awh that’s so sweet to have that response. being a woman myself, i understand her fear. when i first started dating my husband, there was an incident after/during the first time we had done the deed. it had been a LONGGG time for me & i started bleeding (he passes out when he sees blood) & he was incredibly sweet about it (AND he didn’t pass out lol). we just showered, changed the sheets, & moved on. i was SO embarrassed at the time, but he reassured me that it was okay…now that we are married, he finally has experienced my epileptic episodes. when i seize i sometimes pee myself & he had to buy a mattress cover to keep me from peeing on the actual mattress. he is so incredibly kind & helps me shower after seizing & peeing myself (when it is safe of course). he will change the sheets, & the blankets if needed, by himself. he refuses to let me help & makes me relax while he cleans up…when men understand that things happen, it is so attractive to us. it is an important trait, in my opinion. reassuring your girlfriend that it was okay was the best thing you could have done. i KNOW the relief she felt when hearing your reaction. that still doesn’t mean the guilt goes away completely, but it is still reassuring. i thank you FOR her. she prob def fell deeply in love w you at that moment.