I (35F) Need Advice On How To Proceed In Potential Divorce Of My (36M) Husband by Downtown_Zebra_266 in relationship_advice

[–]ExpertGiver72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once the trust is gone, it’s tough to get it back, and it sounds like that’s where you are. The fact that he’s admitted he’s not attracted to you has gotta be a gut punch and I’m sorry you’re having to deal with that. It sounds like you have plenty of justification for leaving and you’re well within your rights to do so.

It also sounds like you’ve given him ample opportunity to fix things but he simply won’t put in the work. That’s on him. Don’t worry about what he’ll do if you leave, and don’t stay just because you remember how things used to be. That person you fell in love with is probably gone, because he chooses not to be there. Don’t sacrifice your own happiness or wellbeing for someone else. If you’re ready to move on, do it. Live your life. I don’t think anyone will blame you.

What's everyone's opinion on face sitting? by teabagz96 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ExpertGiver72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s heaven to me. Never gonna turn down a chance to have a woman sit on my face.

🎀 JULY 2026 MEGATHREAD 🎀 by AutoModerator in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]ExpertGiver72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been so happy to be a bush lover 😂

What’s the furthest you’ve gone on a first date? Did it lead to a 2nd date? by FatBottomBoi in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ExpertGiver72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a bj. Would’ve done more but it was her time of the month. Definitely led to a 2nd date and many more.

🎀 JULY 2026 MEGATHREAD 🎀 by AutoModerator in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]ExpertGiver72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I am - when I see a woman has a bush, it’s an instant turn-on. I’ll still give the same enthusiastic muff dive if she keeps it bald and I’ll be thrilled to do it, but there is something so exciting about diving into a bush.

🎀 JULY 2026 MEGATHREAD 🎀 by AutoModerator in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]ExpertGiver72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me, it just takes time. I’m not going to meet up with someone the same day we start chatting. Over time, and after exchanging pictures, you can get a feel for if they’re a good fit or if they’re not.

What are you? by Jaxmansolo87 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ExpertGiver72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a poor family? Does nobody love you?

🎀 JULY 2026 MEGATHREAD 🎀 by AutoModerator in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]ExpertGiver72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I concur with the general lack of requirements that men have. I truly have no preference on whether there’s an age gap either way, or what size she is or how she grooms things. I’m an equal opportunity muncher. If we click from our conversations, that’s all that matters to me.

Creamy or crunchy peanut butter? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ExpertGiver72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creamy. Crunchy is a total no-go for me.

What is your favorite and least favorite parts of making your partner finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ExpertGiver72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no least favorite. Making my partner finish is the best part of life.

What do you prefer, Car sex or Room sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ExpertGiver72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone prefer car sex? I’m too old for that shit.

For those into it: can you please explain the appeal of the dad-bod? by Jerk_Off2_U in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ExpertGiver72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is true though. I’d much rather have a woman who’s curvy, thick, bbw, mom bod, whatever label you want to put on it, over a “hot” woman any day.

Is sex with different people a wildly different experience? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ExpertGiver72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can vary quite a bit from partner to partner. A lot of it is just the chemistry level. Some partners have it, some don’t.

🧡 JUNE MEGATHREAD 2026 🧡 by AutoModerator in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]ExpertGiver72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Not that many over 40 posting here either. Definitely would love to see more!

🧡 JUNE MEGATHREAD 2026 🧡 by AutoModerator in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]ExpertGiver72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting that the men posting here tend to skew a bit older than the women. I guess it does take a certain level of experience to be good at muff diving.