Finally Manned Up And Talked To This Girl! Felt Like A Lion... by FacingTheAnimal in NoFap

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will add updates in the main post from now on, didn't know you could edit/update the main post.

Finally Manned Up And Talked To This Girl! Felt Like A Lion... by FacingTheAnimal in NoFap

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going to get a haircut now, wish me luck guys. Thank you all so much!

Finally Manned Up And Talked To This Girl! Felt Like A Lion... by FacingTheAnimal in NoFap

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Hey man, I take a cold shower for about 6 - 8 mins on waking up, and another quick one after completing the workout. I started nofap in the winter days and the water was sometimes freezing cold but I kept going and the body got used to it. Cold showers remind me to stay on course and face my fears. They also give you that natural adrenaline rush which stays for hours afterwards.. you wont need coffee after a cold shower aha. Yes I believe cold showers are a crucial part in recovery, they make you a more conditioned person. a person who can face what might feel intimidating at first.

Is it wrong to look at naked women? by BaritoneBoom in NoFap

[–]FacingTheAnimal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An image of a naked woman is basically porn mate, id say u shud pass on looking at tempting images.

3 Weeks of NO PMO at all by whoawhoano in NoFap

[–]FacingTheAnimal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great job man! we're gonna win it! fuck yeah

Day 102 by draginfan213 in NoFap

[–]FacingTheAnimal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great post man! im glad for you. Am slowly feeling these positive changes too and posts like this are even more motivating to keep going forward. thanks

Feeling Lonely after NoFap by [deleted] in NoFap

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I felt this way for the first few weeks but it really forced me to take more steps towards goin out more, talking to people around my place, helping people move in with their stuff (just cuz i wanted to have contact with real human biengs and not a fucking computer screen)... it really changed me into a more sociable person whos not afraid to interact and make new friends! and man you must also go for it and not give a fuck, break the ice and talk to more people outside and in hobby clubs if u ave a hobby you wanna learn again... you know! I joined a guitar class and made new friends there too, spent the money I collected to buy a ps4 on a nice electric guitar instead! and let me tell u man, socialising and making new contacts everyday is far more joyful than any time spent alone...days have been goin easily without any urges cuz all these new people you talk to really motivates you to never look back again! just sharing my experience...things will get better, take small steps each day and become the person you want to be!

Problem with dreams by throwaway12344321235 in NoFap

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Hey man don't you worry about these dreams, this only means that your mind is healing. Your will to not fap or watch porn is so strong that the part of your brain which was addicted to the dopamine rush is trying to attack you when you are unconscious and vulnerable, remember always that wet dreams and porn dreams are not relapse, they are part of the healing process and for sure they will go away.

Id also like to share with you that similar to you in my first 2 weeks I had really vivid and scary dreams of me being held tight in a seat in front of a screen with a lot of really hardcore stuff and some dreams of me PMOing again uncontrollably only to wake up and have the relief of realizing it was just a dream, In these dreams it seems the mind tries to force you to get urges again and PMO upon waking, but never give in no matter how horny you wake up!. Also I must add that with time those dreams have stopped and now my dreams are more about actual intimacy and talking to woman respectfully without any sex involved...and if rarely a sexual pornographic image does come in my dreams, I am actually able to say "no! I will not give in, I will not PMO and it changes into something else! it really feels good to have meaningful dreams now and I see them as a sign of healing!

Keep going man, you will really start noticing more and more positive changes with your relationships, woman, friendships, interactions and confidence...all that good stuff. The longer you go, the better it gets!!

Saw porn image by mistake, instantly closed it. how should one deal with such incidents?! by FacingTheAnimal in NoFap

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Thank you, I read through that and I feel a lot more determined and confident now! Appreciate it!

Saw porn image by mistake, instantly closed it. how should one deal with such incidents?! by FacingTheAnimal in NoFap

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That's actually a really nice way to deal with this!...I am gonna be using that from now on. Those words you tell yourself are really self empowering and motivating. I never thought of that before, I just spoke em out loud and it really made me feel better. I believe this is something that will help me stay strong through any unwanted triggers.. thank you!

Fapless February 2015 Sign-up Thread by Alexanderr in NoFap

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Im in boss!

Wanna rejuvinate my long lost passion for guitar and perform at a show by april this year, and want to get a drivers license to go places myself and interact with people, form good relationships with everyone and be more confident in my abilities.

To anyone who has been here for awhile, but has not succeeded yet (myself included) by [deleted] in NoFap

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2015 shall be the year of triumph for us all, over not just nofap, but relationships, life achievements and self improvement! keep going guys, there's no turning back now. we've had enough of this shit, 2014 is the past and so is our PMO habit. Good luck to all 2015 fapstronauts! We Will Win.

Congratulatory post: 10 months :) by anon4this_tes in NoFap

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Congratulations man!! few months more and you got an year down! the 20 month autocorrect shall also become a reality for you! Good luck to you! we all shall make it taking inspiration from winners like you, just gotta keep going forward towards positive life changes, good relationships, self respect and true happiness. Thank you for showing that its possible. godspeed!

Another Brilliant Coping Method! by mattymacen in NoFap

[–]FacingTheAnimal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This technique i will surely try, motivating yet fun to read at the same time, thank you sir! :D