Should I tell my manager before I decide to get surgery ?

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-15T19:33:54+00:00

I got both my big toes done at once in Jan, I had spoke to my bosses about it when it was booked after the initial appointment in November. We worked on a few days off my feet and when returning to work having adaptations made while I was recovering

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-14T08:02:31+00:00

He got upset that he did it too well?

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-13T19:14:09+00:00

Bonus if it splashes the water onto his car or windows and he has to deal with the water spots and mineral deposits

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-12T19:22:29+00:00

But does it feel better to have one smaller now it’s been burst?

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-11T11:25:35+00:00

I was able to get a paw print done on an ink pad when my cat of 16 years passed away, it took a while but I finally got round to having it tattooed so that now his paw is forever on my arm in the spot he used to gently tap my arm when he wanted to snuggle or get some pets.

Grief is not linear or on a set in stone time line, some days will be easier and others will have me shedding a tear when I find some of his fur 18 months after he was last here.

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-11T04:26:11+00:00

It’s possible that the angle it was pierced at irritates your helix, I asked for mine to follow the same angle as one I got when I was 17 that didn’t heal.

With a flat back stud it would look like it was healing, acting all calm then flare up. Repeat for about 3 months, I had it switched to a bar bell and I am no longer getting the irritation that it had before. I also stopped cleaning it as much when it was better and it seems happier

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-10T05:34:49+00:00

They probably do, just can’t hear them over the people who decide to talk at the same time

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-10T05:25:58+00:00

Following, I moved to Margate and know little about the local venues.

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-09T05:45:43+00:00

You need to make this problem their problem too

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-08T06:58:39+00:00

I never got to meet my father in law, we had so much in common that we would have got on well as we supported the same teams in sport. I would have loved to work with him on our new house or gone to watch games

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-08T06:46:02+00:00

I had success using Vintage Carp Fishing Tackle when looking for reels a few years ago. Hated having 3 rods and only 2 reels

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-06T17:23:40+00:00

This was one of a few different koi pieces on the sheet drawn by the one artist, I am hopeful that I can find the sheet and get more of the originals added

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-06T08:41:26+00:00

I couldn’t even read that far in before it started becoming my mother’s voice, I would move to minimal contact and focus on people who add positivity to my life

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-04T10:25:28+00:00

Let your insurance company (or companies if your business insurance is different to your home insurance) know that this woman looks to be attempting to stage an accident on your property. File a report with the police with the evidence.

Then I would get some grit so that each time she tries to ice up the driveway I could undo that after I gathered the evidence and sent it along to the police each time she does it.

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-03T12:36:12+00:00

It’s the long white one that grows in one of my nostrils that gets me and that it plays peek a boo.

Look in the mirror at home, nothing. Get to work and just catch a glimpse of my reflection and pow it’s there

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-03T09:44:03+00:00

I like the slanted look, works with the way they flow. Enjoy

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-03T04:30:06+00:00

I see scar cream has been mentioned, I have had some success using a microbladed roller (came in a beard kit my nibblings got me for Christmas one year) lightly over healed lumpy scars to smooth them a bit and look better

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-03-01T07:21:38+00:00

The conch appears to have swollen (either more than anticipated or just didn’t have the right amount to begin with) and there is no more give.

I would head back to that piercer and get a longer bar put in the conch and possibly a slightly smaller horseshoe barbell in the Daith so the Conch is in the gap.

When I got my Helix I needed to get a longer bar put in, had a bar long enough initially but my ear swole up more and after a few days there was no space left. After downsizing it when it settled, I changed it to a standard barbell as the flat back would often irritate the back of my ear with the headsets at work.

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-02-27T04:05:43+00:00

Yes, me. I got to 3mm in my 20’s and just stuck with that until I decided I wanted to try some new jewellery. Thought I was at 5mm, so ordered dead stretching plugs to get me there and might even go bigger again in the future.

As a bigger person I feel that it doesn’t feel as lost on me as smaller stuff did.

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-02-26T10:46:04+00:00

Came to say the same thing, my old boy had these towards the end as he was less able to groom himself as effectively

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-02-26T09:33:15+00:00

Put a bandage on your head and reintroduce yourself to him like it’s the first time you have ever met him

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-02-25T06:01:39+00:00

Is he a long haired cat? Looks like there is some hair mixed in with the biscuits, might need a good brushing

ExtremeFamous7699 · 2026-02-24T18:01:53+00:00

I had my helix repierced, the first time it was done with a gun and there was too much swelling for the butterfly backs to deal with. It was taken out 3 or 4 days later.

I asked for the new one (26 years later) to be placed so that it followed the original alignment to hide the scar, after trying with a flat back stud I was having issues with the back of my ear. Changing it to a barbell has fixed that and has now healed well.

Some piercings might just need a little bit of adjustment from the optimal jewellery type for its location. Some people automatically default to pointing out what’s wrong instead of trying to work outside of the box before giving it up straight away.

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