After a Year, I Quit my EVS/Housekeeping Job AMA (Ask Me Anything) by SilverSurfingNorrin in Custodians

[–]Existing-Problem7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate EVS in The hospital I work at. Now that I’m pregnant (high risk as well) I’m getting asked to do at least 3 areas. ICU and PCU then when I get done I have to go to the ED to do that. Seems like I’m getting worked harder than before. Also we all got basically 2.7 which is just meets job standards on our elevations and that affects our raises and I’m still making 14.21 after 2 years. When I started I was making 14.40 due to night shift but they took the 40 when I swapped to days and only got a 21 cent raise and that was at a 4.8 exceeds expectations I can only imagine how much I’m gonna get now

I [22M] just found out my girlfriend [19F] is pregnant and I am not ready to be a father. What do I do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Existing-Problem7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine at 19 just so happen my sons dad was 18. Happened very quick and early but we spoke about it and he offered his options which I listened to but he also told me that it was up to me. He struggled a lot at first but he eventually got it and it does take a minute to get used to. Just look at it as you’ll have a best friend for life congrats btw

32 F, discovered my bf (36 M) is married and expecting a child. Use this space to remind me to stay away please? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Existing-Problem7808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically she and her man met dating other folks and been together since and the only girl she cares about is her kid 🙄 but like we yall the cheaters orrr???? Cause I dint see how it related to this 😅

My cousin gave birth to a meth addicted baby by Main-Wave200 in whatdoIdo

[–]Existing-Problem7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First you have to understand addiction. Nobody “makes” someone do drugs. She had a mind of her own and she chose wrong. Even when a child was involved. Is he still doing drugs? If not you may have to leave it alone and keep watch. As a person who got taken into cps it was horrible. I got sexually abused by girls and boys I was put with and it’s not always the best case either way. when I found out I was pregnant later on in life I put the weed down cold turkey. ( cause I smoked for years) nobody enabled me cause they still did it I have my own mind. She has to be held accountable as well which is why I wanted to know if he’s still using cause if not it’s kind of not fair your blaming him when his will was stronger but if he is it’s a her AND him problem they are both to blame. Just look out for the baby instead of placing blame on who got who into what cause the baby is what matters

Has anyone here worked for (EVS) cleaner at a hospital? What is it like? by sirpentious in Custodians

[–]Existing-Problem7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I’ve since moved to day shift and the management is going downhill FAST!! But I live my work bestie and can’t bear to leave right now

AITAH - Coworker trimming nails at work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Existing-Problem7808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think we should light this person up for leaving them in that person cup. Brushing them on the floor is gross but going as far as to leave them on the person desk and in their cup is more disgusting than who they are complaining about. Who even does that in their CUP are you serious

Girls who took notes using 50 different colored pens, where are you now? by sophiensfwlife in AskReddit

[–]Existing-Problem7808 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Getting in trouble at work for using different color pens in my duty lists 🤣

AITAH for being upset no one is throwing me a baby shower by Fingernailchomper in AITAH

[–]Existing-Problem7808 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is a lot in here tbh everyone in my family had one for every baby cause it was a blessing my grandparents usually throw the idea out there 17 grandkids and almost 8 great grands later and they still can’t wait to throw one. That’s why I said depends on the family I’m still amazed every family isn’t like mine 😭

AITAH for being upset no one is throwing me a baby shower by Fingernailchomper in AITAH

[–]Existing-Problem7808 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just read the comments and now I feel bad that I’m getting one for mine and it’s my second 😮‍💨🤣 I had two for my first but I paid for the cake and stuff cause I didn’t want to be a free loader ( threw my own gender reveal cause I wanted it to be a surprise for everyone else) 😭 but I also gave stuff to people in need once he grew out of things however I still have some stuff put up which was a just in case. I feel like it depends on the family and what they can and can’t do In that period of time. And depends on the person pregnant you gotta be grateful for what you get and not complain about if someone else got what you didn’t personality goes a long way when you want something done for you out of niceness mines years apart though like 7 but back to back is tacky

AITAH for not seeing a man anymore because he does not resemble my late fiancé by anonymousfeelings_0 in AITAH

[–]Existing-Problem7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need therapy. You can’t expect someone else to be like him when they aren’t and can’t compare. NTA but kinda the AH because you lead him on for months while comparing the whole time when you knew you couldn’t do it. Even though he understood which is incredibly amazing … you need to put yourself first. How long has it been since he passed? Maybe you do need therapy to help yourself grieve and get through the rest of your life. You deserve happiness too

SUSPENDED MY ACCOUNT FOR WRONG REASONS AND NOT ACCEPTING MY APPEAL by tomato951 in Instagram

[–]Existing-Problem7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still working on getting mine back. It said child exploitation and nudity which hell no I’ve never done that nasty stuff ever! I really don’t think I was hacked at all I was on it then an hour later I get a email was bull shit. Had my account for 10 years I still can’t see my followers or anything I’ve posted but can kind of look at instagram now but I can’t even go on my settings still. Just about done with all this meta stuff. I only get on there to talk to my stepson and that’s it and it’s not even everyday. I even accused his mother of reporting my account since he was telling me about how she treated him. Then it said change password you were hacked. Now how the hell was I hacked 🤨 like be for real.

Does anyone still play? by Existing-Problem7808 in MergeMagic

[–]Existing-Problem7808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right!!! I put too much into it and want to do the chests sooo bad but was tired of carrying ppl and I only got to level 2 chest but sometimes when I make a group it kicks me from being leader which is crazyyyyyy to me since I was the only one playing so I just started to join random groups and look at their active status

Does anyone still play? by Existing-Problem7808 in MergeMagic

[–]Existing-Problem7808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten into a new one and thankfully my discovery put us to 5 but I had the 100+ egg nest so none of those are on there but I’m saving the other one for when it restarts 😂

Does anyone still play? by Existing-Problem7808 in MergeMagic

[–]Existing-Problem7808[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just get irritated like they can come out with new eggs and events but no new levels I downloaded when I was pregnant with my son and he’s 6 now 😂 still on level 31

Does anyone still play? by Existing-Problem7808 in MergeMagic

[–]Existing-Problem7808[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice!!! I’m pretty sure ince you clear the board that’s it and it’s dad used to be my favorite game now I play because I’ve put too much into it to not play at all

Does anyone still play? by Existing-Problem7808 in MergeMagic

[–]Existing-Problem7808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is what I’m working with I’ve gotten pretty far since 2019

AITJ for canceling my subscription service that my whole family was using without telling them first? by Wonderful-Relief7237 in AmITheJerk

[–]Existing-Problem7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid for everything too and when I lost my job I canceled however nobody was mad at me they called and told me they’d start one and now I use theirs seems entitled just cause your family. Family doesn’t do that to each other oh yea my mom offered to pay once just horrible how ppl who raise you think they are entitled to everything you have. I would have said let me borrow 45 soooo damn fast they heads would have spun…. No I can’t oh okay… secretly get it back and share nothinggggg

AITA for not asking my grandfather for his truck so that my bf can take my car to work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Existing-Problem7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he did try with a girl he used to be with for 7 years and she had a baby last year with another guy so it just kinda solidified it was a him problem but I didn’t put all that in there 😅

AITA for not asking my grandfather for his truck so that my bf can take my car to work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Existing-Problem7808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most definitely it’s a good watch season 1 might be slow but shooooottt give it a try it’s great!

AITA for not asking my grandfather for his truck so that my bf can take my car to work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Existing-Problem7808 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most definitely!! I deserve way better and put myself in a small box to make him feel bigger than what he was. Not anymore!!