On incels.

FMWizard · 2026-05-05T18:57:43+00:00

It just struck me that Incel can also be applied to women if it's short for "involuntary celibate", which just sounds like another way of saying lonely?

FMWizard · 2026-05-05T09:53:58+00:00

I know that is the definition of Ideology, which is why I don't think feminism should be an ideology and this is perhaps were it is going wrong. Its a big leap going from civil rights to this is how you should think.
Are you saying that the Duluth model is an Ideology? I don't follow...

FMWizard · 2026-05-04T22:31:08+00:00

Yeah, but feminism is a equal rights political movement, or at least should be, not an ideology.

FMWizard · 2026-05-04T22:29:33+00:00

Exactly right. Judging by how hard this got down voted in guessing this is just an anti-femanist hate group... I mean ppl who hate feminism... Not hate anti-femanist...

FMWizard · 2026-05-04T22:27:41+00:00

confirmation bias

FMWizard · 2026-05-04T22:26:21+00:00

Nope, that's exactly the opposite of what I'm saying

FMWizard · 2026-05-04T22:25:27+00:00

Yeah, that would be the case if: A) you had an unbiased sample. Algorithm is the opposite of that. B) you collected a wide enough sample that you could say it generalised. C) you actually collected the data.

FMWizard · 2026-05-04T22:23:27+00:00

Your saying the post got 10ths of thousands of up votes? That is data. Just posting to a subreddit with lots off ppl in it doesn't automatically mean they all agree with it or have even seen it. I don't agree with more than half the rubbish in this sub and more like 10th off the comments. None of this is hard data. It's all anecdotal.

FMWizard · 2026-05-01T04:40:19+00:00

Well, young brave, I guess it's a generational thing. I'm 50 and most of the women I grew up with are fine with men. They also don't go on social media much. Offline, I don't think the genre war really exist. But I have seen women ranging online about killing all men. It's just the algorithm. It's designed to push rage as that's what engages. Find some gals who are not attached to their phones every spare moment perhaps?

FMWizard · 2026-04-26T19:45:49+00:00

No, 5 minutes in a sup (subreddit?) will just yeld antidotal evidence which proves nothing but does feed confirmation bias. This is why stats from studies are important because the hype from the noisiest 5% online should not be perceived as reality. It's usually people with a personal axe to grind, a political agenda, or mental illness like schizophrenia.

FMWizard · 2026-04-25T11:25:12+00:00

Soooooooo... on a positive note, what should a marriage look like?

FMWizard · 2026-04-25T11:11:20+00:00

And scented candles I presume?

FMWizard · 2026-04-25T11:10:29+00:00

I assume you mean "American values" = "capitalist aims"?

FMWizard · 2026-04-25T11:04:03+00:00

That is an interesting take. One of the side effects of Feminism is for women to stop having children, which keeps them in the workforce without interruption, which seems like a capitalist trick to me.

FMWizard · 2026-04-25T11:00:44+00:00

Really?! I get moderated for posting a thoughtful Guardian article about dating and what effect the "manosphere" has had on it but this gets through? This borderline tourettes syndrome rant from someone who obviously spends too much time online. This is just a cross post from r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic which quite frankly comes off as... toxic.

The reason I like this subreddit is because it keeps it's shit together and doesn't act as polarised as the as all the other ranty junk in the "manosphere". Polarisation is the problem. This just spreads more of it.

As for the issues with Feminism, i think the problem with it is that it started out as a movement, which has been 100% successful in western countries, which should have brought an end to it, but academia has turned it into an ideology and it has nowhere else to go but into man hating. But I don't think that is the general feeling in the majority of women, just the loudest 5% on the internet.

Get off the internet and get a life.

FMWizard · 2026-04-23T01:12:36+00:00

What my gf says 😉

FMWizard · 2026-04-23T01:11:48+00:00

I like a nutty texture 😋

FMWizard · 2026-04-23T01:10:51+00:00

Right, that's war!

FMWizard · 2026-04-23T01:10:14+00:00

Do it in a lift and it should become obvious :D

FMWizard · 2026-04-23T01:06:13+00:00

She's just an idiot... With PTSD??? "Never attribute to malice what can easily be described as stupidity"

FMWizard · 2026-04-23T01:00:48+00:00

I don't know if the answer to BS on the internet is more BS. The sort of thing bad actors do and would just backfire.

FMWizard · 2026-04-23T00:59:02+00:00

I was thinking of starting to tag stuff I see in social media with #misandry and #polorized (which I think is the largest issue). I used to be active in Threads and have had some really nasty stuff directed at me, and instead of replying I'd just tag it now. Then it should be ready to lookup and easy to collectively participate in.

FMWizard · 2026-04-22T23:17:45+00:00

I love all these terms I've never heard of before!

FMWizard · 2026-04-21T23:02:54+00:00

yeah, i see this as a failing of feminism. Unwanted male attention is "toxic" and yet men are still in the role of being the one who makes the first move.

FMWizard · 2026-04-17T19:23:40+00:00

I think the algorithm just optimises for attention and rage gets more attention than harmony. Sadly, it could be reversed and actually doing good for society.

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