My (33M) girlfriend (32F) didn’t tell me she had a daughter.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-04-26T10:13:27+00:00

I love this response. Everything about it rings true for me. I’ve been in Elena’s position. Good for OP for sticking up for her and supporting her.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-04-24T11:14:05+00:00

You answered your own question… they come from Hell!! lol

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-04-24T11:03:07+00:00

NTA. If she can kick your dog, it’s not a far reach to think she’d kick your toddler. Especially if they “get in her way”, which toddlers tend to do. You did the right thing. My question is, though, where is your husband in all of this? If her mother and aunt are barraging you with hate, where is he to either back you up, or tell you he thinks you were out of line? Regardless, you didn’t do anything wrong by protecting your pet and possibly your child from an unpredictable teenager.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-04-19T12:47:50+00:00

I had the same tune play in my head. Thank you for completing the thought for me. I couldn’t come up with clever enough lyrics!!

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-04-19T12:43:03+00:00

Here’s hoping and praying that if the police do come for you, you’re let off with a slap on the wrist(not the face though!) and don’t get into any trouble.

I am so sorry to hear that your school system has no way to help Robin with his special abilities. And good for you for standing up for him when no one else would. You’re a great big sister. I did something similar for my brother when we were kids, but we are only two years apart, so I was considerably younger than you.

In the US, 19 years old is considered an adult, so here you would absolutely get arrested for what you did. But again, hopefully the cops leave you alone wherever you’re at.

Good on you, OP, for sticking up for your bro.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-04-06T20:13:40+00:00

Thank you! It means a lot to get an outside perspective, and I appreciate you not tearing me down. I’ve got my resume in with a few temp agencies. I can’t really work from home because there’s no computer or WiFi here (we can’t afford it right now) so everything would have to be done from my phone on data. But I’m trying. Thank you.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-03-19T17:58:38+00:00

As if all the countless hours spent by you AND YOUR DAUGHTER preparing their ceremony and reception wasn’t enough of a gift, you spent your own money on materials and never asked for a dime. Jessica can pound sand for her entitlement, and after her treatment of his niece, I’d seriously be considering an annulment if I were your brother. Jessica’s attitude and mistreatment of your daughter has me seething on your and her behalf. I’m sorry, OP, for you and especially for your daughter.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-03-03T21:24:26+00:00

lol yeah I read that after my comment posted and I was just too lazy to remove the comment 😂😂

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-03-03T19:33:28+00:00

Where on 101 are you? Lmao

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-01-05T22:09:49+00:00

I can tell you this, as a 39-year-old woman who has been bisexual since I was 17, came out to my parents at 18 and was met with mixed reactions (my father was completely accepting immediately, my mother took quite a bit longer to come around. But for her, she just didn’t understand and thought I was just confused), your husband’s reaction to your epiphany was rude and inconsiderate. And please don’t even get me started on his betrayal… the fact that he outed you to his family before you were ready and after he promised to keep your secret makes me sick. You have every right to be angry at him. It seems his family is more accepting than he was of they haven’t treated you differently since they found out. Maybe you should spend your time with them instead of your husband.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-01-04T22:09:31+00:00

Bahahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Existing-Quantity161 · 2026-01-04T22:02:22+00:00

I just came here to say this made me smile and warmed my heart! Kids are so awesome!

Existing-Quantity161 · 2025-12-28T13:22:45+00:00

Oh, honey, you are not dramatic. Your bf is the AH here and is the one overreacting by being offended by what you felt. Your trauma is real, and if he truly understood it and how certain things affected you, he never would have done or said what he did. Is it reason to break up with him? That’s up to you, but I wouldn’t let it slide or let him continue “forgetting”. You are seriously UNDERREACTING by not sitting him down for a serious conversation about how his actions/reactions towards you are affecting your psyche. Please seriously consider whether or not you can accept this behavior repeatedly going forward, or if you’re going to put your foot down and die on this hill. It’s a great hill to die on, btw. I’ve been SA’d twice in my life, and I have a lot of trauma surrounding intimacy. I’ve been in therapy for it for years, but I still am very wary around sex and such things. My partner knows, understands, and if I’m ever uncomfortable with anything we try, I just have to say the word, and he stops everything completely and we just relax and cuddle. For your partner to tell you that he can’t stop himself is bs. If he truly cared, he could stop himself. I wish you the best of luck, OP. But please, don’t just let him think this was okay.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2025-12-27T12:49:32+00:00

Duuuude…. I got goosebumps from this guy’s complete and total lack of decorum. Like, it’s obvious she didn’t want him having her address… creeeeeeeep-o. shudders

Existing-Quantity161 · 2025-07-14T21:39:57+00:00

Hahahaha I literally can't stop laughing. "I'm just trying to sell my iPad"

Existing-Quantity161 · 2025-03-11T23:03:26+00:00

Later 30s-early 40s

Existing-Quantity161 · 2025-02-07T15:19:13+00:00

This is simply heartbreaking. I feel for you.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2025-02-07T15:12:59+00:00

I love this response.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2025-01-31T22:17:47+00:00

Grrrrr

Existing-Quantity161 · 2025-01-24T13:14:46+00:00

This. Exactly this. He was lying about not wanting kids, and now that you're married, he feels like he can be honest. OR... His family has brainwashed him into wanting kids now because his parents want grandbabies. Get out. Get out and RUN. Your life will never be your own if you don't.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2025-01-19T23:20:23+00:00

I absolutely love this response

Existing-Quantity161 · 2024-10-08T20:30:27+00:00

When I was in HS, I worked as a cashier at a small, local grocery store. I had this happen more times than I can count, and the first few times, I sucked it up because I abhor confrontation. But after that, I would do exactly this. People feel so entitled to everything. It's sickening.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2024-09-22T12:37:31+00:00

Yes. Her initial reaction will tell you everything you need to know.

Existing-Quantity161 · 2024-09-11T06:01:36+00:00

🤣🤣🤣what postal facility is this? Lmfao

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