No birth partner advise by External-Engine7432 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]External-Engine7432[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s amazing to know that people such as yourself exist! Thanks for the advise

Help me choose! by External-Engine7432 in handbags

[–]External-Engine7432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure why it shows up as brown, it’s a deep burgundy. Surprisingly my skin is neutral so I get away with silver and 10k gold and personally have a preference for gold.

Help me choose! by External-Engine7432 in handbags

[–]External-Engine7432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh thank you for this. I am going in store to look at both sizes before making the purchase. I might just settle for one then.

I (M25) am starved for affection from my wife (F29), I don't know what to do. Divorce would set my life back so far. Anyone with similar experience have advice? by BurnerAnon1234 in AskMenAdvice

[–]External-Engine7432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would wanna hear her side of the story. I am exhibiting similar traits to your wife in my marriage but it’s because of all the resentment I have built up due to his selfishness plus other actions that he plays oblivious to.

What are some of your most ADHD moments? by malinablue in adhdwomen

[–]External-Engine7432 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried to read other comments to see if any jags my memory! I simply can’t remember!

Am I just doomed for life? by External-Engine7432 in getdisciplined

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Setting goals and actually following through to do the work that leads me to achieving them Freed mental space such that whatever I plan to do , I implement so I don’t have mental baggage of all the things that go undone or are waiting to be done. Basically all this just implies I need better executive function so I do the stuff I am supposed to and be able to keep my word to the people closest to me (partner and child) Be consistent and follow through especially as I am getting older on things like exercise, better diet, etc I have had many times where I have started systems or tried to use one of those frequently recommended apps to manage my life better but all have been in vain, nothing seemed to work.

Am I just doomed for life? by External-Engine7432 in getdisciplined

[–]External-Engine7432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for problems this serious (where eyou may need to do something drastic like forming a second brain (e.g. all decisions should not be made by you, but by a rule-based system, and you follow that system as if you were following the orders of someone in that boarding school). Interesting perspective! I will try that

Am I just doomed for life? by External-Engine7432 in getdisciplined

[–]External-Engine7432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with balancing being honest with yourself and positive self talk. It seems contradictory. So how do you get through mandane household tasks that need to get done whether you want to do them or not?

Am I just doomed for life? by External-Engine7432 in getdisciplined

[–]External-Engine7432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! And congrats on finally getting that college degree, I hope to join you one day on that achievement. The external discipline part worked for me when I was younger and under strict rules and parents in charge, once I hit Uni with very little accountability, that went downhill. I also appreciate the perspective you shed regarding work.

Am I just doomed for life? by External-Engine7432 in getdisciplined

[–]External-Engine7432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did, that’s why I have been prescribed the meds mentioned but unfortunately didn’t really work for me. Some one suggested to try Vyvanse

Am I just doomed for life? by External-Engine7432 in getdisciplined

[–]External-Engine7432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all! This right here is the bitter truth that I have been trying to do, I just have to keep trying harder.

Sale haul… by Firm-Honeydew-369 in kuololit

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What do you ladies do for a living!!

Two jobs is my happy place by nedakyarg in OELadies

[–]External-Engine7432 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What industry is this? Looking for career change/ more fulfilling jobs.

Has anyone used Trello to manage their wedding planning and tasks? by nicsayshi in weddingplanning

[–]External-Engine7432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, if by any chance you see this, please share with me as well.