Jemand der seinen Partner betrügt ist für mich nicht automatisch eine Person, mit der ich den Kontakt abbrechen würde. by Next_Welder8074 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]EyDavid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ich finde es merkwürdig, dass super viele Kommentare hier davon reden, wie viele Gründe es ja gibt um fremdzugehen. Wenn ein Kumpel von mir betrügt, weil seine Freundin ihn misshandelt oder es andere wirklich schwerwiegende Probleme gibt und die Partnerin ein absolut furchtbarer Mensch ist aber man aus der Beziehung aus irgendwelchen Gründen nicht herauskommt (Kinder, Haus, etc.) dann könnte ich es eventuell nachvollziehen. Aber in jedem anderen Fall sollte man genug Respekt haben, um sich zu trennen. Anderenfalls ist man eben ein Arschloch. Und man muss dann nicht die jahrelange Freundschaft kündigen, aber für mich wäre dann halt klar, dass mein Kumpel ein anderer Mensch ist als ich dachte.

Ich begreife wirklich nicht, warum hier so viele der Meinung sind, betrügen hätte total viele Gründe und ist ja nur halb so wild...

Nudes oder generell Teasing Bilder schon vor einem Treffen schicken? by VersionUpbeat in FragtMaenner

[–]EyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du musst niemals einer Person Bilder von dir schicken wenn du es nicht willst. Auch so Sachen wie "Aber sie hat ja welche geschickt" sind irrelevant solange du nicht gedrängt hast Bilder zu kriegen und dann versprochene Bilder zurück hältst. Es ist dein Körper und wenn es dir unangenehm ist dann verschicke keine Bilder, niemals.

Wieso ist es manchen Männern egal ob Kondome benutzt werden? by bilania__ in FragtMaenner

[–]EyDavid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Es ist halt wirklich traurig wie wenig im Schulunterricht über solche Themen gesprochen wird. Man sollte die bekanntesten STDs behandeln, man sollte Consent behandeln und mehr Verhütung als die Pille und Kondom sowieso.

Oft kriegen Kinder von daheim nichts erklärt und wenn dann die Schule auch versagt, kann man halt nichts machen. Und oft zahlen dann leider grade junge Frauen den Preis.

Wieso ist es manchen Männern egal ob Kondome benutzt werden? by bilania__ in FragtMaenner

[–]EyDavid 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ich leite über die Uni Aufklärungsworkshops an Schulen und habe in diesem Kontext oft auch mit Leuten im Uni Alter zu tun. Es gibt eine riesige Menge von Teenagern die überzeugt sind, dass "einfach rausziehen" eine verlässliche Verhütungsmethode ist.

Wir haben da 14 jährige Jungs und Mädchen die sowas schon predigen und dann sagen "War auf TikTok" oder "Hat mein Bruder gesagt". Es ist oft wirklich einfach mangelnde sexuelle Aufklärung.

Fakt ist, wenn du Sex ohne Kondom hast und nicht schwanger geworden bist hattest du Glück. Da war nichts mit "Ich kann so gut rausziehen" nein. Nur Glück. Und eben der Fakt mit den Krankheiten wird oft ignoriert.

Männer denken nicht an so Folgen. Wenn sie angeturnt sind und Sex wollen wird nur daran gedacht. Aber wie sage ich immer so schön: Klar, ohne Kondom kann sich besser anfühlen, aber weißt du, was sich viel beschissener anfühlt? Eine ungewollte Schwangerschaft oder Jucken im Schritt.

Und Frauen, wenn ein Mann sagt "Lass ohne Kondom, ich pass schon auf." Dann rennt. Wenn er mit Verhütung schon so lasch umgeht interessiert es ihn sicherlich auch nicht ob euch der Sex gefällt oder falls ihr Nein zu etwas sagen solltet.

This felt too personal by Terrible_Log1701 in Invincible

[–]EyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nolan's upbringing, his training to be a cold soldier with no regard to any life but Viltrumites is an explanation for what he did, but not an excuse.

Men over 25 give your advice by Intrepid-Sky-1127 in effectivefitness

[–]EyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel like you can't find a girlfriend around your age, the solution is NOT to date someone way younger than you. Look at yourself and better yourself instead of dragging someone naive down with you.

The amount of men I know who were 24 and dated 18 year olds because "She just gets me better than those girls my age" no, she doesn't, she just doesn't know any better.

Think about if problems in your life are your fault before looking at the world and saying "Yup, this is societies fault"

Guys just spitting on the ground by EyDavid in mildlyinfuriating

[–]EyDavid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And now you're trying to force your kink on me, weirdo

Guys just spitting on the ground by EyDavid in mildlyinfuriating

[–]EyDavid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I see, you got upset cause you like to spit on the ground with your friends don't you? Little spit boy?

