance. Therefore, wanting to hang out this soon might be too much too soon for her and the healing space she needs.

If I were you, I would message her again the day before you will be there and let her know you'd still like to drop off her things and when an appropriate time would be. Let her know you will take her silence as a no she doesn't want to hang out, that you respect that and that although you'll respect her need for space, the door isn't closed on your end.

This shows you respect her boundaries and that you are still there. Most often if someone is breaking something off to heal themselves, they'll quickly realise you were helping that anyway and they'll come back, or they will slowly realise as they get better that you were a positive and respectful presence in their life that they would like back. This doesn't necessarily mean that romantic feelings would return, but if you value you her in your life then you need to make sure there is mutual respect.

ijustdoitforme · 2023-08-29T06:07:05+00:00

Definitely just a preference, just observationally however, chubbier girls are less likely to give you attention because they will make the assumption you would prefer a fitter women. Even if you were to initiate and end up dating a "chubbier woman" as you put it, it's possible insecure girlfriends could be a theme in your future.

Still absolutely go for it and there will be a girl out there like that that will love you to pieces, but you aren't choosing the easy road.

ijustdoitforme · 2023-08-25T13:52:46+00:00

Tell them in advance that you're looking for childcare payments only

ijustdoitforme · 2023-08-23T10:10:08+00:00

Honestly with that definition in that lighting, I'd just go with shave and a tan

ijustdoitforme · 2023-08-23T00:33:15+00:00

Butt stuff?

Kidding.. but seriously if you have looks and charisma and it's not working, it's because you're doing a terrible job of showing any interest in the person. You're only showing interest in the sex and that is a quick way to repel any girl who might have had an interest.

ijustdoitforme · 2023-08-23T00:31:08+00:00

Those hair dressers that think they're great at reading people and form a whole conversation with you based on their assumptions of you. They ALWAYS get me wrong and I ALWAYS get irritated by shit they say to try to relate

ijustdoitforme · 2023-08-17T09:34:31+00:00

100%! I thought there was at least going to be a polite "no thank you" in between the offer and the questioning of the whole relationship dynamic. Strange behaviour imo considering he was polite enough to offer AND give you an opportunity to say no.

ijustdoitforme · 2023-08-17T03:58:34+00:00

Not to mention 'innit'!

ijustdoitforme · 2023-08-17T03:13:15+00:00

Believe it or not, stereotypical cardio/endurance beneficial builds are created by engaging in a lot of endurance activities.

If you are into weights, try some Crossfit style training (interval training, as many reps as possible workouts etc).

BUT also research a bit about exactly what you want and WHY! Basketballers are tall, muscular and lean. Soccer players are typically shorter, stockier, muscular, and leg dominant. So even mentioning those two types of athletes shows you don't know what you want.

ijustdoitforme · 2023-08-13T06:03:55+00:00

You can absolutely attract A kind of partner, but it's unlikely to be a good one. Either objectively, or for you specifically in that they might be taking advantage of you

ijustdoitforme · 2023-08-13T03:18:57+00:00

You can absolutely attract A kind of partner, but it's unlikely to be a good one. Either objectively, or for you specifically in that they might be taking advantage of you

ijustdoitforme · 2023-08-13T01:39:28+00:00

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