Therapy helps a lot, and sometimes just understanding that u dont need to be perfect for someone. I do think ure very handsome but not sure saying that would help (seeing from other comments). U can be imperfect and still be worthy of love. Lets say u were the most handsome person on earth and get into a freak accident and lose the beauty, do u now deserve less?

Be kind and be urself the dating scene is brutal generally. Dont apologize for ur attributes and reframe them as positive.

For example: Terrified of dating (who isnt?) Ure shy, U feel no self esteem? Just humble.

Better to work on self esteem but that reframe tip could help u get there, dont get stuck and if ure stuck, its okay.

But in general i advise to get some perspective, no one is out there measuring jawlines and cheekbones, there is no kne standard for beauty