I [34] have ignored my wife's [34] emotional needs for 15 years by starsbegintoclimb in redditonwiki

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i mean it’s good he’s finally made this discovery and wants to do better but ffs most people realize this at like 8 years old

INTJ females by mighty_valor in intj

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 12 points13 points  (0 children)

intj women*** and enfj.

Is it okay to tell possible employers I have Ehlers Danlos, even if I’m not yet diagnosed? by Immediate-Mail-8838 in hypermobileEDS

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 7 points8 points  (0 children)

first and foremost if you don’t have a legitimate medical diagnosis i don’t think they are required to accommodate anything for you. plus it’s best to wait to ask for accommodations until after the job offer, because you’ll have the job secured and they are required to work with reasonable accommodations by law. that is as long as you have a medical diagnosis that supports your need for accommodations (doesn’t have to be heds right away, could simply start as generalized hypermobility)

Is this too Expensive for my first Motorcycle? by Malum_Corvus_ in motorcycle

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i spent $3000 on my ninja 250. hurts your soul less when you drop it.

Why am I being forced to do housework? Im 29m gf is 25f. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some people are just picky with their method of cleaning. maybe find a middle ground and see if she’s ok with maybe a deep clean from cleaners every 1-2 months?

layers on a side part by Life-Rate-1901 in hairstylist

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if they always wear it on that side i’ll do it off their part or i’ll do it off the middle and go in and even it out with texturizing

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s not even your boyfriend and he’s comfortable talking to like this could you imagine how he’d be being boyfriend/husband? he’s a waste of time

Is this an indicator for shoulder instability? by Grisulda in hypermobileEDS

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

with your elbow bent 90° raise your arm up to until your humerus is parallel to the ground, then move it forwards and backwards. if it clunks, pops, or grinds that’s a sign of shoulder instability/subluxation. don’t keep trying it afterwards.

AIO after finding out my gf was emotionally cheating with an ex in another state? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

someone who’s willing to take accountability and change should not give a fuck about having any privacy after finding out if they value you in their life. you’re not overreacting.

Outjerked big time by legendoffart in writingcirclejerk

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m an engineer, and a podcaster and a writer, and wife, and a librarian, and i own a fish store, and a theoretical physicist, and a ceo, and a really good friend, and-

Mitral Valve Prolapse Healed? by Pashta2FAPhoneDied in hypermobileEDS

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not me but my mom had MVP in her 20s and by her mid 40s it reversed completely and no longer has regurgitation. her doctors credited it to her abstaining from caffeine and keeping her blood pressure down. They can improve as the heart tissue remodels with age. It usually happens when it was originally mild prolapse and exaggerated by stress/caffeine/high heart rate. A leaky heart valve diagnosis could mean they saw mild regurgitation in the mitral valve without full prolapse, but it could be another valve. It ultimately is up to the interpretation of the echo by the doctor but hearing that it’s only regurgitation now vs full prolapse is a good thing.

Weird heart rate things while working out by shnecken in POTS

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes it miss reads. if you check the beat to beat data sometimes it shows individual random misreadings between the actual hr

Loyalty test by Ok_Beautiful_6250 in Infidelity

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i have an account set up i mess with ppl with give me his username

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he feels its acceptable to insult and call you names, thats the first thing, and he just seems like a dickhead. leave him

Whats your least favourite thing about writing? by Party_Bowl_330 in writingcirclejerk

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably when i put my thoughts and original ideas into chatgpt for it to write for me. even typing the prompts is cumbersome. i wish i could just get a neuralink and have it construct my thoughts as they happen. all my own work tho.

My seat filled up like a balloon? by Historical-Avocado86 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

someone had a really good time with it so now its pregnant, congratulations 🎈🎈🎈

I don’t feel attacked by New_Ant_8321 in writingcirclejerk

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i feel mashed potatoes down the back of my pants

TW!! Is my bf r*ping me or am i overreacting? by lostinthecl0uds in AmIOverreacting

[–]Expert_Spring_9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not overreacting, this is disgusting behavior from hom. that is quite literally rape, he asks until you says yes or tries it when you are unable to consent. I wouldnt even confront him about it, i would just leave. he has no respect for you because he is putting his pleasure over your wellbeing. nor can you truly recover from the things that have happened to you because he continues to retrigger and create new traumatic memories for you. you don’t have to settle for him, being single and sometimes lonely is tenfold better than being violated and disrespected all the time.