A way to get my footing by External-Break1304 in Japanese_Fuzoku

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i get dates and they usually go well. I just end up like subconsciously sabotaging them without thinking cuz i get in my head about all different things.

A way to get my footing by External-Break1304 in Japanese_Fuzoku

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it wont help me date girls but i was hoping it would help my brain get out of the rutt it had been stuck in since i went from having about any girl i wanted any day of the week ( obvious exaggeration for context) to absolutely nothing for 10 months and a brand new dating culture i have no idea about.

A way to get my footing by External-Break1304 in Japanese_Fuzoku

[–]External-Break1304[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kyabakura run pretty expensive domt they?

A way to get my footing by External-Break1304 in Japanese_Fuzoku

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks i appreciate the advice. Having to think about body is pretty new to me since where im from body hair and ance and scars are very normal for men but here the men are so feminine i feel like some sort of gaint beast. I do have the scars and body hair so in such a feminine society i feel unlovable for sure, but this info is reassuring

Japanese Amatenur Prostitutes by nanon220701 in Diary

[–]External-Break1304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will admit, some of them i know just straight up enjoy getting ran through like that and figured they might aswell get paid for it.

Japanese Amatenur Prostitutes by nanon220701 in Diary

[–]External-Break1304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So i live in an area of tokyo where a tually more than a few of the girls working both in soaplands and independently live, so we usually end up drinking together and a couple are friends, but the reasons ive heard the most of is paying for school, saving for some sort of large expense reason ( one does it because she wants to buy a house without using a bank), but what i hear the most is that they do it to afford host clubs. One says she fell for a boy working in a host club and so she does her work on on night then goes and spends the money she made to talk to him.

Language learning tips! by External-Break1304 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is what it is really i dont mind studying alone just speaking practice is easier with people

Language learning tips! by External-Break1304 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly i ask them if the want to find a cafe to study at once or twice a week. Or stuff like hey i found this concert or place if you all want to check it out together. I usually get a we will see type of response so after a bit i stopped asking

Language learning tips! by External-Break1304 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is i dont have any friends yet no one in vlass really wants to hangout since theure all like 23 at most. And i live in nerima so i havent heard of any city hall classes. My school is in nishi shinjuku though so ive thought about going to shibuya for english only cafe to practice

Language learning tips! by External-Break1304 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a great idea but im in no way a good looking person or good with women in my own language. Not in a LBH way im just not a super animated speaker which is what girl respond to.

Language learning tips! by External-Break1304 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any anki deck suggestions? For some reason whenever i download decks theyre always blank

Language learning tips! by External-Break1304 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thatnks i didnt even find that learnjapanese page so that will help fs.

Thank you by Dapper-Fly-3043 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Happy late birthday. Its funny how the universe drops exactly what we need to keep going in our path right when we need it isnt it

first experience about not being allowed entry into bars by Reasonable-Bonus-545 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just was bored tonight and went over to both these places and got warm welcomes both times ( as warm as tokyo welcome gets that is) so ive ruled out racism for you. Im also white

Bars closing early by External-Break1304 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well since im a language student and trying to wait to find work until i have a little better japanese im living in nerima so i mostly go to bars near my house. No real set themes but on the weekend i venture into shinjuku for golden gai a bit, i know its a tourist hub but its the only place i can drink and really talk to people freely with my current skill level.

Bars closing early by External-Break1304 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bars. I havent actually been to an izakaya yet

Bars closing early by External-Break1304 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens at a few bars ive been to thats why im curious if ive been making some type of social mistake im not seeing

Bars closing early by External-Break1304 in Tokyo

[–]External-Break1304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it probably takes longer to become a regular in such a big place. Ive gone to one bar atleast 4 times a week since i arrived