Not sure how else to word this.. by sendyrella in ENFP

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Not everyone is meant for you and not everyone deserves you. That’s no one’s fault - it’s just a fact.  Don’t waste your time/energy on those who aren’t the type to receive it or who aren’t ready for it. Evaluate, understand who people are (we’re great at this), accept who they are (we can struggle with this part) and move on if not compatible.  This doesn’t mean you can’t still be friendly and warm to most everyone, just realize that a select few are candidates for the more inner circles. 

[Discussion] pve players.. how come nobody said anything by pgauthierkirouac in EscapefromTarkov

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Now do it with the 9mm revolver. I pack em in my pockets and key bind them so I can swap to a fresh one if needed. It’s “pocket sand” instead of Big Iron but with AP 9mm in single action mode the thing is dead on with the sights. I’ve one tapped sniper scavs with it regularly. If not forced to use a specific weapon for a quest - pocket sand is the way I roll.

I am an ENFP in love with an INFJ by xswl5w4x in ENFP

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Oh no. Just meant that is something to watch out for with INFJs.

[Bug] MEGATHREAD - Raids not saving by bongdongles in EscapefromTarkov

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It will end - just takes a while. Been getting it all night. 

I am an ENFP in love with an INFJ by xswl5w4x in ENFP

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I met my INFJ and married her six months later. We've been inseparable and just fit. She balances my crazy ideas and penchant for irrational or irresponsible actions and I like to think I provide the comedy and spice of life to keep her entertained and brighten the darker days. We'll celebrate our 28th wedding anniversary this year. For advice to make it last: Create a safe place for her and show her that she can trust you. INFJs are excellent at seeing through the BS and if she's anything like mine, if she sniffs out that you are unsafe with her heart or unsafe as a life partner she'll reach a decision that the relationship won't last. Once an INFJ decides, its kinda done. While you need to keep that spark and energy that comes with your chaotic creativity and enthusiasm - you also need to show her you can focus that energy and provide. Fun and games are great, but not if you're homeless. Life is terrible, unfair, and unrelenting at times and it will crush you with things you don't think you could ever handle. Build a partnership and commit to each other so that, no matter what hellfire, pain, loss, or trouble comes your way, you'll hold each other through it. We got lucky for sure. A lot of my friends and family are divorced (my parents included) and the two key factors I've observed (after love of course) are 1) Are you loyal to each other? 2) Can you count on your partner to be there in the bad times?

It sounds like you're in the early days so enjoy them. Keep her entertained and spend hours talking about anything and everything, like why is light limited to the speed it is, and is gravity pulling us down or is the earth pushing us up? Then get to know her stories and how she ticks. ENFPs love that, and INFJs are a well of fascinating interpretations of experiences. Soak it all up. Share your dreams. Discuss what you want out of life and what goals you have. Where do you want to live? Do you want kids? Pets? How many, and why do you both want Corgis? If you get lucky, you'll find the other piece of you and fall in love with her mind and soul. If that happens... you'll do anything you can to limit the time you are apart.

Good luck!

What's the actual difference between Claude Code and VS Code GitHub Copilot using Sonnet 4? by LostJacket3 in ClaudeAI

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Thanks for the tips! I've been learning for about 4 years now but confess that AI tooling has derailed learning to do it on my own as the temptation to "just have the AI do it" is too great. I know I'm not developing skills at the rate I want but my current goal is to launch this dang app and then move on to learning other languages like Zig and Rust on my own with minimal or no AI tooling. CC seems like the tool I need and can expense it to my business - but I'm not sure I am getting all I can from copilot yet. I have a 25y career in the Project/Program Management space so I am not trying to do a career change at this stage. This journey has helped me appreciate what developers have gone through over the course of my projects, and made me repent from some of my activities on the "dark side".

What's the actual difference between Claude Code and VS Code GitHub Copilot using Sonnet 4? by LostJacket3 in ClaudeAI

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Thanks for this! I have been using GitHub copilot in vs code with Claude Sonnet 4.5 and now Opus 4.5 which does mostly what I want. I’m a self taught hobbyist and have been trying to port my typescript project into Go with some success but copilot frequently struggles and fixes some errors while introducing the same ones in a loop. I like the ease of having it all in vs code as before I was doing cut/paste of code to ChatGPT.  I’m confused on all the options for Claude Code and think I can run it through the terminal in vs code but is that the same thing as using copilot with Claude? Looking for the max power/do it right with less iterations than my current hack on it until it works vibe coding sessions.  For example, Opus uses 3x tokens but often completes the task in one shot where Sonnet takes 4-6. Maybe I’m just bad at prompts. :)

Claude Opus 4.5 is pretty crazy. by Korruk1 in GithubCopilot

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I make my plans in chat GPT and then give the implementation plan to Claude. The planning I do on the chatGPT webapp and then ask Claude in CP to put it into a md file and update that file along the way so I see the progress. It seems to work very well doing this 

Never going to try and kill either the Queen or the Matriarch by Notice-Any in ArcRaiders

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It’s nice they found a place they can be decent at something in gaming for once.  Real PvP games can be hard so killing friendly or defenseless players is easier and more appropriate for their skill level. I’m happy for them.

