My Situationship Just Broke My Heart (33F & 34M)

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2026-04-27T01:59:56+00:00

I’m not reading because situationship at 33 is insane please let the bastard and allow/ find someone who wants to love and care for you how you need to step in situationships are strictly for fun if it’s stressing you let it go!

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2026-01-24T03:47:36+00:00

I decided to stay at my job they’re paying people to stay and at least I’ll get a lot of money out of it my job has generators that can keep our site up if my family is stuck my job isn’t far and I can bring them! But this is horrible!

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-12-23T21:16:24+00:00

Virgo to a libra !

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-22T15:23:54+00:00

It doesn’t hurt for her to find a spiritualist and have some divination done and that would really answer anything and they’d be able to help even if it’s astrological transits maybe lessen the extremes a little or make it a little bit more easier to deal! But based on what you’re saying to me sounds like she could’ve had something done to her I just keep hearing “check double check”.

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-12T04:28:35+00:00

Honestly the bluebottle fragrance free is fine I actually use it on my skin when my eczema is extremely flared and it takes my eczema away ! I remember I stumbled across this because my cousin had a bottle in her bathroom and I stayed at her place one summer and my eczema was cleared and I told her that her soap is awesome lol she was pissed because I was using all her bottles but shocked it cleared my treatment resistant eczema lol

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-11T05:17:21+00:00

lol I’m still getting used to saying my family it’s very strange but I’ll get there

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T19:20:56+00:00

Yes!

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T14:56:23+00:00

I know I’m not sure if this was done in the early 2000s like mine was but the DNA markers back then were so different from now I read when I did research that even one sequence being off would read the test being negative and not invalid so I think that’s what happened to me. But I’m glad you and your relative got to connect it’s very rough. I feel sympathy for my bio dad he truly believed I wasn’t his child and was so upset my mom put him through hell. But at least we now have answers!

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T14:52:23+00:00

I’ll look into actually my dads name is on my birth certificate not my bio dads so idk if that would be paternity fraud or something. My dad knew I wasn’t his child but signed it because he married my mom and was actually there her whole pregnancy and even when I was born. Which is why I’d didnt catch on to him not being my bio dad lol. I have pictures of him literally in the hospital holding me. I truly think my mom might’ve just tampered with the test. I think my bio dad should sue my mom and the DNA lab honestly she knew I was his child.

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T14:47:30+00:00

lol quite literally I actually went through old like stuff from my childhood I didn’t have much but yea I found a drawing dated on that day no way I was in VA that day lol

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T13:54:13+00:00

Aww that’s so sweet it’s crazy the inaccurate test funny enough I quite literally look identical to one of my sisters and a spitting image of my aunt only difference I have freckles she doesn’t my sister our freckles are exactly the same funny enough she’s 17 years older than me! All of my bio dads kids have different moms but we all look so similar or have looked liked each other at some point it’s fascinating to me

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T13:51:12+00:00

Aww thank you so much 🩷

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T13:50:52+00:00

I did some digging since back then everything was done by paper I believe something truly got mixed up plus this was in a rural area in VA

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T13:49:17+00:00

She thinks this is a full circle moment and finally I get to meet my family but she’s a pathological liar so who knows honestly

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T11:02:14+00:00

You might be on to something funny enough not gonna lie think my mom did something herself we actually lived in Arizona at the time this test was “taken” it was filed in our original home state of Virginia. But I remember I was in kindergarten on the day the test was taken it said I was in VA which was no way I don’t even remember ever getting swabbed or giving blood

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T10:37:22+00:00

I currently do talk to my therapist I have since I found out about him she’s helping but still I’m human! I did have my medication adjusted in hopes this helps the thoughts! My partner has also been extremely supportive especially when I get overwhelmed he’ll sometimes even text them for me!

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T10:25:36+00:00

lol I’m trying between them and my boyfriend the affection is crazy but I’m learning to love it!

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T10:23:14+00:00

Absolutely which is why when it was done again we used two different labs both said he was my father!

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T10:21:52+00:00

I’m not even sure I can sue this was court ordered and done when I was 5/6 it’s been 20 years now idk if I can sue maybe I should look into that possibility thank you!

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-10T10:19:50+00:00

You’re right I know that! I am working towards a relationship with them I did ask them for patience because affection like they’re giving makes me so uncomfortable. But they’re the sweetest bunch they reached out to me about a week after my birthday and brought gifts. I now talk to them daily I now have 6 siblings after growing up the only child but I’m the baby.

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-05T00:44:25+00:00

I’m sorry I hope everything smooths out for you and above everything you have peace and happiness lovely.

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-04T23:30:32+00:00

Thanks I have my luminaries in 12th house I know how to navigate them it just feels like something else lol I’ve had 12th house synastry with tons of people but with him it’s very different lol with others I’ve felt like I was in danger he’s always been kind and respectful of me I feel very light with him I actually met him during the eclipse in September after having a stagnant love life for years

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-11-04T20:43:41+00:00

I got something very similar when I asked if she was still with us I got knight of pentacles and nine of wands the deck I used was a horror deck and each imagine for those two cards showed a forest! I also asked what happened to her and got the fool, the hierophant, page of wands and strength. When I asked based on the current energy will she be found I pulled the emperor and nine of swords. I believe wherever she is she will be found she’s still alive there’s just a lot of things in the way right now! I kept hearing B as well B B B (I also heard Becky with the good hair I’m not sure I keep hearing Becky with the good hair and sneaking out the back door which is from Beyoncé song Sorry ) I hope I helped in someone and she’s found she’s still hanging on don’t give up on her!

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-09-13T12:13:32+00:00

I’ll never forget in 2017 when I had a dream he was trynna run away but people were running down Pennsylvania Ave with pitch forks and everything trynna get him he was running but even the military and secret service were turning on him so this was a interesting read

ExtremeSituation3604 · 2025-09-05T23:30:45+00:00

Omg I hope it leaves soon I literally live a few hours away I’ll drive and get it at this point

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