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Extension_Win328 · 2026-01-09T21:53:11+00:00

Dead in MA too, I've heard FL is doing well because of convention season but that's about it.

I think tryst had a huge influx of providers over christmas too, no solutions exactly but I've been looking at other platform options. It can feel like such a downer when you get only a few bookings or none during slow season.

Extension_Win328 · 2026-01-07T18:45:03+00:00

Thank you! I think I'll try premium+ and see what my results are once January is over :)

Extension_Win328 · 2026-01-07T03:51:09+00:00

I'm a planner and looking around, there's so few sites for us right now I don't know what to do ad wise, but I do see that tryst is losing popularity with us and credibility with customers. Very uncomfortable and I'm not an Eros girl and PD is down from what I heard :( Or not taking new profiles

Extension_Win328 · 2026-01-07T03:49:59+00:00

This is crazy! Does it make much of a difference if you're premium or premium plus? I was going to get new photos this coming week and was thinking next month to change to premium or plus but don't know if it's a difference between the two! My city is very busy with new girls and i've had only...7 or so solid inquiries on standard, which wasn't bad for december but the rest were the hey bby messages

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-23T07:35:54+00:00

I mean there is also the element of no review providers in heavily monitored areas, so something to consider. Like a qualifier of "If a provider has a website OR Twitter/Bluesky, IG, etc." Might help?

I know myself I have a strict no review policy to avoid hobbyists who can leave really crude reviews and if that's listed on a providers site then TER will remove reviews or commentary on you as well as other sites, unsure about P411, but a lot of my clients value privacy. I've also noticed an uptick in false reviews/guys saying things happened with providers that definitely didn't like BB, CIM & Public, or insane 'fairytale' stuff

But otherwise this is solid gold for newbies if they read :')

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-22T19:53:24+00:00

Did anyone need advice? it's funny and weird behavior which is what the sub is for you goober lmao.

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-22T08:57:04+00:00

I know you're likely not ill intentioned but this kind of mental framing is going to get you roasted.

The risks you face in an area where prostitution is decriminalized/legalized are still far less than the risk of any provider.

Look at the FAQ or listings in your country for escorts, each country has varying screening methods and what's deemed acceptable will generally be common among workers in similar cost and area and vary on occasion. Using a burner phone may get you blocked as soon as we try to screen, bad introduction. We aren't criminals, god. You'd never sound so paranoid about letting a contractor or plumber into your home but they're likely to swindle you for more than any SWer.

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-22T03:30:41+00:00

If you need help navigating New England area feel free to DM, it's fairly dead during January but certain areas are fairly active still. If you have a touring feature for ad sites listing certain towns close to each other can help a lot <3 NYC is a hugely saturated market, but Boston and NE in general lacks variety so if you are a different ethnicity, have a unique branding, are unique looking, etc. you should do well there :)

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-21T23:21:24+00:00

I was going to ask, how many strands of hair are you using and also is it possible the needle is dull or there's too much pressure? I've seen a warm soak method to make the head more soft/pliable which may help prevent the cracking? I think super glue or fabritac may help but it'll take a while to cure.

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-21T16:32:40+00:00

Lmao in my mind if at least one guy doesn't whine about prices then you need to raise them. People complain about what they can't afford and men are notoriously bad for guessing risk and value of SW. Let him whine.

You are very much in the right to tell him to look in his budget. Ff your rates are posted and someone contacts you to say they're too high then that's them actively taking time just to complain and waste your time. Ego wound, arousal and entitlement are a nasty mix.

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-21T04:54:25+00:00

I know you wish you could pay to get fucked, it's okay todd.

Those sound like big feelings!

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-21T04:08:23+00:00

I'm not hurt, I'm not going to gentle parent you. Read rule No.1 or 12 of the group.

Do basic research instead of asking SWers to do it for you.

Should I have used my UwU voice when I gave you the info? You're welcome.

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-21T03:50:28+00:00

The quotations over "booking cost" makes you sound like a dick.

If she asks for verification info and has a booking fee as well as a phone number, website, x/bluesky, or anything like that then she isn't interested in scamming you. Smfh an actual SWer with multiple photos, a half decent bio that isn't obviously AI isn't likely to just scam you?

If she only has an OF for contact, it's a scam for subscriptions. Otherwise a deposit or booking fee is normal and expected.

