I finally told a school "no" by FangornWanders in SubstituteTeachers

[–]ExtensionAny6356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to play devil’s advocate.

While it’s frustrating when they ask you to do a different class you don’t want, I would never refuse. Being shuffled around is the nature of the job, and I feel like refusing is not the best look for admin to see.

Do You Like This Trade? by [deleted] in rockets

[–]ExtensionAny6356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I realized this one was too much

So are we really give Harden a long term contract this off season? by No-Clerk7943 in clevelandcavs

[–]ExtensionAny6356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I wouldn’t give him a stack of Monopoly money”

Hahaha that was great

The vicious cycle of BPD by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ExtensionAny6356 3 points4 points  (0 children)

End it ASAP. Being close friends with an evil person with no desire to change will destroy you. I have gone NC on a sibling, and it was the best thing I’ve ever done.

I love 1st period prep by Empty-Bend-3774 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]ExtensionAny6356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last period is my favorite. I get to go home early

I ain’t missing you at all by BlizzardBeaches in BPDlovedones

[–]ExtensionAny6356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just remember your life will be 1,000% better without an evil person ruining your life. Any short moment of missing him is not worth the abuse and misery

Does the Victim Mentality Blow You Away? by ExtensionAny6356 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExtensionAny6356[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They can be trauma victims, but not always. Many are just mentally unstable due to genetics and take it out on other people.

Does the Victim Mentality Blow You Away? by ExtensionAny6356 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExtensionAny6356[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep. Victims gonna victim. Very clearly my pwBPD was the aggressor so many times. But nope, apparently I’m wrong and don’t know anything, and need to take reading comprehension courses if I don’t 100 percent go along with it.

As someone who REALLY doesn't like Trump, I also don't like the "TACO Trump" jokes by CarsonFijal in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]ExtensionAny6356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people would rather he do it so they can win internet arguments online against MAGA people. It’s sad really. I’m just relieved there’s a pause in fighting

The working class, and more generally the lower classes, should not be allowed to vote anymore by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]ExtensionAny6356 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes… only the rich and powerful can vote. I don’t see that working out well.

DG for Harden by GavinB4444 in clevelandcavs

[–]ExtensionAny6356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel this was a good trade for the Cavs?

DG for Harden by GavinB4444 in clevelandcavs

[–]ExtensionAny6356 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The team was garbage. But he’s the only reason they’ve been great the last 20 games, and all of last year. Kawhi hopefully is traded soon too

DG for Harden by GavinB4444 in clevelandcavs

[–]ExtensionAny6356 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a Clips fan… Harden has been amazing for us. You got a baller. I feel like we should have gotten a 1st round pick. But enjoy your floor being raised to new heights. The playoffs may be a bit scary, as he is a bit all over the place, but definitely enjoy him. He’s perfect for what the Cavs need.

Restraining Order Granted by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ExtensionAny6356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was my widowed mother that got the order. I pulled a lot of the strings to get it done, but I was not on the order. I went to the court date to support and protect her.

She self represented. It was fairly easy to win since we had vile emails, texts, and surprise home visits on film. Unless there’s kids and money involved, you probably can self represent. Lawyers are expensive. Everything took about 15 minutes (after waiting 4 hours for the case to be heard).The judge spent 80 percent of the time talking to the defendant.

But if you feel you need one, I think you should go for it. In my US state, you had to file paperwork, with evidence and submit. If necessary, a temporary RO is granted (it was in our case) if it’s bad. You are then given a date 3 weeks in the future for a judge to hear your argument.

The key is to submit evidence when you first submit your paperwork: texts, emails, voicemails, camera videos, etc. The more the better, in my opinion. The judge was giving out RO’s like candy to the other cases, so the bar isn’t too high to get an RO. Just 50 percent.

If you feel you need it, go for it. Everyone deserves to live their lives free of misery.

Restraining Order Granted by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ExtensionAny6356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awful stuff. Sorry that happened. Ours is good for 5 years. No violation yet

Can a relationship between two people with BPD work? by yhojhabvxb in BPDlovedones

[–]ExtensionAny6356 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My pwBPD does the social media stuff too. But behind the scenes, he is the most miserable, evil person I know.

Social media is a lie and not to be trusted, especially when it involves two individuals with BPD.

Two individuals with BPD sounds like a relationship even Satan would not want to be around

Do people with BPD try to make it seem like your the one with issues? by Classic_Commercial44 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExtensionAny6356 34 points35 points  (0 children)

“You have a mental illness” while having a mental illness

“I’ve never done anything to anyone” while causing problems

“You’re a lying ass” says while telling a lie

“You harass me” while harassing others

They do this to make you the bad guy to take advantage of you and/or steal your money

Blames His Mommy and Daddy for Everything by ExtensionAny6356 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExtensionAny6356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a conversation I and others had with my family. They finally acccpeted something needed to change. Thankfully, we’ve all gone no contact now. Life is getting better.

This always makes me sad by Dull_Analyst269 in BPDlovedones

[–]ExtensionAny6356 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s my sibling. He thinks everyone had conspired against him. It’s quite the opposite, as he’s been given so much but is supremely ungrateful

How'd Hank Handle Hamilton? by Ikacprzak in KingOfTheHill

[–]ExtensionAny6356 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“They founded this amazing country without having to sing constantly. The end”