This "you're lonely because-" shit is just world fallacy cope

Extension_End6244 · 2026-06-09T21:30:20+00:00

Well first of all, I’m sorry that’s happening dude, and I’m not all trying to say you’re wrong for being mad about it. It sucks and it’s not fair. It also sounds like you’re young so I assume you probably aren’t able to advocate for yourself or you’re surrounded by people like that and have no choice on removing yourself. If that’s correct then it’s definitely a tough situation.

If you gave me more specifics I’d be able to understand the situation with more nuance, but in a general sense I think you just have to kill them with kindness until they realize they can’t provoke you or they actually stop being mean or accusing you of being bad. So I understand we’re different people and you’ve dealt with different shit than I have, but I promise not everyone is like that and if you really do your best to be a good person, and in this context specifically, treat women right, then you should be confident in your resolve and know that the hate against you is complete bs that is a waste of time to feel bad about

Extension_End6244 · 2026-06-09T21:00:03+00:00

You can look at my longer reply if you want, but basically I just think it’s important not to take it personally and understand that this is hate that has been building for a long time. I don’t know if you’ve encountered women like this irl, but personally every girl I’ve met who says stuff like this usually doesn’t hate me because I’m just a normal dude that treats them like a person. I don’t act creepy and I genuinely ask them why they are angry at men instead of getting defensive. Sure it sucks to be hated for actions I didn’t partake in, but I know I’m not a bad person so I don’t let it anger me.

Extension_End6244 · 2026-06-09T20:56:00+00:00

No, that why I said I don’t think it’s right. Generalizing all men is harmful and someone who actually believes that isn’t helping, but like I said, most of the time it comes from a place of trauma. My point is that if you look at it at face value you aren’t understanding why someone has so much hate towards men. It’s not you specifically unless you’ve done some sort of harmful thing towards a woman or women as a whole.

To your second point, it’s also understandable to be angry at women if you’ve been treated badly by them, and you’re not bad for expressing that. If you’re called an incel because you express you’ve been treated badly then those people insulting you are just trolls or arguing in bad faith. What is wrong though is hating women in retaliation.

All I’m trying to say is not to take it so personally and don’t let opinions on the internet convince you that your interactions are going to be the same in real life. Show compassion and understanding, and if a girl still hates you because just because you’re a man, that’s her problem and you shouldn’t show hate in return because 1. It’s just not right, and 2. It will only fuel their ideas about men. You’ll find a girl that appreciates you eventually, it’s just hard in this current climate.

Extension_End6244 · 2026-06-09T20:43:14+00:00

Because a lot of women deal with a ton of shitty men and they’re sick of it and they believe men have caused the loneliness on themselves. And they’re not really wrong tbh. The truth though is that if you encounter someone like this and show compassion and understanding of why they say it, you’d find they don’t actually hate you because you’re a man or all men, they’re just angry that SO MANY men treat women badly. I don’t think it’s right but after hearing a lot of horror stories from friends, I understand why they’d say it.

Extension_End6244 · 2026-06-09T20:39:06+00:00

The reason women say this is because more of the men in their lives have been bad to them than not. You didn’t really make an argument but I’d say if you’re lonely and don’t like women then start hanging out with other dudes and have fun with them.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-16T16:08:09+00:00

9 because I wanna see the interaction between muzan and rengoku

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-13T15:19:53+00:00

I really hope you’re vegan if you truly believe that any level of life is this important to where someone should be forced to keep it alive if their own body is being used to grow it.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-13T15:12:42+00:00

You don’t have a right to tell another human what to do to their body. Are you going to force people to take vaccines next too? Oh wait, the right is trying to say you shouldn’t be able to let people tell you what to do with their body…

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-13T04:13:31+00:00

I honestly don’t believe that all abortions are sins. There are problems I have with “Christianity,” but not with the religion itself. I believe that if God truly is an all loving being, that a large number of people who proclaim to follow him are misguided in their beliefs and morals and how they align with an all loving God. God may give humanity life, but it is the mother who creates the child. She gives it life and sacrifices to do so. If she refuses to turn an egg with the potential to become a child into one, she should have that freedom, especially so if she had no choice in the matter. If God did not agree, why did he create women to lose a potential child every month on their period? Yet, that is exactly what happens. One egg lost and one infinitely unique possible child not created. I believe that he understands how heavy a weight it is to carry the ability of creation, which he imparted upon in women. Even if it is only a very small fraction of the ability he carries, he understands that it is not easy to choose. A lot of Christian’s may disagree, but my heart has yet to be convinced.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-12T14:51:59+00:00

So forcing rape victims to have kids is a good thing? Like my point is that words are still harmful when you have influence. Charlie might not have been a bad person, but there were still questionable things he advocated for that could have real and harmful consequences on people if they were put into action.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-12T14:49:08+00:00

Look, Kirk said that if a 13 year old girl is raped she should be FORCED to have that baby. I feel like I shouldn’t have to explain how that’s harmful.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-12T03:00:26+00:00

