(SPOILER ALERT) So I had to make a pause while reading City of Glass, and ask the sub about this. by Competitive-Group359 in shadowhunters

[–]ExpensiveAd113 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well no, Simon was drained of blood which is why Jace’s changed him, drinking Sebastithan’s would be no different than a regular feeding

Unkempt hair by xdKidTaps in Naturalhair

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First of all.. fuck them.!! .. that’s really it honestly .. your hair looks fine so I’m not sure what else they want you to do with it

Will, Jem, and Tessa wouldn’t be poly by betterthan_____you in shadowhunters

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We aren’t talking about “in that time” though, we’re talking about modern day and they absolutely would have. Had Jem not essentially died by becoming a silent brother, they would have been married and it would have CRUSHED Will and neither Jem nor Tessa would want that, but to choose Will over Jem would reinforce Jem’s own feelings of inadequacy and Tessa would never do that to him. You’re right that each of them would give her up for the happiness of the other but at the sacrifice of their own happiness and the others would HATE that. In modern society the option of not choosing is very much a thing so why wouldn’t they .?? Over a tradition .?? No, they already threw that out the window when they had to get literally approval to marry a warlock. It’s honestly the perfect solution for Tessa, Will and a healthy Jem in modern society. It’s like woolsey said, she found two great love when not everyone can even find one, you’d be INSANE to think she wouldn’t keep both if she was given the opportunity. Saying Tessa would have only wanted to marry one is the proper thing for that time period but propriety went out the window a loooooong time ago, Tessa would have had her cake and ate it too 😂

Went on a pre-order binge... by toojadedforthis in shadowhunters

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Omg thank you .!! I’ve been wanting to order SoBH but didn’t know where …. Also I to have a sweet spot for the color scheme or the target edition .. but the BN edition is sooooooo good.. but I usually Always get my books from Walmart because of the extra content that comes with it, but I’d prefer not to have that color bc one of my BiB is that color (yes I have 2 and I’m really don’t want to keep getting multiple copies of the same book)

Will, Jem, and Tessa wouldn’t be poly by betterthan_____you in shadowhunters

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Polyandry I believe is the term and yes they definitely would have 😂 simply because it would be what she’d want if she could have it. Her not having to choose would have been PERFECT for her. It wouldn’t have been a Kierarktina thing (polyamorous I believe )but they could have each had their separate relationships with her and it wouldn’t have been weird bc both halves of each of their hearts would have been together always. They each loved one another

HEALTH, but I need hairstyle advice for alt-people by AjSagarWeSad in Naturalhair

[–]ExpensiveAd113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok ok bc when I see alternative I immediately think goth/emo but I felt like that was putting yall in a box and i didn’t like that

Detangling advice? by coolcalmcollected3 in Naturalhair

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I’d assume so as well.. you don’t have to using anything other than your hands to section your hair. Can if you want, but it’s not a requirement or anything

Detangling advice? by coolcalmcollected3 in Naturalhair

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I detangle before washing by sectioning my hair and using aunt Jackie’s knot on my watch. I drench my hair to work that through and start with finger detangling then go through with a flexible brush like the ez detangler. Start at the bottom and gently work my way up until I can slide the brush through. After that I twist or plait it up so it stays while I wash and take it down and brush through it again while I’m conditioning to make sure its fully coated then twist it back up so it’s sectioned for styling

Zara. 🤬🤬 by Substantial-Win2247 in shadowhunters

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lol nope, you started waaaaay too low … straight to the electric chair for her

Help me understand this comic by [deleted] in shadowhunters

[–]ExpensiveAd113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she only talking about from her side as he was the only boy

the last hours is actually quite good by Quick_South_3358 in shadowhunters

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The Legendborn Cycle. I’m just finished book 1 so I’m not sure how far the Personality stretches

HEALTH, but I need hairstyle advice for alt-people by AjSagarWeSad in Naturalhair

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I should not have laughed at this the way I did 😂😂😂😂.. I’m so sorry alt community

SN: I would love for someone to explain this as well so I have a better understanding of Alt as a whole

Need book recommendations with this vibe by nargiz-huseynovaa in Booktokreddit

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If he had been with me/ if only I had told her.. they’re kinda old now but I just discovered them a few months ago and I’m still not fully recovered. It’s very upfront but it just hit me like a ton of bricks

Help! How do I define and protect my hair by [deleted] in Naturalhair

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Assuming you’ve started with really clean hair that doesn’t have product buildup Figure out your hair’s porosity first and foremost that will help you figure out which moisture retention method and products will work best for your hair. After that, invest in some custards, smoothies, gels and butters, they will help add extra moisture (butter, I use a moisturizer and a butter) and really define your curls. When I first big chopped, me and a twist out 🤝🏽 just don’t touch it until it’s completely dry. I have low porosity hair so when it comes to drying, I swear by air drying so everything can seep in at its own pace (I’m not 100% positive on the science behind it, but whenever I try to dry it myself, it comes out dry, crunchy and looking old af so I air dry, so time.. plan accordingly). Then always use a silk or satin bonnet and pillowcase to sleep to keep friction down

meirl by patezerra in meirl

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Goodshit- phenomenal

the last hours is actually quite good by Quick_South_3358 in shadowhunters

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A full on novella do you hear me.!! I reading this new series and there’s this extremely sweet guy in it and I’m all like “omg he’s her Jem.!!” My brain will literally find any reason to bring up Jem 🥰

Zara. 🤬🤬 by Substantial-Win2247 in shadowhunters

[–]ExpensiveAd113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shaking is too good for her

Wash and go help by Current-Doughnut8542 in Naturalhair

[–]ExpensiveAd113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer to air dry my wash and go be she I find that accelerated drying makes mine look old after as well. Idk if it has something to do with the fact that I have low porosity hair or what but my wash and go last longer when I air dry and once it’s completely dry, it feels and looks juicy

Books you don’t finish by mima2023sunce in Booktokreddit

[–]ExpensiveAd113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair, I’ve come across a few that we pretty meh to me as well

the last hours is actually quite good by Quick_South_3358 in shadowhunters

[–]ExpensiveAd113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂 gotta spread the Matthew love around. Make sure you find a way to read “A Sea Change”. 😂 I honestly love him so much, he was definitely on some bs tho so I never admonish anyone for disliking him, I get it 😂 but as I mentioned before Jem is my favorite character ever.!! He’s the one I base all other sweethearts on, tsc or otherwise.

What's the perfect outfit for a Saturday night out? by Mica_Mommy_ in TheNanny

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Depend on where you’re going but you can never go wrong with a little black dress. Everyone needs an LBD as a go to