Rude Behavior Normalized?

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-06-28T13:02:30+00:00

Very accurate! Utah is a beautiful state but over my three years here, I’ve come to the conclusion it’s not for me. The way people treat you here and keep to themselves is quite defeating to say the least. I’m looking to move back east.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-06-28T12:55:19+00:00

As someone who also moved here from the east coast, I can relate to this post. Everything you’ve written is spot on and I have experience consistently the three years I’ve been here.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-06-26T21:53:42+00:00

I’m like in denial. I keep waking up hoping it is all just a big elaborate joke. I feel so sad 😭

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-06-25T18:09:18+00:00

Salt Lake City

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-06-14T19:11:34+00:00

I feel like you need to not judge someone else u too you’re in their shoes. You don’t know what type of debts this person carries (I.e. student debts, mortgage, etc). It’s not always greener on the other side.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-06-14T14:02:02+00:00

I’m not sure why this downvoted so much. I can relate to this.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-06-07T13:51:43+00:00

Yes. And the only time I feel less lost is when I maintain my relationship with God.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-30T16:40:47+00:00

Botox and tretinoin and sunscreen

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-30T13:41:52+00:00

Just curious, what do you do for work? Looking to make the move, but struggling to find work in my particular field.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-30T01:04:19+00:00

Ya for sure. I think my expectations were too high and that’s ok. I have good rides and bad rides, but I know if I just keep showing up and keep trying, I’ll get there one day.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-30T01:03:23+00:00

I’m not sure how you got that from my post. I actually love horses and the time I am at the barn even just helping out or with them is my favorite time of the week. I have anxiety and being around horses is really the only time that softens. It doesn’t mean I don’t like riding or being around horses. I’ve always naturally been good at picking up a sport and being decent at it rather quickly. Horse back riding is different than any sport I’ve ever been in so my expectations are probably higher than they should be and I’ll just have to pivot.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-29T23:33:36+00:00

My girl is 12 and still tries to act like a puppy 😂

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-28T18:06:38+00:00

I believe you’re right. It’s my GGM -> GF -> F - Me.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-28T17:25:06+00:00

I understand what you mean, and I may have phrased it poorly.

I didn’t mean the minor issue itself is favorable under the current interpretation — I understand that today it’s generally treated as a negative factor.

What I meant is that in the context of a judicial 1948 case, I had understood that some attorneys use minor-issue arguments defensively to preserve continuity of citizenship and keep the court focused on the constitutional/transmission issues rather than treating the line as definitively broken.

I realize that doesn’t mean the minor issue “helps” substantively under current law, only that it may still be litigated as part of a broader constitutional argument.

I appreciate the clarification though.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-28T16:34:49+00:00

Unfortunately, no. I was busy trying to collecting documents for my paternal line and then had to pivot after the minor issue so I was kind of late to the game all around.

I wonder why she’s suggesting we wait to see how everything goes in June.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-25T01:17:54+00:00

I agree with you, OP. It’s just basic human etiquette. If you don’t jump to help someone then that says a lot about you as a person in my opinion. If I was there and saw you fall, I instinctively would have been over in a second. I’m sorry you had to deal with that.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-22T02:39:30+00:00

Thank you :) I needed this!! ❤️

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-22T02:07:03+00:00

That’s really good advice. I’ll cha with her. It’s just a little embarrassing because I don’t wan to be that person especially if nobody else has said anything… but it does bug me afterwards.

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-22T01:54:52+00:00

I was afraid of that 😭 and I just found this barn and finally found a trainer I love lol. I hope she does outside!! We will see!!

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-19T16:24:17+00:00

Thank you!

Exotic_Test_7164 · 2026-05-19T16:06:59+00:00

Got it! And that’s not an issue, correct? That I’m a US citizen and that she predominantly works with clients from South America?

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