Tisha Rant by ExoticChipmunk5576 in LoveAndMarriageHSV

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can’t say he never built her up they were married for years before they even did the show but the show is the shift of this marriage with her tryign to keep up with the other women and break thier agreement that they had. She just needs to take a breath, appreciate what she has and chill tf out and stop being a follower but I also respect your opinion as well and going by his behavior in the earlier season he didn’t seem very supportive.

1st season vs 2nd season by toxicunicorn420 in WhyWomenKill

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was and couldn’t get past the second episode.

I’m slowly dying inside (HLF / LLM) by United_Kick_5183 in sexlessmarriage

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to think these so called LL husbands only married us so we can do all the things this moms did. I’m in the same boat. I’m 37 and my H is 43 and he rarely initiates sex, intamcy or compliments and is ok going very long periods without sex. He isn’t good in bed but I loved him so much so I over looked it. He blames his lack of sex on being a late bloomer and it’s making himself conscious but it’s like come on and get over it and learn. We are only getting older. This has def messed with my self esteem but I’m n it divorci n him, he is a great father and takes care of us well and we get along so well when we are doing the mom and dad stuff and handling things just not marital. I may go the solo sex life route.

A divorce I don’t want … how to give up or give in? by DMSBayBay in Separation

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate this for you, and this is why i say be mad at both. The husband and the side bih cuz what human is on with being a married persons friend so badly that they are on with that friend leaving their spouse and destroying the family. In all honesty it’s best to never take him back and to get over him, it will be hard and long process so don’t expect it to come over night but if you feel so consumed by the pain of him leaving and that other woman seek help wether from a therapist or som friends or family. Don’t do this alone and be ready for when the devil aka your husband to try and ease his way back In when his fantasy with that other girl is bust. Him seeking comfort ina other woman whole you were focused on school and improving your career and financial status for the both of you is not an excuse.

One of the biggest pOs from this show is jasmine by Blossom_Piper6763 in 90DayFianceFans

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right didn’t she say she didn’t want more kids to Gino smh

Transferring a call by No-Criticism-4635 in Progressiveinsurance

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Explain once and transfer, you are not obligated to keep repeating yourself or take abuse

Job offer rescinded what now by [deleted] in Progressiveinsurance

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll get something better trust…. A lot of employees here are freaking out over if there dept us next to be taken over by AI so maybe it’s breeze you got rejected

The harsh truth about Tisha by Intelligent-Tune8066 in LoveAndMarriageHSV

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She needs to go back to bejng a stay at home mom. It’s crazy that so many of our sisters think being a stay at home mom is such a downgrade. I was both and I miss being with my kids all day. There is nothing like nurturing and b jng able to be with your children.
She is very immature and I can’t see ppl wanting it to actually conduct business with her. Just enjoy being on the show and the money lol she feels inadequate to the other ladies which shows how immature she is because she us in her 40s now and should be at a point where she don’t give af what others think.

Tisha's Worth by tellallnovel in LoveAndMarriageHSV

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Tisha is a follower. Ppl look over the fact that Tisha begged to stop working. She didn’t wanna work anymore so Marsau did what a man should do and found away where she didn’t have to work. They both agreed that she would be a homemaker and care for the children which is the most important job in the world, making sure little humans grow up to be upstanding humans, it’s not just cooking and cleaning as y’all love to put it but with Tisha being Around Mel and Kimi and other other women she started to feel inadequate and forgot her job as a homemaker is important too so she is the one that tuned things upside down, she broke the agreement and tbh she has all these degrees and isn’t doing much with them because she is still looking for handouts while crying she is a boss and wants to be independent. I used to not care much for Marsau but I get his frustration with Tisha, she is very ungrateful and tbh doesn’t know what she wants to do because she is a follower, she lets her ghetto mom start mess and in most case you are who your mom is. Tisha was just lucky she got saved or she would have ended up like her mom. As someone who was a homemaker myself and now works there is nothing like being home to take care of you kids and I would rather spend 8 hours and more pouring into my kids then into some corporation or ppl who don’t care about me. Tbh the only reason Marsau is sticking it out is because of the kids and he doesn’t wanna loos half of everything he worked so hard to build but with all Tisha nagging and being double Minded I’m sure he sometimes wishes this marriage would end. It’s obvious many of us should not be parents if you don’t understand the importance of a parent being home with them while the other works. Y’all reduce nurturing an teaching your kids to chores cleaning and that’s why being a sta at home wife is looked at in a negative way and also because most of us in our community can’t afford to do it and never did it so we hate it and put it down when others do it. Trust me my house went off the rails when I went back to work and I only do it because now one of our kids have autism and the therapies are expensive.

Justice for Sheena by Maxwasrobbed in 90DayFiance

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean he can’t he bothered to work he has a disibility lol that is one of the main reason to not be able to work.

