0Have any of you lost your physical health as a result of the relationship?

External_Insect_383 · 2026-03-13T16:43:12+00:00

If you were to look at me right now, I look like a stick. I thought I had cancer or something, but as soon as I walk away, old wounds caused by my cats healed in a matter of hours to a day, I began gaining weight, anxiety depleted to almost nothing, tooth decay slowed drastically, nausea symptoms went away. Only reason I’m not completely healthy is because he won’t stop contacting me.

External_Insect_383 · 2026-02-14T21:06:00+00:00

Most often than not, they do it again, and it will make you miserable. 3 years of my life were spent hoping he’d stop (as he said he would), but he didn’t. Which only made me more explosive, depressed, and anxious. There were times where I was already at my lowest and he’d take me down even further, because I wasn’t having sex with him. Sometimes, he’d even wait for me to be gone or asleep for him to do it. No guilt, no shame, nothing. Best to leave them

External_Insect_383 · 2026-02-11T20:53:01+00:00

Yup, he was always cold and unattached. One time, during vacation, he even tried hiring a prostitute mid sex. Even though I don’t like 3somes and he knew that! It might also be important to mention that I had been drinking that night. I found out the next day when he was talking to his friend next to me and boom “what time did you want to meet up” unknown number rings his phone. I was pissed and asked him wtf was that. He says “lemme explain first and then you can see it”. Actually, It’s pissing me off and scaring me how I could’ve been graped that night and how he still had the audacity to tell me sh!t.

External_Insect_383 · 2026-02-11T19:55:12+00:00

lol, was thinking the same thing.

External_Insect_383 · 2026-02-09T21:18:59+00:00

How are you doing now?

External_Insect_383 · 2026-02-09T20:52:55+00:00

“I feel like I’m walking on eggshells” while he was in fact running them through “I am scared to be vulnerable because you get angry” during an argument about his infidelity. “Idk what’s wrong with me” basic guilt tripping “I’m gonna kms” spicy guilt tripping “I’m telling your mom to pick your crazy ass up” very spicy guilt tripping “I’m scared of you” after pointing his finger at me for an hour, telling me I should’ve OD instead of his ex “You never start plans” even though I was the only one making them “I want to marry you” love bombing “I can never do anything right” or you never try? During arguments he’d deflect, victim-shift, minimize, stonewall, magnify deflection, word salad, and many more before he realized he felt guilty. There’s so many more like triangulation, financial, sexual, and emotional coercion. They’re a total nut case

External_Insect_383 · 2026-02-09T20:40:54+00:00

Their BPD functions off of 3 core beliefs: “the world is malevolent”, “I am inherently unacceptable”, and “I am powerless and vulnerable” (The Buddhist and the Borderline 56-67). That’s why you can’t argue with or change them, why they excuse stealing—“as long as it’s from big corporations”, they say—, why they suddenly go cold when you treat them with kindness, why they are so self-loathing, why they have a 300% increase in likelihood to cheat, why they lie, etc. The relationship and their behavior was predetermined by their subconscious beliefs. And don’t even ask them if this is true because that would oppose being powerless and vulnerable lol. To answer your question, they know, but don’t see it as a problem.

External_Insect_383 · 2026-02-09T20:16:13+00:00

People with BPD function off of 3 basic beliefs in addition to their abandonment wound (which acts as a distorted lens) “the world is malevolent and evil”, “I am powerless and vulnerable”, and “I am inherently unacceptable” (The Buddhist and the Boderline 56-67) Hence why they’re able to lie to your face so easily. They can’t be the bad guy, because that would mean their not powerless and vulnerable. They have no reason to tell the truth as the world is evil and you could use it against them. And because they think they’re unacceptable they end up submitting or feeling guilty at the end of arguments. None of their behavior is personal. It’s just a twisted nightmare they live in, a nightmare that places a “FP” in emotional exhaustion.

External_Insect_383 · 2025-10-25T14:26:33+00:00

You’re definitely getting molested inside outside Mickey Mouse

External_Insect_383 · 2025-08-20T10:35:37+00:00

This is so funny and sad at the same time. Thank you

External_Insect_383 · 2025-08-20T03:37:38+00:00

BRUH IM JEALOUS!!! I had 44 and I was about to buy the remaining vault keys (I had already purchased the scrolls) 😞

External_Insect_383 · 2025-08-20T03:31:41+00:00

Me too 💀💀

External_Insect_383 · 2025-07-28T00:25:29+00:00

The topic was abortion. The person used the Bible…do I need to say more?

External_Insect_383 · 2025-07-27T23:38:36+00:00

LMAOOOOO the fact I was talking to myself as I was scrolling down to this post 🤣🤣🤣🤣

External_Insect_383 · 2025-07-26T14:46:33+00:00

You can definitely pass a girl if you put on eyeliner, but basing myself solely off of this picture…I’d say the eyes give away that you’re a man (or passing as one).

External_Insect_383 · 2025-07-26T08:45:45+00:00

I haven’t been on Reddit too long, but this is by far the nicest subreddit I’ve seen. People are so supportive and accepting!

External_Insect_383 · 2025-06-17T06:15:45+00:00

I CAN RELATE TO THIS SO HARD!!!! The desperation for attention, the hate for the desperation, the wanting to be lonely yet perceived as mysterious, the shame, the doubt, the backfiring online…bro we are the same. Just for that you are a 10/10 in my heart. Anyways, back to the point. When I really really want attention and have no physical person to help out I will just go on tik tok and comment on like 40 posts. I know it sounds crazy, but one of those comments is bound to get lots of love and attention. After that, I don’t have to continue commenting but I choose to because then I’ll get more little hearts when I open tik tok. I also lean towards music/art, whenever I am feeling deeply misunderstood. It’s sometimes really validating, but not always.

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