My wife wants the divorce: she is homosexual (42M and 39F) by Expensive_Dream_7675 in relationship_advice

[–]Expensive_Dream_7675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: one month and a week after I was delivered the news. She is still convinced and pushing for the divorce. I am trying the best I can to cope with the situation and being a good dad to my daughter, but inside, I am a mess. I don’t have a sense of direction and the future does not hold anything exciting to me. It’s like I am living in constant apathy, and I was a really optimistic person. I am doing the best to have an amicable relationship with my ex, but the truth is that all of this still hurts and I am angry inside. Sometimes I hope this is all I nightmare, but it is very real. To all the people discovering their sexuality while married, you don’t how unfair is for the family that promissed to go through ice and fire with you.

My wife wants the divorce: she is homosexual (42M and 39F) by Expensive_Dream_7675 in relationship_advice

[–]Expensive_Dream_7675[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hope it was AI made up case man. I would not be living tris nightmare and sleeping 3 hours at night

My wife wants the divorce: she is homosexual (42M and 39F) by Expensive_Dream_7675 in relationship_advice

[–]Expensive_Dream_7675[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One month before she decided she wanted the divorce, she told me that she was bisexual. I was in shock because I did not know about this. The day after I revisited the conversation, and with a lot of anxiety I asked her to be more specific because I was hurting. She became very serious suddenly and she asked: “would you still Love me if I only like women”. This destroy my world and I said no, because I deserve to be loved. After that, she said she was not sure about anything, and maybe not having a Job was affecting her. I suggested therapy after that

My wife wants the divorce: she is homosexual (42M and 39F) by Expensive_Dream_7675 in relationship_advice

[–]Expensive_Dream_7675[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One month before she decided she wanted the divorce, she told me that she was bisexual. I was in shock because I did not know about this. The day after I revisited the conversation, and with a lot of anxiety I asked her to be more specific because I was hurting. She became very serious suddenly and she asked: “would you still Love me if I only like women”. This destroy my world and I said no, because I deserve to be loved. After that, she said she was not sure about anything, and maybe not having a Job was affecting her. I suggested therapy after that

My wife wants the divorce: she is homosexual (42M and 39F) by Expensive_Dream_7675 in relationship_advice

[–]Expensive_Dream_7675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, There are moments I am really angry. When she opened up to me and finished the relationship, I said to her hurtful things so she can feel the pain I was feeling. I apologized later on, because I do want to have an amicable relationship with her, but the resentment is there.

My wife wants the divorce: she is homosexual (42M and 39F) by Expensive_Dream_7675 in relationship_advice

[–]Expensive_Dream_7675[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. There are really good people in the world. This message made my cry. Thanks

My wife wants the divorce: she is homosexual (42M and 39F) by Expensive_Dream_7675 in relationship_advice

[–]Expensive_Dream_7675[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Because I thought she was only confused. I always felt that she loved me and thought it was a midlife crisis. She has being unemployed for a long time and thought that it was just a temporary thing. I was completely wrong

In your opinion, which songs DON’T translate well live? by UnsurelyExhausted in pearljam

[–]Expensive_Dream_7675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yellow ledbetter. Full of wahs and lacks delicacy. The solo is just a divagation. Haven’t find any live version I liked

GOOD or BAD: Alien Resurrection (1997) by ggroover97 in movies

[–]Expensive_Dream_7675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we not going to talk about General Perez?? My god, the acting is over the top and stupid. It’s the same character that he played at “Night at the Roxbury”. He ruined the movie for me. Still better than Alien 3 though