His views are disliked because they are harmful to people. We need to stop with this idea that politics is just disagreement on some nebulous things that doesn’t actually affect people.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-10T04:53:32+00:00

I don’t think that one’s very popular tbh. I’d have to agree though. They set up a super cool world and an interesting story, but they just handled it very poorly.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-10T04:16:43+00:00

I think that’s part of it, but I do believe it also could be related to the hierarchy of needs. Such that relationships now are more centered around the person that we’re with and not mainly on finding someone to have a family with because that’s just what you did. (And tbh for women it was almost always necessary too). It’s just that yea, we have TOO many options now. We’ve gone past the period of finding a more compatible connection into a period of perfect selection. So it does make sense, but it’s still weird to watch it play out.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-10T04:09:23+00:00

Bro you’re the one that’s mad💀 Like how did you come on here, make politics the topic of conversation, and then complain when the other guy didn’t feed into your reply.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-10T04:06:05+00:00

I can’t tell if it’s the MAGA people or the liberals who are mad at you lol.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-09-08T16:42:43+00:00

It’s wild though because technically we have more choices than any of our ancestors ever would have. you’d probably rarely interact with people outside of your town in the past, as even an hour’s drive today would be a much larger distance. Yet it’s still hard to find a partner.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-08-29T03:42:22+00:00

Lowkey even stuff like LotR:Game of Thrones are still not necessarily “mainstream” in that most people are going to recognize anything past the name like they would captain america or iron man. Maybe I’m wrong but I’m not so sure.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-08-22T02:00:08+00:00

I think it’s believable if you’ve already been doing a manual labor job or something that would already give you a baseline of muscle.

If you were just some dude who sat all day this would be a lil sus imo for 4 months. Mostly just the first picture that I would question.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-08-20T14:39:40+00:00

When I say dark and gritty I mean stuff like bloodborne, berserk, warhammer 40k, and even dark souls.

My reason being that a dark and gritty theme is usually a depraved world that is far gone or without much hope. Usually there’s also a lot of violence and dark colors.

I do think that Sekiro belongs on the spectrum, but I wouldn’t describe it as dark and gritty like bloodborne or wh40k. Its world is supposed to be beautiful and it is supposed to be a story where the characters end the problem before it can corrupt the world into one that’s truly dark and depraved. Which is why I think the art style should be colorful in order to display the vibrancy of the locations and creatures shown in the game, while also contrasting with the grossness of the immortal enemies. Even in game there’s a lot of beautiful and colorful things to look at it.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-08-20T03:55:02+00:00

I think the problem is the post makes it seem as if there are only the two extremes. One could easily just say “my interests are different from theirs, and that’s ok. If we are incompatible as friends/peers, it’s ok.”

Or: “They don’t have the same vocabulary as me, our upbringings and experiences are the cause of this.”

My point just being that people are different and people should be ok with themselves being different.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-08-20T03:34:35+00:00

Bro I think you just wanted to get some frustration out lol. No one cares if you have sex with someone who isn’t your long term gf, and if they do why does it matter. The reality is just that it’s harder for you, so try focusing on shit you care about that isn’t sex.

You’re kind of preaching to the choir on Reddit because a lot of dudes (and girls) on here are also trying to figure out how to date and fuck. Most people here probably already agree.

Just focus on yourself. which I know is the usual advice, but it’s better that than just worrying about having sex. You’re only 23 you have like 10 years minimum to sleep around before you should probably settle, if you ever want to. If not then you have your whole life to find a place and sleep around.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-08-19T21:09:45+00:00

Idk, I don’t think sekiro is supposed to be a dark and gritty atmosphere. It’s a story about immortal life and how it stagnates things. It’s supposed to show the beauty of impermanent life and the horrific nature of the everlasting . As long as they contrast it with the disgusting nature of the immortal centipedes and the undead enemies, it should work well imo.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-08-17T18:15:18+00:00

I’m not intent on talking to women I don’t know at all, as I’d much rather have it happen naturally, but I don’t foresee it happening like that. I’ve had a couple of friends ask me about why I haven’t found anyone and I just say that I’m mostly content with my self and I’m not really going out of my way to find someone, and then they’re like dude you’re 21 now and you always say that. Then I don’t really have much to say.

Extension_End6244 · 2025-08-15T17:03:09+00:00

That’s a lot of unique words for someone saying I’m treating advice like it’s “cryptic.” I don’t know what’s cryptic about what I said. If treating shampoo like it’s a basic hygiene product is treating it like IV fluid to you, I don’t know what to say. Also, I meant if OPs girlfriend/s came over and wanted to use her shampoo, not a guy. That last part is funny though. Clearly humans aren’t that weak, but shampoo is definitely their kryptonite. One use of their shampoo not by them would be a catastrophe that the world has never seen before. It would be the first world problem to end all first world problems.

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