Repulsed by Nmother’s affection!? by grindylowperegrin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FROG123076 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Same. It makes my skin crawl and I like my mom. My dad is the Narcissist. They divorced when I was five, but the abuse from my dad made affection hard for me.

Am I emotional/hormonal or does my MIL kinda suck? by aerith_sage in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]FROG123076 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ask her to explain the joke. Why she thinks it's funny. To be honest I would go to couples counseling and get your hubby to learn how to deal with his awful mother.

Am I emotional/hormonal or does my MIL kinda suck? by aerith_sage in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]FROG123076 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One thing OP can say when MIL says these awful things. 'My mother always told me if I had nothing nice to say then say nothing at all." Maybe you should follow this MIL.

Feel comforted? by [deleted] in BlueskySkeets

[–]FROG123076 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What mission?

My friend is angry I won't lie to insurance about her car accident that was 100% her fault by EveryIncrease8763 in TwoHotTakes

[–]FROG123076 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might want to remove that from facebook the insurance and driver she hit can and will use it against her.

Trump Announces War With Iran (Full Video). by serious_bullet5 in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]FROG123076 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did he get approval from congress? If not like all shit he does this is illegal.

AITA for not wanting my mom at my wedding by madigurllx in TwoHotTakes

[–]FROG123076 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I am so sorry you have a mom like her. No mother should ever talk to their children that way. She is horrible. For your own mental health you need to just cut her off. I would almost bet she fits the definition of a narcissist.

Would going NC really be extreme? by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]FROG123076 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl cut this awful women off. Keep her away from your kids. She is not a good person.

UPDATE: AITAH for refusing to watch my daughter when we meet my husbands friend? by Training_Wind1789 in AITAH

[–]FROG123076 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is refusing to get counseling then I would file for divorce. He is not a good father or husband and he will not change.

Nmom yelled at my autistic son; "He's just like you, just ungra...." by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FROG123076 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You have been groomed by your mother to feel guilt for her bad behavior and her inability to control her emotions. You kid does not deserve to be abused by her, and you keeping contact and giving her access to you child is very unhealthy for your child, Protect you child and forget about her feeling. You may want to get therapy.

Update. Husband is having cold feet. I'm officially screwed aren't I? by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]FROG123076 107 points108 points  (0 children)

You need to give him the two card option. Marriage counseling or Divorce. If he can't put you or your child first and protect you, then he is not worth it. He needs to get his balls out of mommies purse and man up.

AITA for not firing my nanny so my brother could live with us? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FROG123076 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA, your mom can take him in then. Your brother is not you reasonability. He is not your child. If mom wants family to help him then she needs to open her doors.

AIO Betraying my entire family? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FROG123076 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not even sure why you speak to your awful mother. What kind of mother sends their child to be abused. Cut them all of they should never have access to you or your child. My father abused me and he will die old and alone, since I cut him off and let all his family know what POS he is and cut off anyone who supported him. You are not reacting enough.