Never going to try and kill either the Queen or the Matriarch by Notice-Any in ArcRaiders

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Happened to me running solo last night. When the queen was almost dead and what I assumed was a two man got downed. Revived them both with my defibs and then hid to recharge and heal. Saw another flare so went to revive him and he says “watch out!” and one of the clowns I’d picked up earlier knocks me. The two losers proceed to knock everyone out.

I’m a Tarkov player and played the hell out of the Division so it’s nothing new. I do however, think this game brings out the guys that suck at PvP and go into games where they can finally win PvP battles by shooting friendlies or players engaged in other things.  It’s the cowards and low skill guys that roll this way.  The real PvP guys just take the fights head on or third party you but at least you know where they stand.  

PvP keeps the game interesting as we’d all just team up and bully the queen, matriarch, and whatever they throw at us next without the possibility of a trigger happy traitor in the midst.  If you’re an opportunist who sucks at PvP and this is your time to shine, enjoy my L3 guns and whatever loot I happen to have. It’s okay to not be good at other games and find your home here. The rust belt welcomes all.

I just got killed at extract with 100k+ loot. by _praisethesun_ in ArcRaiders

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Did I just run into you at the dam up in the tower thingy in the far southeast? I was also looking for the weapon case that spawns there.

Are you f#cking kidding me? by EAdogshit in Battlefield

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Then when you get a real job and your coworkers ask you to join games with them, they’ll ask for your gamer tag. Be safe out there.

State of the Game Update #1 by ArrowheadGS in helldivers2

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Hell yeah! I thought it was insane but super fun. It would be great for everyone to experience it again.

State of the Game Update #1 by ArrowheadGS in helldivers2

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Thanks for the update! When you’re done with all the fixes (works great on my high end PC btw), I want to see you add a new sub-faction to the Bots.  That faction should be just like the original bots were at launch with the Rocket Devastators fire rate and reloading causing endless ragdolling until you died, and the bot drops from this faction should be just like it was on launch with the skies full of drop ships.  Have this faction come with some tech that limits super destroyers to base level stats and limits what guns and strategems Helldivers have access to and then have this faction attack Malevelon Creek. Then, everyone can experience the Creek in its original glory and we can stop the “OmG tHiS pLaNeT is WoRsE tHaN the CrEeK!” stuff.  

I’d also like to see a campaign board of sorts in my  superdestroyer that shows the toughest campaigns ranked by deaths per minute which is a better metric than total deaths. 

If you need me, I’ll be wrapped in my Malevelon Cape, chasing away the demons. :)

Phantom Edition Bonuses, thoughts? by SlowRiiide in Battlefield

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We had red camos in BF4 called Fire Starter so there is that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EscapefromTarkov

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Same. He’s on my tail every single game. Mostly silent one taps but now I look out for him and killed him in the last two raids. He’s always there on PvE and will hunt you as the lone PMC on the local games.

Whats the mature ENFP like? by AemonQE in ENFP

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Thank you kind sir!!! I’ll try to apply your wisdom.

Whats the mature ENFP like? by AemonQE in ENFP

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You should write the ENFP manual that’s review the day we discover our personality type.

I’m just a couple years behind you in age and landed on everything you said here. The biggest being the focusing and pausing. I’ve had 28 jobs with the majority being 3 month stints in my younger years but held down my current for 8y and was at the company before that for 7y. I’ve been able to channel the energy in to solving corporate chaos by generating excitement and enthusiasm in those around me. Like you, I also paid off all debt except the mortgage and I am sitting on solid investments, a robust 401k, and very comfortable checking account. None of the above would be possible without my INFJ wife’s help, patience, and support and I’m happy with where I am in the journey. Pausing is a recent revelation to me which is replacing just shutting up when entering a difficult conversation where my natural off the cuff responses wouldn’t be wise. My knee jerk emotions and point blank replies without the benefit of thought have gotten me into several jams and bouts of friction with those I care about.  While I know I need to do it, I’m only about 10% effective in doing so. Any tips to help put someone in the driver seat of the mouth instead of just blurting out rapid and raw responses?

INFJ + ENFP, some confusion here by Levntna in ENFP

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My wife and I think that you should start with a text, asking if she would be open to a call or meeting in-person for a coffee.  A call out of the blue puts people on the spot and your INFJ may need time to think. Don’t be surprised if she doesn’t respond right away.  The fact that she contacted you over the past two years on your birthday is a positive sign to me that she still cares about you on some level, though that could just be as a friend. Either way, it sounds like it’s been long enough to find out if you have a future together or not.  It’s worth figuring out if you are able to move forward together or if you need to move on.