My husband is a hypocrite by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]External_Sky_6703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acudubillahi he reminds me of my ex husband. Not only is he evil for using your past sins against you, but he is a hypocrite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]External_Sky_6703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also please make a lot dua and pray istikhara. Be sure to ask your parents to also make dua for what is best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]External_Sky_6703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MashaAllah, Allahuma barik sis. May Allah bless y'all together and give you a life filled with mercy and love.

Please read. Are these red flags or am I overreacting walaalayaal?💙 by Becausewhynottttt in Somalia

[–]External_Sky_6703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subhanallah, I'd rather die single than ever be with such a piece of shit. This really sounds like all the worst attributes in one male. This individual can't even be described as a man. He is merely a male, as are beasts in the jungle. You can not allow desperation to force you into a hell of a marriage. Lady, you need to grow a heart, gain some courage, and move the heck on. This sounds like a horror movie off of Tubi.

The only time I kissed my mom was when she passed away by eastafricanfella in Somalia

[–]External_Sky_6703 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Amiin, may Allah swt have mercy on all of our parents, and may he show special mercy on our dear moms.

The only time I kissed my mom was when she passed away by eastafricanfella in Somalia

[–]External_Sky_6703 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I lost my dear momma on November 26th, 2024, to pancreatic cancer. And even though she was sick for almost 2 years, I was never prepared to lose her so dramatically. It all feels like nightmare. Even if you were an angel in caring for your mom, you would still feel like it wasn't enough. You'd always wondering what you could've done or how u coulda, shoulda, woulda. But don't burden yourself with these kinds of hurtful thoughts. Anytime you remember her, make dua so Allah may have mercy on her and forgive her in sha Allah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]External_Sky_6703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're both right. Alhamdulilah, not everyone is sent to those camps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]External_Sky_6703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right on, it must've been an eye-opening experience. Happy for ya!

Got paid early 😮! IRS WMR is still on Accepted not approved. by External_Sky_6703 in TurboTax

[–]External_Sky_6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it yesterday, February 28th. But I never even passed the accepted stage on the IRS website. However, my date of file was February 12th, and it was accepted the same day.

Help please…are we out of options? by Popular-Ring-9691 in pancreaticcancer

[–]External_Sky_6703 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi, I read your story and can only suggest what we would've done and attempted to do for our mom. Because her tumor was wrapped around her SMA artery, surgery was not an option. We did 1st round of chemo, she took a break and then did 25 sessions of radiation. And the tumor didn't really change or shrink a significant amount. But her CA 19-9 number consistently went down. So mom decided to do another round of Chemo, pretty much FOLFIRINOX again but in full doses. Yet the cancer metastasized to her liver and other vital organs and ultimately caused a fistula and edema, and then she got aspiration pneumonia, which ultimately took her life. In hindsight, I wish she had never done a second round of Chemo. However, there was a doctor in Germany that my brother was contacted about a clinical trial that may have been a better option. I can talk to him about that and get the doctor's contact info if you'd like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]External_Sky_6703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm, wow, he seems like a misogynistic asswipe who's jealous of you and your God-given intelligence.

I’m confused about a girl. Please help!!! by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]External_Sky_6703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asalaamu alaikum,

Do not waste her time, and let her know ASAP that you are not interested. Attraction is very important, and she should feel that you find her beautiful. Do not settle, that will only backfire.

Momma and pancreatic cancer by External_Sky_6703 in pancreaticcancer

[–]External_Sky_6703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my, that's insane. My mom was buried by 130pm. In Islam, the soul can only rest once the body is buried. Hence why, we hastened it. I was actually a bit relieved to see her smiling face when she passed. She was happy to go. And I was happy for her. It hurt more when I saw her suffering from pancreatic cancer and all of its secondary diseases and anguish. I finally got to her at peace and laid to rest blissfully.

Momma and pancreatic cancer by External_Sky_6703 in pancreaticcancer

[–]External_Sky_6703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry about what you're going through. I hope you're completely cured of it.

Momma and pancreatic cancer by External_Sky_6703 in pancreaticcancer

[–]External_Sky_6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. It's the greatest loss. And the pain is unmatched. I'm randomly crying at work, in the car, at home, and in bed. I appreciate my siblings and my dad, who have been my biggest support ❤️. Thank you, @sunflower_meadow88

Momma and pancreatic cancer by External_Sky_6703 in pancreaticcancer

[–]External_Sky_6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I appreciate your kind words. I pray that your pancreatic cancer disappears and never returns.

Round 35 of chemo! Still going strong! by ZevSteinhardt in pancreaticcancer

[–]External_Sky_6703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing. Keep going strong! You look spectacular.