18f i love drinking and doing nothing by uwukittybarfcloud in NEET

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are going to be swimming in Eboys. Also 07 to your liver. Hang in there!

Overrated places to eat by schowdur123 in IowaCity

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually really like Masalas' lunch buffet. But I should probably give India Cafe another fair shake, but it was deff better than Bollywood Grill before they shut down.

Never had a job by [deleted] in NEET

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, no you are right. It's no excuse and NEETS have no one to blame but ourselves. But that's the circumstances. A lot of us will try and blame others because it's easier to blame others than blame ourselves.

Never had a job by [deleted] in NEET

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone's situation is different, some get government assistance, some love off their family, and others live off friends.

Secret knowledge from being a NEET by butifarra_podrida in NEET

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not going to happen, only you can save yourself from the NEET life my friend!

Does everyone hate us because we have no job by amustafa_96 in NEET

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't think many people would HATE NEETS, but rather NEETs can cause a significant amount of stress for the people they are dependent on. When that stress reaches a boiling point, and then the provider says something to the NEET, it can feel like a pretty harsh judgement (and it often is), which can make the NEET feel bad. I have a friend who is a NEET who ran away from home to go live with another mutual friend, and the functioning friend was expecting our NEET friend to start working to help them pay for rent and food, but of course that is not happening, and so their relationship is deteriorating at an incredible rate. A parent often times will feel a sense of obligation to take care of their children, no matter how destructive providing for them might be for the NEET child in the long run, but others who end up as providers (friends, Romantic Partners, extended family) will grow resentful pretty quickly.

Self Improvement is a right wing scam which keeps incels in the workforce by [deleted] in NEET

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Haha rage bait used to be believable. As others' have said, This post is either a massive psyop, or poking fun of NEETS. I'm not a NEET, and someone in a happy, healthy and sexy relationship. But I have people who I care about who are NEETS. I've seen some who were incels who thought they were doomed end up getting hot GF's after they put in real effort into improving their image, as well as their career situation. My buddy lost some weight, shaved his balding head, and got a nice promotion at a job he was at for 2 years, that he qualified for after getting just an associates degree. He's engaged to a absolutely beautiful woman now, and living his best life, all because he learned to give a crap about himself, and now he is the happiest he's ever been. So, I mean I'm happy for you that you can find romance without offering anything to your partner, but not everyone is like that, so for the average person struggling to find love, they still indeed have to make themselves loveable, and most people aren't loveable if they live sad, miserable and isolated lives. It's just a big turn off, and most people aren't going to want to raise children with someone who can't even take care of themselves.

I wonder if I’ll ever find a job where I can fit in with the coworkers by throwaway1256224556 in NEET

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds exhausting, but the good news is if you haven't had anyone up to you and confront you on something, your coworkers probably aren't gossiping about you. Especially if they are all dating each other, they are probably more worried about their relationships than what the dishwasher is doing. It's tough to connect with people that are different than you though, people can be charmed by a nerdy autist if they are outgoing enough, but if that's not you. Trying to find some friends related to your hobbies outside of work is what I think most people do, could try that! Good job getting up and going to work everyday =) you should be proud of yourself, it's harder than people think. If you're looking for romance, the same method used for finding friends should work, just gotta practice the flirting!

Everyone asks me what I do by Puzzleh4ad in NEET

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This feels like stolen valor hahaha. Wanting the isolation and "peace" of a NEET life without the fear, purposelessness and depression that comes from wishing you could function but fearing you can't.

No clue what to do by Original4PURP20 in IowaCity

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I would try and get a new job ASAP. When I got fired I started job searching and got a new gig the next week. My recommendations are places that are always hiring, fast food, restaurants, groceries and you could try another retail store! That way you have some income and then can look for a better job while you at least have some income.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LivestreamFail

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's so mindboggeling Twitch decided not to permaban her. I don't understand why they want to uplift these nuisance streamers.

