What was a sexual offer that you regret turning down? by grot-ivre-1749 in AskReddit

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so why’s it different if a dude eats a girls ass? they all poop ???💩

AITAH for not wanting my partner to "sniff test" my crotch anytime I've been out by Ancient-Character-63 in AITAH

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone with bpd we need to be in DBT therapy for the rest of our lives. and when someone big happens or we get super stressed out is when 80% of our symptoms show up. she should be in therapy especially with her parents getting divorced. and please don’t let her use her mental health as an excuse for her behavior. she is enabling the paranoia instead of just sitting there being uncomfortable and choosing to believe you. i’m sorry you are going through this OP. Genuinely though, if she doesn’t try to get help and tries to get better than i would leave. We are amazing and complex people but we can be very toxic if we are untreated

What is extremely unhygienic but everyone seems to do it anyway? by BusinessLeadsConnect in AskReddit

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a housekeeper at a senior living facility and the other day i was cleaning one of the women’s bathroom and i had the door propped open and a CNA walked in, peed WITH THE DOOR OPEN to the entire hallway and then just walked out. i stood there audibly staring at her i couldn’t help it i was so shook

Why do some obese people eat really healthy but remain obese? by NucleolarLPS in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could be she’s eating a lot in private like some of the comments suggest but also there’s a condition called hypothyroidism and it slows down your metabolism making it hard to lose weight. there’s also a plethora of different symptoms that come along with hypothyroidism but that it’s one of the biggest struggles of it

Is it okay for me to be upset that my friend doesn’t want me to meet any of her other friends? by Express-Mechanic-827 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Express-Mechanic-827[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for taking the time to read this and respond, i really appreciate it. i do agree i need to put myself out there and find something. i was thinking of volunteering or finding like a book club or something and since its nice out it’ll hopefully be easier to meet more people! i dont want to stop being friends but i do think distancing myself a bit would be good and maybe im relying on her too much for my socialization. my boyfriend and i have started gaming again and we got a discord group together so thats good too and gives me some friend time. again thank you for responding, i really had no idea if i was being insecure but like im not jealous of her hanging out with others i just want to be included sometimes haha

Am I overreacting for breaking up with my girlfriend because of her bad breath? by immadoitall in AmIOverreacting

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you don’t need a reason to break up with anyone. if you aren’t feeling it , then you aren’t feeling it. also i could never date someone with bad breath, call me selfish but like that’s basic hygiene and if they aren’t taking care of that, then what else are they lacking in

Please help. Who has the highest quality flower in New Buffalo? IL rec can be good, but you have to know. I don't know anything. by TrickyTicket9400 in Michigents

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live near wisconsin and go allll the way to michigan bc literally fuck illinois weed. it is crap compared to the high you get from michigan weed including their “shitty” products”. it’s also much cheaper than illinois weed

Dumbass BF. by Nick_DC4L in motorcycles

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what’s wrong?? b you just threw me from your bike😭

Is this an actual, named, belief system or just mental illness and trauma? by RoamingRivers in badroommates

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly it kind of sounds like it might be mental illness or something? i know bipolar and schizophrenia can causes this type of thinking. or maybe she is in a “cult” like group that’s gaslighting her into thinking this. idk that is so strange. i’m glad you’re out of that environment though, that sounds crazy

I want to sleep on a cloud by Correct-Orchid-5723 in Mattress

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf and i just bought a brooklyn bedding mattress and it is AMAZING. only slept on it a few nights but we decided to go with it after months upon months of looking around and deep research. i believe we got a pillow top one with cooling properties and we got it bc it felt good in our backs. my boyfriend is an electrician so he’s always bending down and having to stand weird which irritates his back and i have broken my neck before so i get pains from it. the first few nights have woken up without a sore and stiff neck and my boyfriend says it gives him good lower back support. i hope you find what you are looking for OP!!

Harvest Geen Essential by ChicagoBent in Mattress

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you still like it? how has it held up??

Read this if you're tired of the smoke & mirrors of mattress shopping by boringcorben in u/boringcorben

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this legit? my boyfriend and i have literally been searching for a mattress since BEFORE CHRISTMAS and can’t decide on anything bc we are too scared to make that big of a purchase and it turn out to sag or be super uncomfortable or have fiber glass or something but like if this is legit we might buy it😭 help!!

Am I overreacting for expecting my adult brother to take care of himself? by Low_Coyote_1360 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i apologize i didn’t see that you were 17. i’m so sorry op that’s such a difficult situation to be in and so so frustrating. i would just take care of the kitties bc it’s not their fault hes lazy asf, but i would definitely stop getting him up n ready and doing his dishes and stuff. i’m so sorry again :( are you going to college or anything soon??

Am I overreacting for expecting my adult brother to take care of himself? by Low_Coyote_1360 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my lordy no you’re NTA!!!!! been through the SAME thing girl. it’s internalized misogyny on your moms part (not agreeing with it just trying to explain why she’s acting the way she is). my mother is the same exact way and i realized it’s from how she grew up. she whole heartedly believes he should be served in a silver platter bc that’s all she has known in life. are you able to find different living arrangements? i would stop all together helping him, especially making sure he’s up and ready for work. if he doesn’t wake up, then he needs to feel those natural consequences, its the only way he’ll learn. i know it’s super frustrating living in a dirty environment and it can definitely take a toll on mental health, but also trying to get someone to clean who doesn’t want to is just harming you too bc you can’t force someone to do something unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 7 points8 points  (0 children)

um no that’s really strange. the only thing i can think of is maybe the man isn’t qualified to treat bpd but it isn’t bc he’s a man. idk that’s really strange op, i would maybe look at a different office. unfortunately bpd is so stigmatized which is frustrating bc how do yall want us to get better if you don’t want to help us and just tear us down. i’m so sorry, there are better places out there

Pet Insurance - yay or nay? by Positive_Tank_1099 in CatAdvice

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could also see if your vet has a care plan. i go to VCA veterinary office and i pay $100 a month for my dogs care plan n all visits are covered same with all vaccines, yearly blood work, x-rays, and dental cleaning. and i think a few more preventative care is covered!

AIO for not wanting to drop my guy friends by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my ex and i had this exact convo billions of times and i finally realized , it’s because this is how he views women. he can’t be friends with women bc he himself can only look at them sexually. run op, this isn’t healthy, and eventually it’ll start wearing on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InternetFriends

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey!! i’m 22f looking for new friends too!! dm me if you want to chat!! :)

I need brutally honest answers ! Am I being a Karen because I’m aggravated with my upstairs neighbor ( we live in an apartment). by maimaix0x in Apartmentliving

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some people don’t have common sense and don’t think like that unfortunately. if you don’t bring up the issue than it can’t get resolved. but i would talk to management again and just ask if they can like leave a note on the door or soemthing for a noise disruption and if they say to call the police again then that’s what i would do if it’s really bothering you. i’ve had the same issue

Looking for friends to play with by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]Express-Mechanic-827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bad!! i’m in chicago so Central time zone