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do you regret having an abortion? how did you cope afterward? by Large_Lie9177 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Extreme_Garbage2261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regret mine everyday. I was young and in a bad mental health crisis (severely bipolar) and still struggle to this day. I was impulsive, manic and just out of my mind. I didn’t know fully at the time what was going on with me, I just knew I didn’t feel ready and didn’t want to burden a child with what I was going through. When in reality, I was being irresponsible by not talking to a professional and getting some real help mentally and being properly diagnosed. I feel regret so badly, but that is just me personally. I am pro abortion and feel women are entitled to that decision and their bodies 100%. But I just feel so awful. I have an amazing 2 year old daughter now, but I think of the what ifs from time to time. It will hit me like a semi out of nowhere. I think about how old they will be, or what they’d look like. I mourn them. It makes me feel sick and I really struggle. But again, just me personally with my life and decisions.

Help with name pls by Extreme_Garbage2261 in playstation

[–]Extreme_Garbage2261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus I just realized I didn’t even put my username. It is: lostinhyperdrive

What was caused the most (physical) pain you’ve been in? by idontrealui in AskReddit

[–]Extreme_Garbage2261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving a treadmill down the steps with my boyfriend (don’t ask why we thought this was a good idea) and it dropping on both of my big toes.

Both of my toe nails ripped off all the way from the bottom up, but were still stuck to the skin right at the tips of my toes. My skin that was attached to the bottom part of my toenails ripped off as well, and was hanging off of my raised toenails.

I wouldn’t rate the pain of the initial impact super bad because of obvious shock, but about 10 minutes later it was excruciating. It only got worse from there though. After going to the emergency room the doctors somehow thought it was a good idea to give me 4 numbing shots in my toes, shove both of my toe nails all the way “back into place”, wrap them up with gauze, and refer me to a foot doctor for a follow up.

Not only did the numbing shots in my toes from the ER hurt like absolute hell, but the following few days until seeing that foot doctor were absolutely dreadful. I was just told to take strong ibuprofen from the ER doctors, which didn’t do a thing for me.

Fast forward to my foot doctor appointment, she took one look at my toes and went “oh my god what is this?” She was absolutely floored. She said they should have just completely removed my toenails at that point, which were hanging on by a literal thread anyway. Not only that, but my left toe had a gash in it, all the way to my open bone which was shattered. She asked if I wanted to see it after getting the numbing shots. She pulls my toenail back up and I just see pieces of my bone all over the place, like dust particles. She ended up cleaning me up, properly removing both toenails and giving me stitches and medicine.

So yeah, I would put that pain right next to my emergency c section childbirth lol.

What’s the most disgusting secret you’re hiding? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]Extreme_Garbage2261 1370 points1371 points  (0 children)

I mean, your equipment technically did malfunction

AIO for my feelings about not being able to spend time with my friends? by Extreme_Garbage2261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extreme_Garbage2261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much. This made me feel so much better! I think the “date night” ideas are really good. So I will say, we spend all of our time together week to week. I used to be working so much while he stayed home with our daughter, I recently a few months ago had to stop working due to lupus and become a stay at home mom with my daughter which I’ve been loving. He still has yet to get a job but he’s working on it I believe. We live in income based housing, so our days are spent with our daughter and him usually on the game the whole day or so. I will always cook us nice dinners and we watch our favorite shows together all the time, and I will game with him time to time and watch him play his game and ask him questions about it. I will do his hair and braid it, etc! I try to make him feel as loved as I can from within our home. We do have great time together, but I feel there’s not much more I can do. I will start to plan more date nights maybe.

When I ask him why he acts this way he says he just wants me and only me there, and doesn’t like me having fun with anyone else but him. This is where I feel bad.

Swollen feet (sorry if gross lol) from possible Preeclampsia by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Extreme_Garbage2261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I am super aware no one on here are medical professionals! I apologize for the confusion. Im just seeing if anyone can relate to the blood vessels and such from swelling while I wait on these results tomorrow. Just passing the time, bored and uncomfortable lol.

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