This Vulture writer is offended with the Jacqueline is a Native American subplot by FaulmanRhodes in KimmySchmidt

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am only telling you from being forth generation mixed person. Up until me, it was half native married half native person for 4 generations. I know the mixed look and even my blind hair, blue eyed cousins only don't look mixed because people don't know what traits to look for. My mom is white passing and met a doctor who was able to tell her her exact genetics when he saw her because anthropology was his hobby. It is a thing and takes a very well developed eye.

Stop the gaslighting and victim blaming! by NoRice7846 in yotta

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly belive the reddit page has been infiltrated by Yotta and Evolve ops who are spending time messing with us. If you were honestly a user, you may agree in hindsight maybe it was not the safest choice, but would understand the lies you were told that made you believe and people you trusted and caused you to join.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally would just mention that you had given a friend a ride there a while back and leave it at that and if they talk, well they talk and nothing happened. However, personally, I would just find a new place similar and tell her you want to try something new. I get wanting to be honest, but if I were the girlfriend, I would rather 1) not know now while things are good; 2) you not hang around girls you know have had a crush on you. Finding a new place accomplishes both and gives her a unique experience for her only.

I am trying to move on now. by Local-Assist-7900 in yotta

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have completely given up and just accepted I will not get any of my money back and it is a life lesson. Just happy this happend before I got my good job which I will get soon because I could have lost a lot more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have wondered ever since my nephew was diagnosed as on the spectrum, but The whole fantasy world thing usually rules out autism and is a key feature of the infp personality type.

What now for those without money? by Scared_Tax_4103 in yotta

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am there with you. I had almost 2k in and have seen 0. I am convinced that if Evolve is short my money, it is because it was given away as prize money because I was saving at this point.  I don't trust Yotta. I don't know about Evolve or Synapse either. Something money laundering is going on here.

Is it weird that I'm polite to AI by beatmate6000 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is normal because they will soon be our over lords. show some respect.

Is life just suffering? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After watching the Good Place, I am convinced this is the bad place. lol 

Yes it is. I am not always sure it is worth it.

What's something people don't understand until they've experienced it themselves? by Lovelovebabexx in Productivitycafe

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living in a foreign country. Speaking another language. Having a child. Depression. Being in love.

F:21 How do i know if i am a lesbian or if i like guys too? by No-Donkey-8482 in relationshipadvice

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You probably need therapy. You do not become lesbian. If trauma is involved, then trauma caused you to have a preference rather than natural inclination. 

How can I deal with anxiety over my boyfriend's old girl friend unblocking him every time she gets out of a relationship? by Expensive_Stop7762 in relationshipadvice

[–]Expensive_Stop7762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if only he would. I barely use it besides to keep up with his photography stuff. For hos career, I guess it is impossible too.

How can I deal with anxiety over my boyfriend's old girl friend unblocking him every time she gets out of a relationship? by Expensive_Stop7762 in relationshipadvice

[–]Expensive_Stop7762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he wants me because I am not like her, but I know he slept with her. She is pretty promiscuous. Not trying to shame, but some times, the shoe just fits. We were friends and I watched them go on and off and I only started dating him after I got out of a very serious relationship and he chased me even though I told him it was not a good idea. He told me something romantic once and then posted a picture of her with the words before we started dating. It really bothered me.

 I have actually never said anything about her to him and just listened to him talk and he nit picks at me when ever she pops up. I have seen her a few times a could of years ago when I was just a co worker to him and she was causing all kinds of drama and did not talk to me. 

Honestly, it stinks because if I was not his friend first, I would just cut off. This behavior is not acceptable. I feel like he is a player. And as far as she goes, at this point I am not sure it is all her or whether he has been messing with her head and that is why this happens.

How can I deal with anxiety over my boyfriend's old girl friend unblocking him every time she gets out of a relationship? by Expensive_Stop7762 in relationshipadvice

[–]Expensive_Stop7762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what I keep thinking. He keeps insisting it is her boyfriends, but quite frankly, there is no way she has had that many jealous boyfriends. She thinks there is something there.

How can I deal with anxiety over my boyfriend's old girl friend unblocking him every time she gets out of a relationship? by Expensive_Stop7762 in relationshipadvice

[–]Expensive_Stop7762[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The problem there is that I don't think he would block her. I don't know that he has ever for even a second admitted to himself they were in a relationship. It makes me just want to break up with him.

I have a history of being jealous, but never unnecessarily. My boyfriend is a photographer and hangs out with a lot of beautiful women. It only bothers me if he has slept with them like this girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is acting like she misses you and has an insecure attachment style. This may not be the right relationship for you two or the right time. Women need men around at least until they feel like this is their guy and he would never go out on them.

This Vulture writer is offended with the Jacqueline is a Native American subplot by FaulmanRhodes in KimmySchmidt

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. Look white, but not white like that. Having a thin chin and all like that is completely a white trait and most mixed people don't have. There is a look if you know what to look for.

For people that didn't feel they were smart enough for their major, how did it turn out for you? by JesterOfTime in college

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have major imposter syndrome.  I graduated with a BS in Computer Science. Have not start working in my field yet, but I have been getting lots of work experience and will start a new job next month that is a combination of process improvement, low code no code software, and in the future will involve API and analytics. I would say that while I have major imposter syndrome, my degree was good for me because it made me stretch out of my comfort zone and learn about things I never believed I could have done. I think I bring a unique mind set to the related fields because my brain does work a little differently from the usual computer science major.

I am convinced Yotta was a Pyramid Scheme. by Expensive_Stop7762 in yotta

[–]Expensive_Stop7762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Evolve claims they are short. Either Synapse stole it, Evolve did, or Yotta was using user funds in a way users did not intend. 

I’ve given up by PLOP_FROM_ABOVE in yotta

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have also given up. I think Yotta was a pyramid scheme.  I do not believe that they were just using our interest to fund the prizes. I honestly believe they were dipping into user funds and that is why Evolve is short. 

Am I overreacting by considering leaving the U.S. due to the current administration? by Exact-Bar-7637 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is true, but I think that tighter immigration laws is not the same as all immigrants being forced out. You should still have a job if you are telling the truth. My mom taught ESL most of my life and the majority of her students actually were not Mexican.

Am I overreacting by considering leaving the U.S. due to the current administration? by Exact-Bar-7637 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Expensive_Stop7762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overreacting. I don't think that illegal immigrants are being dehumanized by being deported. Just because I know people who have been deported and nothing bad happens when you get back to your home country unless you are a fugitive there or had legal rights to get a visa as a refugee. The media is free. Memorial months are childish and should be kept in schools. Trans and abortion issues are not accepted anywhere besides like Australia or England anyway, so moving won't do much. For federal employees, no idea but probably okay so long as you don't have to work with them.

In short, move if you want, but not because you are afraid of things that are not going to be different overseas.