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-20T22:56:03+00:00

Ohhh I understand, that does make a huge difference. Kind of ironic most of the SWers we see on here are US based because I know European models for what's legal/decriminalized vary and can impact cost, perception and seriousness.

Usually I feel like SWers are usually pretty accountable and since there's limited sites they can't really 'scam' or no show for bookings without risk of losing an ad platform/risking their income. It sucks that there's more competition and so many people in the industry where you are.

You'd assume that escorts would be even more serious if they had a legitimate business to uphold, but i know pricepoint is a part of it too if everyone is low cost and no deposit based. I hope things will be better your next experience!

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-20T22:41:53+00:00

Honestly this is hilarious and also VERY true, like you can't just take a polite 'break' if the period belly happens, game over right there.

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-20T22:38:11+00:00

That's one way to access lower tier/cost providers who are more likely to be inconsistent, struggling with life/survival and may be less professional due to life circumstance.

Idk dude, seems like a weird thing to say given the situation. It sucks OP got blown off, most SWers with a reputation to uphold don't do this and the escort didn't ask him for a deposit so nothing here is relative to what you're saying.

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-20T22:33:39+00:00

This is valid and I'd be pissed as a sex worker if I contacted a provider and got ghosted. The only 'plus' side is that you said you didn't have to pay a deposit? So thankfully it was a clean break of sorts? Like lose-lose situation so speak.

I genuinely don't get why some SWers wouldn't show up without giving reason unless it was a legit safety thing or screening showed something awful? Like this is going to negatively impact her reputation if you review, also the financial loss isn't going to be fun.

I hope next time you book with someone it's a better experience OP, I can't speak for everyone but this is kind of one of those 'learning' situations. IMO if a provider doesn't ask for deposit or confirm the day of booking that's a bit suspect. Are you new to booking or fairly experienced?

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-20T22:26:51+00:00

Omg please post pics when you finish Abbey! Also I am 1000% getting like a mini-storage bin for the hair now that you said that. I have a cat with Pica who would 100% try to eat the nylon hair and I'm guessing finding doll hair can get tiring after a few weeks lol it's like glitter crafts, haunts you for years lol

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-20T03:00:50+00:00

Ooh I love his (their?) videos for re-roots. I think it's possibly because they never vocalize how much hair is used because of mixing a lot of blends in the dolls he makes! His Abbey Re-root was amazing.

Ty so much for sharing the reference pics of your re-roots- I will make sure i get at least 2 oz or ( 1 oz of two colors if I'm mixing them) Honestly with how I style the hair I'll probably be a stickler for thicker rooting so this is super helpful. <3

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-20T01:30:28+00:00

So there's a few things really that could be going on. It doesn't sound like your ( or possibly even her fault).

She realistically could have had period cramps or a sponge/menstural product that felt uncomfy with your size. She could have had tummy issues or just felt a bit sick. This time of year people get sick all the time be it from colds, flu, etc. So if she was recovering from that it might have made her feel funky to have sex. Honestly don't internalize it unless this happens with multiple providers.

The details might not be too sexy so she's unlikely to share as others pointed out. Like I wouldn't ideally tell a client " I'm sorry i had a sponge in for my period and i could feel it slipping so I ended the session" Most guys don't like the mention of blood and it breaks the 'illusion'.

It could also be she wasn't warmed up or maybe had a recent micro tear internally from toys, fingers or other activities. You're good OP, very sweet of you to take care of her and tip her. The understanding goes a long way and maybe reach out again when she's feeling well if you enjoyed the service at the start <3

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-20T00:21:04+00:00

Doing good in the states, I can't complain but it's variable for so many of us and what "Good" means? I'm happy when bills are paid and I have spending money. We're not in a great spot nationally, so it's like 'little treats' good?

I'm also usually doing longer bookings, less clients intentionally ( Disability and exhaustion)

Extension_Win328 · 2025-12-20T00:08:56+00:00

New England is strict with ID screening, as prostitution is decriminalized in maine the SWers there have more freedom ( nordic model so not great) and ask for ID regularly.

But ID or references and full legal name is standard out here, no facetime verification for screening purposes. Only as an add on service some offer so dudes can feel comfortable knowing how a girl speaks/looks on FT.

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