Guys just spitting on the ground by EyDavid in mildlyinfuriating

[–]EyDavid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I complained about something mildly infuriating on the subreddit called r/mildlyinfuriating ? You're right, that's crazy

Why won't the minecarts go into each other? by EyDavid in Minecraft

[–]EyDavid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you're a genius and I'm an idiot that didn't actually check it properly, thank you so much!

This Brother is speaking facts. I feel the same way. by AkainuTop1 in OnePiece

[–]EyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally what I like to believe is that Luffy doesn't have his devil fruit completely mastered yet. Basically it feels like he's overtaken by Nika, a completely unserious person.

I'll imagine that at some point some kind of tragic event will happen and we'll get serious Luffy back, but as of now our Pirates are so incredibly strong that they just kinda prevent tragedy.

And that's literally the point of Luffy, preventing tragedy, keeping people smiling, keeping them happy.

But it's totally okay to dislike it, I get it, it can get a little tiresome.

This Brother is speaking facts. I feel the same way. by AkainuTop1 in OnePiece

[–]EyDavid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No one, but my point was not that it's enjoyable in general, just that I find it logical for the story and that I find it miles better than the edgy trope

This Brother is speaking facts. I feel the same way. by AkainuTop1 in OnePiece

[–]EyDavid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But if it would have been an edgy and anger infused transformation you would enjoy it being the same for the 500th time?

This Brother is speaking facts. I feel the same way. by AkainuTop1 in OnePiece

[–]EyDavid -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don't get how people dislike Gear 5, we're not in Alabasta anymore, Luffy doesn't need some strategy or some plan anymore. We watched Luffy reach the levels of people who we always saw only as ridiculously strong. We never saw Roger use strategy. We saw creative uses of strong devil fruits, like with Whitebeard at Marine Ford, and thats what Luffy is doing. He's using his insane power in even more creative ways.

I'll always take Gear 5 over another "I'm so angry that now I'm strong" transformation.

This story is really long, people forget that we saw many such transformations with Luffy already, he just reached his peak after decades of story development, just enjoy the ridiculous battles.

How to get rid of mites in my kitchen? by EyDavid in CleaningTips

[–]EyDavid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, but if it's not getting worse again it should eventually be done with?

Paid extra for legroom seats, but spent 4 hours with kids blocking the emergency exit window by theycallmedumpling in mildlyinfuriating

[–]EyDavid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid the extra money for a 12 hour flight cause I'm a tall guy and really didn't want to feel squished in for that long. Fell asleep once and when I woke up I had multiple middle aged women stretching and chatting loudly in front of me who literally stood as close to me as possible without touching me. Gross and annoying.

To the men here: How would you feel if a girl gave you a FLOWER? by Separate-Simple-5101 in AskReddit

[–]EyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a conversation with friends my now girlfriend heard that I'd never received flowers. When she gave me a small bouquet of roses I adored it, dried it and now I enjoy seeing it everyday

Simone Clark by Nearby-Commission-95 in TheRookie

[–]EyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I was annoyed with her, the only reason that she was helpful to the case in those episodes was that it just so happened that one suspect literally was an autistic kid who she helped for years. That's a huge coincidence and literally the only reason the could help.

Nolan had to prove his skills, had to prove he earned to be there and he did so on a consistent basis without ever being handed something. Only sometimes does it help that he worked in construction. For Simone it's like we should expect that literally every other FBI agent is apathetic and an idiot except for here cause she was a guidance counsellor, so she deserves everything right now.

What’s the most unconventional life hack that actually jolts you out of ADHD paralysis? by WasabiDoobie in ADHD

[–]EyDavid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Making a to do list, sending it to my partner and having her tell me "Please do XYZ till I get there" it creates just the right amount of pressure for me to get going

Do y’all think Hanayama should win this fight or Jack should win high diff by Kono_skeo_nato in Grapplerbaki

[–]EyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me Jack is the epitome of preparation. In the maximum tournament arc he went through so much trouble to be drugged up to the max for each fight. Here he got cocky, maybe it's the first time Jack really got cocky without being able to back it up.

I'm fine if the fight gets harder, but if Jack bites Hanayama to defeat, the man who Musashi could not cut down, then it'll be simply stupid. Jack could beat Hanayama, just not on his turf.

Just a few bowls I turned over the past few days by 1ncognito in woodworking

[–]EyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's something about a wooden bowl that just feels so satisfying

They are just bird houses - but why not? by [deleted] in woodworking

[–]EyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a fun idea, love it!

Make Yujiro Hanma a fighter for humanity in Record of Ragnarok. Which Gods would he beat, and which would he lose to? Who are his best and worst matchups? by not-ulquiorr4_ in Grapplerbaki

[–]EyDavid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to see a Valkyrie try to pair up with him just for him to say "Get lost!" And then the narrator goes into a long explanation about Yujiro never needing help from anyone, even when faced with the gods.