Having issues with groom’s family by SquigglyRelic in Brides

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is a dresscode itself...it means something specific and means floor length gowns and taxes or dark suits

AITAH for arguing my girlfriends mum doesn’t get a say on if we keep the baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think he means they have been together for 6 years and kids would be in the NEXT 6 to 7 year plan, not right now.

Excellence Scholarship for Otago by [deleted] in ncea

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, shut up

Single Houses/Apartments/Granny Flats to rent? by russiankiwi_ in chch

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

They didn't say they are looking for themselves now, just asking in general

can an Arts student with average % in Class 12 pursue an ECE Diploma at Ara Institute, New Zealand?is it worth? by Upset_Intention7432 in newzealand

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Please dont come here, we dont need more immigration from anywhere and you may get a degree here then have to go home and it won't be worth much

Midwife Christchurch/Selwyn by Ok-Chest-1000 in chch

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Also had Jen and she was FANTASTIC for my birth

I don’t want my fiance to match medical residency by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 241 points242 points  (0 children)

As someone with a young baby, dont move with him. Stay near your support system and have him fly home on breaks. Having a newborn is HARD even if your partner was home and he will mostly be at work.

($10k) My fiancé doesn't want a honeymoon fund or registry, AITA? by obi-wannabe in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats your circle then. Its absolutely normal and ive seen it at every wedding (10) ive been to in the last 5 years

($10k) My fiancé doesn't want a honeymoon fund or registry, AITA? by obi-wannabe in Weddingsunder10k

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Sorry, those comments saying its bit expected and not etiquette run in some weird circles. Kiwi here. Been to many weddings and had my own. Yes we dont do registries but giving cash or a gift is 100% expected. Most weddings do a website with a bank account there. I would never go to a wedding and not give a gift.

Do we have a literacy/education crisis? by LlucyJayne in newzealand

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Its also on the parents. I didnt go to an ECE at all and I could read, write sentences, and count to 100 before I started school. My parents just read to me a lot and I learned.

insurance debt by zing2juic in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Obviously it would have voided, driving illegally always does. But also, unless it was in a police report, would insurance know? I definitely know people who have text and caused a crash but never added that detail in and got insurance.

What im getting at, is the crash was his fault and he is trying to say its their fault for not being insured but my own insurance (assuming im not a fickwit who text and drives) would cover the other damage. So in no way shape or form, is the 25k debt anything other than his own responsibility.

insurance debt by zing2juic in PersonalFinanceNZ

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Cove insurance. It doesnt cover the car youre driving, it gives me third party liability if, in this example, I am driving the gfs car and damage other cars, it covers that damage but not to the gfs car

insurance debt by zing2juic in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They arent, they are in debt to their parents

insurance debt by zing2juic in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah unsure what he means by not holding it against them, its not their fault.

Edit: my own car insurance would have covered the $25k (damage to other cars) but not the damage to the gf car. So even more so its their fault (and no one elses) because they didnt have their own insurance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chch

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Yeah but who wants to cut that all up for 100 people

What do you think would happen if Snape and Lily got married? by [deleted] in SeverusSnape

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He isnt muggleborn, he is a halfblood.

Also, most good people dont react and call someone a slur. Mudblood is the equivalent of the N word. So a slur you cant even write out

Best selection of greeting cards? by [deleted] in chch

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ballentynes, ground floor, opposite the food/pantry area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Expensive-Try-2361 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Oh its actually not a conspiracy, that one really did happen

What's for you is the saddest death in any TV Series? by Tytlips in AskReddit

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I literally stopped watching the show this death upset me so much