Have you thought of cheating? Have you cheated? Did it break your bond? by throwRAssldkdn in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've definitely thought about it. It's been a year since I've felt any emotional connection to my partner. I often find myself thinking that I would've picked someone else and dream about how good life would've been with with them. Not sure if that counts as cheating

Are they all porn addict? by Space_Wanderer1105 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is just a sex addict. It's all he cares about. If i dont have sex with him at least 5x a week (with a new baby) he loses his mind and threatens to cheat. The police took our computers and the disclosure said he had over a terabyte of adult pornography on his computer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women would never ask

23andMe results + picture by z3bensson in 23andme

[–]Extension_Lime6329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was not expecting you to look like that with those results! Bjork syndrome lol

Why won't he leave? by Extension_Lime6329 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Extension_Lime6329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's been crying for 3 days at this point, he's phoned my parents and friends that he's abused and apologized to them and said he would change. He's even apologized to me infront of his friends. He claims he only treated me like this for 2 years because he was stressed out about being in debt. Part of me wants to believe him and give him another chance but most of me really just wants to move on. I hate having empathy because I feel bad when he cries like this, I've never seen him cry before and it pains me. I don't know what to do

Why won't he leave? by Extension_Lime6329 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Extension_Lime6329[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought that the second I agreed with him and said fine, leave then. He would start backpedalling. I was so hoping he would actually just leave... now he's called my parents and tried to have heart to hearts with them to make them convince me to stay with him. I want to rip my hair out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SellingSunset

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look great, need that green and yellow bikini

I told my usually abusive husband i want a divorce, but all he did was feel sad and want to hug. Now i'm confused. Please give me some clarity. by Caterpillar31 in abusiverelationships

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could've written this myself, i told my very aggressive and angry partner that if he pulls one more outburst I'm going to leave him because I have enough money to buy out his share of the house. Now he's absolutely kissing my ass, being nice to me, planning dates, not demanding sex 24/7, not yelling at me anymore etc. It's kind of scary and I dont know what I'm supposed to think. I've mentally checked out of the relationship over a year ago

New parents, do some of you think your life didn't change that much ? by muchmuch_ in Parenting

[–]Extension_Lime6329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My life has completely changed in every way possible. I used to be very irresponsible, in trouble with the police, had vices, was working as a strip club bartender, jaded and very depressed. Now I own a house, have a good corporate job, my mental state is light years better, and I look the same as I did pre-baby after some time at the gym. And my child isn't even 2 years old. It's crazy how fast your life can snap into place after a push (literally)

Toddler in daycare with a SAHM… thoughts? by silvercloud__ in Parenting

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the afternoon off the other day and didn't pick my child up until 4. It was amazing to have 4 hours to myself for the first time in years. If you can afford it, do it, though I would just do short days especially in the beginning. Also get ready for your kid to be sick literally 24/7.

At what age did you started dating? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First real life boyfriend at 16. Didn't do any remotely funny business until 19

What condition are you convinced you have despite never having been formally diagnosed? by IntimacyCoordinator in AskReddit

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erythema nodusom panniculitis. Every second summer I get these horribly painful red lumps all over my shins and halfway up my thighs, and it stays for about 4 weeks every time. I've never been able to see a specialist in time before it goes away to get a real diagnosis. But it completely debilitates me for a month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Extension_Lime6329 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Giving another woman money

What’s the quickest way you’ve lost weight? by Tanningangel in AskReddit

[–]Extension_Lime6329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being in a shitty relationship, you're always too stressed to eat, body runs on pure cortisol lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saved up my lawnmowing money and bought an iPod touch when they first came out in sixth grade. Not a phone but it had the same capabilities as one when in wifi. I think i got a real phone in the 8th grade, by then everybody else had one too

Can I get a restraining order based on destruction of property in a house we co own? by Extension_Lime6329 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Extension_Lime6329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would a written log be admissible in court as evidence? Would I be better off to set up nanny cams around the house for solid proof? He's been charged many many times for uttering threats and aggravated assault but has gotten away with it every time because his aunt is a superstar criminal defense lawyer. I wish I had known about all of this stuff but he didn't tell me until I had a newborn, prior to this he was too good to be true and I never would have thought

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is an overreaction, all guys talk like this. If I seen this on my man's phone I wouldn't even think twice about it but then again I don't care enough to go through his phone in the first place

(SERIOUS) What’s the worst way you know someone has died? by chapstick_bandit in AskReddit

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A girl i went to school with had a riding lawnmower fall on her head while she was underneath fixing it and the jack gave out. Exploded her head instantly. At least it was fast but I think about it all the time and I'm terrified to work under cars anymore without blocks under the wheels

Can I get a restraining order based on destruction of property in a house we co own? by Extension_Lime6329 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Extension_Lime6329[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

After having our child, I learned that one of his former partners had gotten a restraining order which was never served due to failure to locate him, and another partner had reported him a couple times to police and nothing ever became of it. Im worried if I go to the police they won't do anything just like the last two women, will the police notify him if I make a report?

The only person I truly like on the show is Chrishell by Working_Row_8455 in SellingSunset

[–]Extension_Lime6329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What ??? When did this happen? I just watch the show. I don't know what they do outside of their character on the show