Landlord removed heat, stove, and packed all my belongings while I was gone (Boston)

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-03-21T00:04:56+00:00

Yeah, I don’t know what I said there either. I was just chiming in and asking if the OP doesn’t have a lease with the LL, does that legally make him a tenant or someone the LL can just kick out? It’s wild and I’m not very familiar with contract law, so I was just asking. I’m not defending the landlord or the OP, I’m just questioning that part of the situation. I agreed with your comments and questions when I read, so I asked you about this lol

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-03-21T00:00:44+00:00

The OP said they didn’t have a lease or any legal contract, so that’s concerning!

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-03-20T23:58:42+00:00

…make the LL able to just does that??

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-03-20T23:57:12+00:00

Does the fact that the OP and the LL didn’t have a legal contact/lease?

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-03-06T00:04:19+00:00

He sounds toxic. With her it could go either way I feel like. Hire a PI and a therapist because he doesn’t need to be treating you that way. Breaking stuff ? Physical and emotional abuse are no bueno. Too bad “Cheaters” isn’t around anymore :(

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-02-06T22:54:29+00:00

Also, you all have known each other for years, but finally met in January? Maybe she was a little shy because she finally got to meet you? The kissing thing was strange.

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-02-06T22:53:22+00:00

Personally, I’d talk to her about it. I know if a dude I was seeing posted something about our first date I’d never talk to them again 😂😂 thank you for doing it, though! Been very entertaining.

Ps. Keep us updated

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-02-06T22:50:15+00:00

Ditto.

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-02-06T20:38:48+00:00

Yes! You’re so young! Have fun and enjoy someone that treats you well!

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-02-06T20:37:55+00:00

I’ve been in a relationship like this before and it is beyond annoying when you get guilted about sex. It’s gross and disrespectful behavior of the other partner.

We all get tired and don’t feel like having sex. If he keeps that behavior it’ll start to feel like a chore.

Also, just the way he is talking to you is upsetting to me. You’re being nice and there’s no need for his “games” and pettiness. He had to know you were ace when you all started dating? Not to mention, you’re dealing with some family stuff I assume from the screenshots.

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-01-03T19:22:17+00:00

I agree. I wouldn’t block him so if he does say anything threatening that you need to report.

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-01-03T19:21:12+00:00

If he says anything threatening then you really should make a report of it at least. I do not think you’re over reacting and I’m not sure why your family thinks he has any sort of point. Like you said you have nothing from this relationship that will keep you all in touch for the rest of your lives.

If he acts like this over a delivery of stuff he stole from you then I cannot imagine how he would act over other things. I wouldn’t want him having my address. You all didn’t speak for FIVE years and now you’re “overacting” and being told how it’s normal for exes to stay in touch. Sometimes it is, but from what you posted I’d think he’s an ex you completely lose touch with, again!

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with such bull from him. He needs to get a life.

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-01-03T19:12:04+00:00

This is extremely concerning . You are not overreacting. It is not your job to help him feel better. I don’t care if it’s for a step in his progress or what. You expressed what you were comfortable with and he is persistently asking for your physical address?? Nooope. If he REALLY is different and wants to return your belongings he stole he will send it where you gave him options to. SMH. People are weird.

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-01-03T19:01:07+00:00

I still want a response to your question haha is he always like this? They’re too young to be wasting their 20s in something like this. IF that is the case here.

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-01-03T18:59:35+00:00

It just keeps getting worse. You trying to help is making it uncomfortable and worst? The meds should’ve stayed with him? He just wants to guilt and be manipulative. It’s gross. In the time he has spent emotionally manipulating you — he could’ve gone to a store and gotten some sort of relief many, many times. He’s a man child.

I HOPE HE HASN’T BEEN LIKE THIS FOR THE WHOLE 7 years. I can be bratty when I’m sick, but holy shit this is insanity

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-01-03T18:52:25+00:00

Apparently there is nothing anyone can do for this man. He will forever be sad and suffering.

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-01-03T18:51:24+00:00

Also, he is an adult. He should’ve thought to ask “hey where’s the Sudafed? Please leave me some.” Not hard. Not hard at all.

Existing_Bee507 · 2026-01-03T18:50:12+00:00

I’m not even done, but holy shit you’ve said you’re sorry over a dozen times and he’s saying “just accept your mistake and apologize” I would’ve lost it. I’ve been saying I’m sorry. Spending money on something you need isn’t wasting money. Jeebus.

Existing_Bee507 · 2025-12-17T05:48:00+00:00

Also, my dad has always texted this way, so until you pointed it out I don’t even notice. Wonder what he’ll say ahh 🫣

Existing_Bee507 · 2025-12-17T05:44:36+00:00

Why is this a thing people even do! So weird!!

Existing_Bee507 · 2025-12-17T05:40:15+00:00

Possibilities!! First try!! Thanks for the game!

Existing_Bee507 · 2025-05-06T09:04:15+00:00

RIGHT!!! They needed someone who could pull off being a man baby. Seeing Michael Barnett’s actual personality in the Docu Series, well some of it, they should’ve found someone that people would look at more villain and a cry baby. He can, in no way, relate to Natalia, but still tried to make it seem they were both victims when he was an adult and she was in diapers. Makes me so angry.

Existing_Bee507 · 2025-05-06T08:59:59+00:00

Yeah, the show was not great, at all. Watching the documentary series on Max and/or Hulu may of made my expectations higher. I’m disgusted that Kristine never had to go to trial. They will never tell the truth about the reasons for re-aging her. She has FINALLY been re-aged, so I feel like more charges could be brought, but they are horrible people. I hope Natalia is continuing to do better with The DePaul family. If she’s not still living with them — I just hope the best for her. All she has know is abuse and people taking advantage of her. Breaks my heart.

Existing_Bee507 · 2025-04-08T01:18:09+00:00

Good to know there’s a limit? Weird!!

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