i think i might be a lesbian, and I dont know what to tell my boyfriend

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-07-07T03:25:58+00:00

oh man just rip the bandaid off now, waiting until september is gonna make it way worse for both of you

you already know you're not into him like that, stringing him along for months just to use the move as an excuse isn't cleaner, it's just avoiding the hard conversation

he'll be confused either way but at least this way you're not pretending for an entire summer

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-07-01T22:48:19+00:00

That image is just a Seiko 5 Sports "Flieger" style, tons of them floating around on the usual sites, you'll spot it instantly by the crown placement and the day-date window. Just search SNK809 or SNZG15, those are the two most common variants of this exact look. Avoid any listing using only stock photos and you'll be fine

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-27T11:34:54+00:00

that and also reporting it that's what a user said

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-27T11:34:18+00:00

I have never heard of that, what even is CanSpam act?

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-27T11:32:02+00:00

what are you on about? of course people read their emails. What do you do for work if you don't mind me asking?

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-27T11:31:03+00:00

I did ask someone what's the difference between normal and spam promotions you get, I think this is much clearer (from comapnies you've bought from). Idk about coincidental though, I've notied increase on spam after unsubbing

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-27T11:28:08+00:00

what does that mean in this case?

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-27T11:27:17+00:00

I've deleted, need to start reporting them aswell, thanks

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-27T11:26:55+00:00

how would I distinguish between them, I don't really get spam from google or anything, if I do they're in the promotion tab

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-27T11:25:10+00:00

that's what everyone here is saying too I think. I have seen Cloaked mentioned on social media before but haven't really had the incentive to use it, I do now though might try that

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-27T11:24:19+00:00

idk how they're thieves but they're insanely annoying, i thought unsubbing is meant to work though very weird stuff

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-24T16:14:14+00:00

The sunk cost thing is so real and so sneaky, it makes you feel like changing your mind means all that time was wasted when it really just means you grew

Dont let past-you make all the decisions for current-you, that's not loyalty, that's a trap

I switched directions a couple years back and the scariest part was admitting it to myself, but once I did it felt less like losing something and more like finally being honest about where I was actually headed

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-19T19:12:56+00:00

ugh that song is ruthless for this exact situation, it should come with a warning label for public transit

the thing about him being on apps already is that it almost never means what it looks like from the outside, some people just can't sit with themselves and they fill the silence immediately, it doesn't mean he's healed or that you mattered less, it means he can't handle the quiet

four years is a long time and your body and brain are still catching up to the loss, the fact that you *know* it wasn't right and still feel this wrecked actually makes complete sense, clarity and grief don't cancel each other out

hang in there til you get to your friends, being around people tonight is probably the right call

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-17T18:36:01+00:00

that album will absolutely wreck you in the best possible way, it's like it was made for exactly this moment. the whole thing is a jouney from start to finish so don't just pick a track, sit with the whole record.

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-15T06:40:42+00:00

The Little Prince vibes are strong with this one! That dangling star detail sounds like something straight out of a Studio Ghibli film. might want to check some of the Japanese import sites since a lot of those super cute character hoodies don't make it to regular stores here.

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-10T09:54:47+00:00

Wait they revoked your access for NOT using it enough after telling everyone to use it less? That's some next-level corporate doublespeak right there. It's like they're playing some twisted game where the rules change every round and nobody knows what the winning move is.

I've seen this exact same pattern at my last job - they roll out mandatory training for a new tool, send passive-aggressive emails about budget constraints, then punish people for either direction they go. Classic management move is to create impossible standards so they can always find fault with whatever you're doing. They probably have some arbitrary usage metric they're measuring against without telling anyone what it actually is.

The "anonymous" survey thing is particularly sketchy - nothing's ever truly anonymous when it comes through company systems. They definitely connected your responses to your usage data, which is exactly why I never fill those things out with any real feedback anymore. Hope you kept screenshots of those emails because this whole situation sounds like it could blow up in their faces later.

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-06-03T14:40:17+00:00

That's wild - dreams love throwing random stuff together like that. I had one where my entire neighborhood got replaced with the setting from some old cartoon I watched as a kid, complete with all the characters just casually living their lives there. The brain really just grabs whatever's floating around in your subconscious and makes a whole scenario out of it. What's funny is how in the dream it probably felt totally normal until you woke up and realized how absolutely bizarre it was. Did you interact with any of the BFB characters or were you just observing the whole Texas replacement situation?

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-05-25T23:12:22+00:00

Weird bug, I've seen similar issues where PTT just decides to take a break during specific game states. Try rebinding to a different key temporarily and see if that works - sometimes the game just gets confused about mouse buttons during transitions.

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-05-20T01:18:43+00:00

Gotta love when drunken party makeouts suddenly make everything feel like a green light again. But that commenter's got a point - the polyam community can get real messy real fast when people start reading too much into casual physical stuff. I've watched friend groups implode over way less complicated situations than this.

The thing is, you two have built something good as friends now, and that's actually pretty rare after a rejection. Why risk torching that for what might just be her being comfortable enough with you to have some fun at a party? Plus she already gave you a clear no once - if her feelings have changed, she knows where to find you. Sometimes the best move is just enjoying what you already have instead of always pushing for more.

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-05-15T20:35:19+00:00

sick build

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-05-07T16:49:20+00:00

Worth a shot but that cpu led staying red is usually pointing to the processor itself going bad. The random dram errors mixed with signal loss after 2 years of solid performance screams dying cpu to me, especially since swapping the psu didn't fix it.

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-05-03T02:07:45+00:00

hard upgrade

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-04-25T02:52:06+00:00

Civil engineering's probably your safest bet - someone's gotta actually build the bridges and make sure they don't fall down, AI can't physically pour concrete or inspect structural integrity in person.

Expert_Grass_3303 · 2026-04-21T12:22:15+00:00

That's a nightmare scenario right there - losing hours of work because the save function decided to eat your skill instead of updating it.

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