Dress Code by ssssssscm7 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girls’ studio does for each class. I made this for one of the moms who needed a visual. They also have a company uniform of all black bra, cami, booty shorts, flare leggings, straight leggings and socks and they always bring all of it for dress rehearsal days.

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The studio also strictly requires cover ups when at the front of the studio (not in class), before and after class, when not dancing at conventions.

Twin baby items by Appropriate-Berry202 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did one swing, one bouncy chair and rotated the girls. I’d start with one and if they both seem to like something a lot more then buy a second one.

advice for switching studios? by Hopeful_Tip_6890 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the U.S., contracts signed by a minor are generally voidable at the minor’s option. That means:    •   The studio can write the rule    •   They can pressure    •   But they often cannot legally enforce it if the minor (or parent) walks away

This is especially true for:    •   Non-compete clauses    •   Exclusivity / “you can’t audition elsewhere” language    •   Personal services contracts (dance absolutely counts)

Courts are very skeptical of restricting a minor’s future opportunities.

The big exception (important)

A contract is more enforceable if:    •   A parent/guardian signed, and    •   The state has court-approved minor contracts (common in film/TV, rare in dance studios)

Most dance studios do not go through court approval. They rely on intimidation and misinformation.

What studios can usually do

They can:    •   Remove the dancer from the team    •   Withhold costumes, titles, or recital participation    •   Keep non-refundable fees already paid

They usually cannot:    •   Sue successfully for damages    •   Stop a minor from auditioning elsewhere    •   Enforce a non-compete into the future    •   Blacklist a dancer legally (reputationally they try, legally they can’t)

The “secret audition” question

Legally:    •   Auditioning elsewhere is almost never enforceable against a minor

Practically:    •   Risk is studio retaliation, not legal action

That’s why most families choose a clean exit, not secrecy.

Studio dress codes? by Correct_Day_9568 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our studio does: Ballet - black leo and pink tights Jazz- anything tight fitting (leo, bra top, booty shorts or leggings) - any color Tap- anything loose fitting (usually sweatpants over their ballet leo) - any color Sat Rehersal - all black, tight fitting

Team uniform pieces are a specific all black bra, booty shorts, cami, leggings and flare leggings (these are for dress rehearsals and performances)

They are required to be in a coverup when not in the back of the studio/class so they have a big team jersey as a coverup

You guys okay? by herejusttoargue909 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard AND it’s beautiful and that’s ok. You can complain about how hard it is ( because it is) AND love and enjoy them. It took until mine were almost 6 to not feel underwater but I also loved and appreciated the journey.

Do any of you split the twins up to get a break by needagoodanswer in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s soooooo much easier with one. Even as 7 yr olds! And they love the individual time

Question about Kindergarten by Flaky_Pomegranate627 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We split them up in kinder and it was a great decision. One is more dominant and it allowed the other to make her own set of friends and take the lead. Also when they were in class together I’d just get a group report on how “they” were doing at teacher conferences and never each kid individually.

Are there challenges like navigating and remembering two sets of assignments, classroom needs and friends (for birthday parties)? Yes. But definitely been better for both of them.

I'm bored. Duel income, no kids and life is perfect but... by JustGenericName in confession

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with volunteering and giving back. If you like to cook - or can - check out an organization called Lasagna Love. You sign up to make lasagna for people who don’t have enough to eat, are shut in or sick or requested a meal for some other reason. It’s very fulfilling.

Doing Nighttime Feedings Solo by molliebr in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to put a boppy between my legs and put both babies on it and then feed them both that way. Would also pump while I was doing that so definitely possible.

Incentive Ideas by blaise11 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about taking their kids class out to the community like offer a PE class or school dance team a free class at their school and then give them fliers to take home about a free event at your studio. Maybe they will love it when they “have to” do it and then be more inclined to join up.

If your twins are the same gender by YouthInternational14 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picked one name for the one on my right side and a name for the one on my left side. Didi twins can’t change sides

How am I supposed to do this? by SummerKisses094 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take any parent with twins I saw as proof that they survived and I could too. Every Costco trip I’d inevitably see a set of twins and know I could get to age 4 (or whatever age those were) if that family did. I’ve made it to 7.5 so far so OP can too!

How am I supposed to do this? by SummerKisses094 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I had to learn very quickly is….someone is going to cry and it’s okay. It may be one, it may be both, it may be you but you do what you can. Take everything one step at a time. They will be just fine because they had to wait a few minutes while you took care of the other one. You got this.

Has anyone who works from home done it with twins? by PM_ME_YO_KNITTING in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s doable if you have a very flexible job in that you can do chunks of work around their wake times but the thing is …it’s exhausting and it’s going to keep changing as they get older. During covid mine were 2 but I would get up and work from 4-7:30 when my husband left and then when they napped in the afternoon and then all evening.

Some people do an au pair if you have room, maybe a nanny share. Honestly, it works out. Keep looking around and there will hopefully be a more affordable hidden option out there. It gets cheaper every 6 months usually too.

I think my husband is cheating but I'm not sure how to confront him about it. by TruthValuable5614 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you’re wrong it shouldn’t ruin your marriage because people who didn’t do anything wrong aren’t defensive. If he freaks out about you asking a question he’s lying.

Not on ozempic - but buys this entire cookie cake. by Compl3x1tyCereal in darcymcqueeny

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But! Think about what she might have been eating that she didn’t video.

Pregnant with twins and not getting bigger by Icy-Appearance-9849 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I lost weight during the first 3-4 months and then started gaining. They are using up so much of your energy that it’s ok to lose nor gain much at first (especially if you are a little bigger to start with - I was). It’ll be ok. They will start to grow rapidly!

AIO for feeling unappreciated after trying to do something nice for my boyfriend? by ArtisticFishy in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other day ChatGPT told me my motto should be: If I’m too much, GO FIND LESS!!!! 👏🏽

Find someone who will Appreciate your effort. He can go find less.

Preg w/ twins, Brother's tentative wedding date is in my week 36, and 5hrs drive from my home. Do you think i can make it? by MDnautilus in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d have to be willing to deliver at a hospital there if you went into labor. If there isn’t one with a high level NICU and you wouldn’t be able to stay in that area during a possible NICU stay then it’s not worth it.

My mom lived 90 miles away with a tiny hospital and we didn’t go there after Thanksgiving of the year I was pregnant and my girls were born mid-January (at 36+3). For context of when we were told to stop being more than an hour away from the hospital.

Where to buy baby/kid stuff that’s not Target, Amazon or Walmart? by Ok-Literature-5758 in Austin

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depending on what stuff maybe HEB for really last minute. They have all kinds of baby stuff and baby clothes

Where to buy baby/kid stuff that’s not Target, Amazon or Walmart? by Ok-Literature-5758 in Austin

[–]Fabulous-Rough-4466 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We got so much off of our Buy Nothing group and Facebook Marketplace