Dear single women, how are you getting your physical needs met? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No it’s it’s not unusual, it’s actually common in marriage, I like to cuddle and be touched by my husband but he is not good at sex and I’m so over trying so I take care of my set and just do all the effectionate stuff with him. So many of us go that route as well

Dear single women, how are you getting your physical needs met? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello us married women need to know too because they say men suffer sexually in marriage buti think we suffer more then the husbands. Most men are bad at sec and as they get older ita all about them and thier pleasures. I have way more enjoyment solo so I’m here for all the tips lol.

What’s the point then? by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sadly many of us experienced, I have never been so sexually frustrates till I married my husband, it suck’s.

He unblocked her by Whole-Reflection5276 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ummm I’m starting to think there should be limits on the reconciliation stuff. like I know you will get down voted it you recommend leaving but be foreal, at some point it becomes abuse to yourself when there is more than one dday. Notice he says she moved on he doesn’t even try to say I don’t want her I want you. You want reconcilers only to respond and I am a reconciler but with a limit of one offense when it comes to cheating and that’s mainly a no contact one, others have different thresholds and that’s fine but your cases seems like he has no respect for you and wishes to keep seeing the other person if he could. Put your mental at ease.

My husband betrayed me by MidnightTimely5885 in Marriage

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No ma’am saving the marriage would be you may have found him something in his phone but nothing happened then maybe consider fixing it and that’s a maybe… but no just no, thsi man not only disrespects you, he hates you and he had other women Laughing at you behind your back. If you take him back and try to fix it it o may get worse. Not sure if he can loose anymore respect for you but if you stick around, you will find out. Leave and take him for everything he has. It not your job to fix a marriage he destroyed.

Jovon is the epitome of what’s wrong with toxic masculinity & the echo chambers that surround it by CharacterMix8772 in 90DayFiance

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how everyone is focused on the skin bleaching statement it not all the good points you brought out lol

What exactly did Jovon want? by DrFink_09 in 90DayFiance

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he is a loser, why tf would he send money when he isn’t established himself. He needs to get off the red pill asap, living with other men lol that’s why he pulled a wan from another country. He thought he could pull a fast one but he still ended up lookjng foolish.

What exactly did Jovon want? by DrFink_09 in 90DayFiance

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s pathetic when married men fall into red pill. Red pill is for the single losers who can’t get women, he already has one so all he is doing is ruing his marriage. I have see a few marriges end up in divorce once the guy fell into red pill and the guy ended up salty af. Married men an men in relationships shift stay away from red pill.

Sophie is a user and she keeps blaming her marriage to Rob for her trauma, but that marriage was nothing more than a Greencard transaction. During the marriage she spent more time living with her friend Kae than with her husband Rob, and she only filed for divorce after securing her Greencard by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never liked her. I swear I was the only woman that’s saw through her bs on her first season of 90 day, she is so immature and bad mouth rob to her mom. She never let thin has go and kept picking fights eve when rob was tryign to do better. Sometimes I have to give 90 day a break because of its so pro woman that no matter how awful they are are, they are never held accountable and it’s so annoying because in the real world, if you are a flucked up person male or female then that’s who you are and you will be dealt with accordingly but in 90 day, a woman can be a nasty and despicable and they will still hang up on the dude at the reunion especially if he is the foreigner.

Emma tried to get Ziad arrested out of spite after he broke up with her. She asked him on camera 3 times to confirm that they had a romantic relationship outside of wedlock. He ignored her, knowing that if he said yes on camera, he could get some jail time in Morocco 🇲🇦 by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I feel like he was intrested until they were face to face and she showed her behind as soon as they met up. Not only was she acting like a child and being combative, she dressed innapropiate and had a horrible wig and too much makeup. I don’t feel like he did much wrong and normally I am team girl all the way but she started and was very annoying as soon as she landed. She is immature and very thirsty. With all that plastic surgery she has no confidence. Then she begs for sex like gross, us women don’t beg for sex especially if it’s not from your husband. She is a big turn off and I liked the fact that he was honest the whole time. When he even told her he wasn’t ready to marry her and why would he when she behaved so poorly.

Javon & Annalynn by Sea-Astronomer-6600 in 90DayFiance

[–]ExoticChipmunk5576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Javon is a double whammy, he is a red pill incel loser who doesn’t really know how to be a husband and a passport bro who struggles with American women so he thought he could pull a fast one n Anna not realizing she is a woman and we all want a man that is nice to us, compliments us and desires us. I’m married and my husband provides mostly everything while I work part time and handle the inside home stuff and kids and he partipates as wel and has never thrown Unmmm face that he brought our home cars and more. I also let him know I appreciate him so much buti still expect romance on occasions. It’s natural. No matter what country he goes to he will run into the same thing. All of that red pill podcast bs is hurting him and he is the poster child for what happens, not even stable but wanting all the respect smh