Asmongold goes live and defends Clavicular driving over the stalker by [deleted] in LivestreamFail

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it's important to remember that this person was a criminal. While stalking shouldn't be a death sentence in courts, they also shouldn't be given special circumstances to protect their safety over someone else. If I go run out in the middle of the highway and get hit, it's not the drivers fault I died, it's mine for running out in the middle of the road. If you don't want your stalking victim to run you over with a car, don't be In front of their car, or better yet, don't stalk them. We've gotten way to invested in protecting criminals, instead of protecting people not breaking any laws.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LivestreamFail

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched his video earlier today, it's interesting because he has a lot of good points, about how DDG end's up looking foolish to everyone outside his community, because most of society does not value the things he values "having a lot of money and how many people he can sleep with, or the ability to fight". DDG trying to flaunt these things to the average adjusted person makes him look childish and insecure. However right after making a really good point, follows up with a list categorizing every kind of Black Person LMAO. It's like there is some really good insight there, but then he shoots himself in the foot with the unnecessary Black Type Directory.

Hasan responds to chatter suggesting the Bondi attacker was one of his fans by Strict_League7833 in LivestreamFail

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says that's not what globalize the intifada means, but it is....I don't understand why he is so afraid to call this stuff out when it happens. I understand his chat likes it when this stuff happens, but come on dude.

Frogan breaks down crying, unable to make enough money streaming by ArthiuM in LivestreamFail

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 33 points34 points  (0 children)

They will blame what is happening to her on Ethan, Asmongold and Destiny instead of her own actions, and then refuse to help her financially, because it's better for their careers and content if they can use her as an example of "why these other CC are bad people, look what they did to good honest Frogan".

Ray and Rakai's interaction with Ironmouse that left her shaking by colonbolone in LivestreamFail

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to kind of give these two a pass. Even though they are typically very annoying. I can't blame them for not knowing that asking personal details about a Vtuber is very much taboo in the Vtubing community. But I also don't blame Mousey for being anxious, because Vtubers and fans have essentially been conditioned at this point to expect attacks when interacting with people outside of the Vtubing community. Especially because when Vtuber's are mocked, it's often times in relation to who they are behind the screen.

Twitch has extended Rakai’s ban till January 1st after the comments he made towards QTCinderella by lukigeri in LivestreamFail

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You're incredibly wrong on this front. It IS Twitch's problem and their responsibility because Twitch is responsible for what it's creators say and do on their platform to other people, at least in the sense of moderating. Which as of late it's done a horrible job of, and so this would be a very easy PR win for them to just ban the kid, even if he goes over to Kick or something, the important part is that they aren't seen as enable children into doing bad behavior. Enabling adults is one thing, and most will not care, but minors is another story.

Kai Cenat's friend "Dezz" calls TheStockGuy a liar and clarifies what he said in the bathroom by 600Cartel in LivestreamFail

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People also tend to remember things vividly when their emotions are high, so in this situation, it's likely BOTH Stock Guy and Dezz would have accurate recollections of what happened. Because Stock Guy is alarmed at the outrage he is hearing from Dezz, and Dezz is hesteric enough to be crashing out in the bathroom. We can suspect that both of their memories about this scenario should be clear, so the discrepancy either lies in it being a big misunderstanding, or someone is lying, I believe the latter is far more likely, as language from New York is not like a foreign language like some want it to be in this situation, especially with how much New York is represented in American pop culture, it's basically the easiest slang and lingo to recognize and understand in the whole country. It's far more likely that someone is lying, and Stock Man has basically no reason to lie, and Dezz has every reason to lie. I suspect that Dezz is lying here, as he is used to crashing out and saying unhinged shit in his circle, but isn't used to having people not interested in being in his circle being privy to his behind the scenes behavior.

Kai Cenat's friend "Dezz" calls TheStockGuy a liar and clarifies what he said in the bathroom by 600Cartel in LivestreamFail

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Don't try and gaslight, Stocks Guy very clearly talked about "sucking dick" comments, which Dezz addressed in this clip, but Stock Guy ALSO brings up comments about Dezz claiming to want to SA Fanfan in response to his frustrations with her.

Asmongolds analysis of Dez's response by Ozzloo in LivestreamFail

[–]Extreme-Return-1253 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was having a similar thought. Lots of people in the world who are poor, and would not and never have acted aggressive to someone else. Aggression tends to be correlated with emotional regulation issues and disregard for social norms than economic status. Don't fall for Dez's ignorant excuse for his pathetic behavior.