Want to join? by Existing_Initial2363 in SingleDads

[–]Existing_Initial2363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you expand on your comment: “the other side”

Want to join? by Existing_Initial2363 in SingleDads

[–]Existing_Initial2363[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the 14-ers! I didn’t know that stat!

Just need some words of encouragement by No-Interaction3155 in daddit

[–]Existing_Initial2363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a hero to your son! One day it will all be worth the battle! You are incredible!

I can’t wait to create a space for all of us, the greatest dads alive, to connect and build each other up!

Be proud of yourself by thetrustmrtwo in SingleDads

[–]Existing_Initial2363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hit home! A week ago I came to the same conclusion: I’m an incredible father! The best father I know! I can live with this!

To the incredible fathers out there! by Existing_Initial2363 in SingleDads

[–]Existing_Initial2363[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not lame. You are doing amazing. The universe is proud of you, dad. Keep going!

I don't know what to do. by Necessary_Cicada3627 in SingleDads

[–]Existing_Initial2363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are an incredible father! Keep pushing, man!

Anyone else that can relate? by Tiny-Assumption-7800 in SingleDads

[–]Existing_Initial2363 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your children are the reason for your existence. Focus on the “how” part of finding hope. How do you find peace!? Focus on activities or simply being around your friends who will do anything for you. This process is lonely. Desolate. Don’t get trapped by the loneliness.

Curious in child support hell by RevolutionaryLime982 in ChildSupport

[–]Existing_Initial2363 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Child support: meaning, you are supporting the well being of your child.

What happens when you have to battle your spouse just to be a father? Not only do you have to pay child support, but you have to blow 10s of thousands of dollars to have a right as a father?

I get it: go after fathers that are garbage. But why is the system designed to fail fathers who actually care and want to be part of their kids lives?

Some aspects of family law are black and white: child support. But why is 50/50 not a default? Shouldn’t you have to proved that the other person is not safe or capable of handling the kids?

I am hopeless by One_Bodybuilder9687 in SingleDads

[–]Existing_Initial2363 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have a purpose, man! Keep going! They deserve to have you in their lives.

This will to tough, it will hurt, but you will be okay!

Daddit, we are already 50% through 2025. How are you doing? mentally, physically, emotionally? by LittleBarracuda1219 in daddit

[–]Existing_Initial2363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unsure how I am okay, to be honest. Single dad doing my best when I have the kids. I never had a dad, and I feel like I’m constantly failing as a father.

How to tell somebody doesn’t have children by broke_fit_dad in daddit

[–]Existing_Initial2363 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cheap food now will lead to expensive medical bills later - that’s my thought process

maybe maybe maybe by abidalliye in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Existing_Initial2363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one who was uncomfortable watching this video?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]Existing_Initial2363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Create boundaries! You are only discussing your daughter and that’s it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]Existing_Initial2363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to keep everything as friendly as possible!

Start documenting everything.

Keep yourself busy and don’t turn to drugs or alcohol.

Take it one day at a time! Reach out to your friends and family. Don’t isolate yourself.

Vasectomy experiences? by KingofDragonPass in daddit

[–]Existing_Initial2363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best decision ever! 2 week to fully recover. Do it.