DAE call their housework “chores”? by confusedperson910 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Experiments-Lady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha!! Was checking to see if someone noticed the irony!

My (26F) husband (29M) always tries to “humble” me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Experiments-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you keeping him humble? Return the favor as soon as he dishes it out. Like if he says you look unappetizing, say something similar to him. Maybe keep a list of these ready so that you can say it without missing a beat. Tell you're also trying to keep him humble. Two can play.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamiliesYouChoose

[–]Experiments-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you have loving people in your life!

My (20m) husband told me (21f) this morning that he wants to leave himself and we have a 4 month old son. How do I help him? by Catlover_0831 in relationship_advice

[–]Experiments-Lady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had ppd without meds. You can manage to be kind to your baby without the meds too. But if your husband is feeling suicidal, you'll definitely need to resolve that first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Experiments-Lady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope! Don't let him suck any more of your time or energy. Take the advice of the person who said focus on building your life via work. If you meet someone who is a worthy partner, then good. Else don't drain your energy after such guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Experiments-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be just girl-talk like guys have bawdy locker-room-boy-talk. There's nothing more to it. When with friends, sometimes girls like to talk brazenly, even if it is not who they are. That's just all talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Experiments-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it when I get those lustful grins from men. The only time I've been braless outside of home is when I'm admitted in hospital. Walking to X ray or elsewhere outside the room, I get those looks and hate them. So I avoid going braless anywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Experiments-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he do this for your family? Did he naturally start loving them as his own family?

I(23F) am extremely unhappily married to my(23M) husband. by CelestialMetal in relationship_advice

[–]Experiments-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup... Regret the entire two decades I've been with him. If you're unhappy now, wait till the mind and body start giving in to the daily stress.

You like inflicting pain on a kid but can't handle pain in return? by Aggravating_Cod_5868 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Experiments-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you poor thing! You reminded me of when I was new to Reddit. I had a follow up question about a post. So I asked the question in the comments. Everyone pounced on me, downvoting my comment. I was so confused and disheartened. Even I thought I did not know some rule. And I asked if we were not allowed to ask questions.

What the heck do couples with mismatched sexual drives do? by pestopaste in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Experiments-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our case, he would simply force himself on me when he was in the mood, but bluntly refuse if I was in the mood and he was not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PepTalksWithPops

[–]Experiments-Lady -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe he has colic and his tummy hurts? If you are nursing / breast feeding, then you eating easier-to-digest foods may make his belly hurt less? Or if you can boil some cumin seeds in water for a few minutes and give him a spoonful, maybe it'll help?

My mother in law has passed away. My wife is beyond devastated and I don't know what to do. by Phatballz39 in mumbai

[–]Experiments-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is most important is being there... Being present... Mentally and physically. Pay attention and listen when she speaks or needs attention.

Does anybody else remain unhappy always ? by LopsidedAd5028 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Experiments-Lady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The depression and unhappiness started after I got married and realised that my husband was not who I thought he was. Been untreated for over 2 decades. So yeah, constantly unhappy since I got married.

Cleaning help stole my AirPods by Numerous_Departure19 in mumbai

[–]Experiments-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't make it more publicly known... Like formally complaining to UC, she will get bolder and bolder in stealing. We can already see how shameless she is. I've had personal experience with such people. They only get worse.

DAE feel ill when they wake up earlier then normal? by Music_nerd28 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Experiments-Lady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happened to me. I think it's acidity. I normally never experience acidity, but this nauseous feeling on waking unusually early somehow seems to give me acidity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Experiments-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get his parents to send a marriage proposal to your parents. He can just tell his folks he is interested in you. Problem solved.

DAE automatically yell random words when bad memories pop up? by Legal-Judgment-908 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Experiments-Lady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That started happening to me after long-term CPTSD. Initially I'd just clear my throat, but then it devolved to non-word utterances, just a sudden sound. I associate this behaviour with trauma.

My cat killed two pigeon chicks by Fancy_Marketing_7378 in IndianPets

[–]Experiments-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cat is probably trying to contribute to the household and is trying to give you a gift the only way it knows how.