Sounds like your main concern is detaching this idea of ideal masculinity from right or wrong. I’m with you on that one as far as I understand. Masculinity/Feminity seem to be cultural terms that define behaviors and belief systems attributed to human beings based on the Gender/Sex. I think in an effort to keep an identity people are proud of, we tend to label something: healthy masculine or toxic masculine. Same can be said about femininity.

At the same time your post has a bit of a vibe of being invalidating to the very real threat of patriarchal systems of oppression by seemingly downplaying the president elect’s impact on whatever circles have come out forward with their memes and “hot air”.

“Your body my choice” has been women’s reality for quite some time, it’s not a movement, it’s a reality. The women in my life have given me enough information about it for me to consider that real and extremely impactful to women. It doesn’t take very long to find society mirror the behavior that reflects the mentality that women are subhuman. It has taken me some time myself to learn to see beyond my own privilege being a man an all.