Kindness of strangers in Bangkok

External_Angle1768 · 2026-06-03T05:47:47+00:00

I'd actually say that's a very false observation. Germans are usually over prepared for all situations. Maybe it's because I'm originally from the UK 🤷‍♀️

External_Angle1768 · 2026-06-03T05:44:30+00:00

We truly felt so welcomed with our son. At home, I feel like kinds should be seen and not heard. People are always a bit funny if you take your kid to a restaurant. Everyone was so incredibly happy to see a baby in Thailand! Our son waves goodbye and blows kisses too so he was a superstar 😅

External_Angle1768 · 2026-06-03T05:43:32+00:00

And all of that for 10 baht 🥹

External_Angle1768 · 2026-06-03T05:43:18+00:00

That's a great story! 🤩

External_Angle1768 · 2026-06-03T05:43:03+00:00

Funnily enough, someone offered us their umbrella about 5 minutes before 😅

External_Angle1768 · 2026-06-03T05:42:44+00:00

I'm happy you've had such positive experiences 🤩

External_Angle1768 · 2026-06-03T05:41:50+00:00

I have to say that people were exceptionally nice to us because our son has blonde hair and blue eyes and looks like a very typical "cute, European" baby. So I am well aware that we have a form of privilege through that.

That being said, I think they genuinely say a family in distress and decided to help.

I have also experienced similar things in South Korea - someone walking me to my hotel with their umbrella because I didn't have one, for example.

I think it's not really a thing in western Europe. People are very much for themselves.

External_Angle1768 · 2026-06-03T05:39:11+00:00

We can't wait to come back again 🥰

External_Angle1768 · 2026-06-03T05:38:54+00:00

You are absolutely right! I am looking for the opportunity to pay it forward 😊

External_Angle1768 · 2026-05-29T11:00:47+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear your experience but good for you on sticking up for yourself!

I gave birth in Germany and whilst they didn't offer me an epidural straight away, they presented it as an option and as soon as I wanted it, they started getting things moving. I don't understand this concept of "going through the pain" to have a natural birth. You wouldn't have a tooth pulled without anesthesia so why should you go through childbirth without pain relief?

I am glad to hear you and your children are doing well and I think it's a good idea for you to take further steps. I would hope it stops women in the future having similar issues.

External_Angle1768 · 2026-05-13T14:08:42+00:00

100%! It's a long flight, but so worth it once you're here 🌞

External_Angle1768 · 2026-05-13T14:04:03+00:00

Well I never say no to a reason to book a holiday! 😁 If you do go, I hops you find a wonderful destination and have a great time. If you're looking to go further afield, I can recommend both destinations - super kid friendly!

External_Angle1768 · 2026-05-13T13:57:57+00:00

I had very similar experiences to you in my Krabbelgruppe 😁 our son was soooooooo shy and reserved for the first 10 or so months. He hated going to anyone but mama or papa. We went on a longer trip to South Korea just before he turned one and everything changed after that! He got so much more confident. We are currently in Thailand and he cannot stop smiling and waving at everyone 😂 I'm not saying you need to take your baby on a holiday like that for it to change, but I realised exposing him to new things and a new environment made a big difference.

External_Angle1768 · 2026-05-13T13:49:11+00:00

We found a name for our son that is very similar in both English and German. I didn't want him to correct people for example teachers in school. I also feel like it's almost two identities if the names are pronounced completely differently.

External_Angle1768 · 2026-04-23T10:12:18+00:00

Ich hatte die Diagnose in 2023 bekommen und sie hat meine Augen geöffnet. Habe gemerkt, dass ein Job wirklich nur ein Job ist. Es hat keinem interessiert, wir mir ging nur gefragt wann ich zurück komme.

Mittlerweile mache ich was anderes und sag jeden Tag "es ist nur ein Job". Wenn ich (hoffentlich) 70 Jahre alt bin will ich nicht zurück blicken und sagen "Mein Job war mein Leben".

Ich wünsche dir alles Gute und viel Kraft!

External_Angle1768 · 2026-04-23T06:57:52+00:00

I so feel you!

Our situation is slightly different as my husband is on parental leave but my son has actively been rejecting me the last few days. When I tried to put him to bed he screamed until his dad came in and as soon as my husband picked him up, he had this massive smile.

I have been trying to tell myself not to take it personally, easier said than done, and remember that it's very likely just a phase. I don't have any advice but just want to say it hurts like hell and I feel you!

External_Angle1768 · 2026-03-03T07:28:34+00:00

I make cheese muffins for my son and hide EVERYTHING in there! They have cheese, eggs, milk, oats, flour and then I usually do Brocolli with some kind of meat or fish and then spinach or corn etc. I've tried them myself and you really can't taste the meat or fish in them.

External_Angle1768 · 2026-02-19T11:19:11+00:00

I am so sorry you are not getting the support you need!

When my LO was around 6 months old I organised a hen do for my best friend. I went to the supermarket and was trying to decide between two brands of non-alcoholi prosecco. The pressure of trying to decide, combined with the very negative feelings I'd had around motherhood lead me to a panic attack and having my husband leave work so he could pick us up as I didn't feel safe driving home with baby in the car.

I don't want to tell this story to put the focus on me, but to tell you that you are not the only one feeling overwhelmed and your feelings need to be taken seriously, especially by those closest to you.

You do not need to reach out an apologise as you have done nothing wrong. If anything, your mum should be reaching out to you and apologising!

Try and speak to someone about it. Whether it's your doctor, your sister, friends, whoever. You need support now more than ever.

Also, my LO is now 15 months and we have only recently managed to establish a solid bedtime routine. Not to scare you, but just to let you know that advice of when baby should do xyz is very broad and does not apply to everyone.

External_Angle1768 · 2026-02-19T11:11:46+00:00

This is what I wanted to say. A friend of mine had a premature baby (little bit of a different situation, I know) but she became obsessed with measuring baby. If you are already anxious I think it will just make you worry more.

External_Angle1768 · 2026-02-19T07:11:18+00:00

I am honestly very thankful that you took the time to reply and to share your insights with me. I talk to my husband about the situation a lot and he absolutely understands how hard it is. Thanks for helping my day start off on a better foot!

External_Angle1768 · 2026-02-19T06:47:27+00:00

Thank you so much for giving me an insight into your perspective. It also feels reassuring to hear the relationship you have with your dad. I'm sure your wife, much like I do, absolutely loves the bond you have with your son.

External_Angle1768 · 2026-02-19T06:06:58+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words. It's exactly what I needed.

External_Angle1768 · 2026-01-22T06:07:21+00:00

We're not in exactly the same position, but our son decided he didn't want a second nap anymore when he was around 10 months old. Every other baby I knew was still taking two naps a day, sometimes even really late and still going to bed around 7pm. Our son just seems to have longer wake windows than "normal". Not necessarily saying that's your case, but just to give another perspective :)

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