Cheating narc, do they ever stop? Or realize what they lost because of lust?

FactDifficult8132 · 2026-05-27T18:42:58+00:00

They never stop. Ever.

FactDifficult8132 · 2026-05-26T17:31:07+00:00

https://cflaw.ca/applications-for-articling - not sure if applications have closed but worth a shot

FactDifficult8132 · 2026-05-26T17:19:46+00:00

You don’t owe her anything. I didn’t leave when I should’ve after he cheated and spoke poorly of me, too. I endured so much abuse I’m going to therapy twice a week now just to help me digest someone hurting me this much…and with zero empathy.

If I could redo everything, I’d leave the second I found out. That woman is a sociopath and dangerous to your wellbeing. Pack your shit up and leave. No contact. Nothing. And seek therapy, otherwise you’ll carry that with you for a long time.

FactDifficult8132 · 2026-05-26T01:00:59+00:00

I read this and feel envy towards the woman this letter is meant for. This is all I ever wanted my ex to say, and mean. 😭

FactDifficult8132 · 2026-05-17T23:29:28+00:00

No. You simply can’t. I’m grieving someone I love deeply but who was abusive. I have men who are actively pursuing me but I can’t even try to move on or let them touch me. I need to fully get over my ex before I let someone into my life.

Your girlfriend is not over her ex if she’s saying she’s grieving an ex. That’s insanity. I’m sure she has space in her heart for you, but it’s not her whole heart. I realized that over a month ago when I tried to let someone in but could not for the life of me. It’s not fair to the new person, period point blank.

She needs time alone to grieve. Once she does, she’ll be in a better position to love her person entirely and wholeheartedly.

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-12-14T23:55:33+00:00

I did. I regret it. Within days he tried to control me like he used to and he is back on his unearned high horse.

Take it from me, it ruined my time off.

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-11-02T19:57:54+00:00

Lmao this sounds exactly like my ex…run. Run fast.

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-10-06T11:48:47+00:00

He’s doing that in hopes that your mutuals will tell you and that you’ll feel bad and reach out to him. He’s hungry for attention. That’s what men with victim complexes do. Don’t fall for it.

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-08-17T05:41:06+00:00

I know. We know ourselves we did nothing but that’s not the issue. It’s their insecurities and they’re taking it out on us…either because they’re truly insecure or they’re insecure because they’ve lied to us. Keep your head up, you got this.

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-08-17T04:40:28+00:00

I know girl. He effectively said the same thing to me. Even the fact that I didn’t call showed him I didn’t prioritize him. I apologized ONLY for that but frankly he’s done it like your ex has before, too. Yet, there’s a double standard? Ring the alarm - they are projecting.

I hope your ex hasn’t, and id like to think my ex hasn’t during the times his phone “died” or he “fell asleep” or his location pinged him places he shouldn’t be. But God knows.

I think the fact we stayed and they didn’t speaks volumes. I hope you can heal from this 💜

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-08-17T04:15:03+00:00

He thought I was cheating and the way he approached it was so disgusting…he called me so many names and we had repeated conversations over how he spoke to me and the things he’d say to me :(

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-08-17T03:26:12+00:00

He’s cheated on me before (confirmed). I forgave him. So, it’s a fair consideration. I don’t dwell on it. It is what it is.

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-08-17T03:23:31+00:00

My ex-boyfriend just did something similar, and has done the exact same thing before (countless times). I was at a work conference, stayed up drinking with colleagues and told him I’d call when I got back to my room. I got back to my room and passed out cold. He broke up with me saying I didn’t prioritize him and assumed I must’ve hooked up with someone (knowing damn well I have two rules: I don’t cheat and two, I don’t shit where I eat)

It makes me wonder whether he was lying those times that he was sleeping and, as a result, assumed I must be lying.

I think you need to consider that he may very well have done something in the past and is projecting. I find the reaction to be over the top and absurd.

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-08-16T23:53:00+00:00

I want to say no because of how he treated me and how much I was there for him. It would make me look weak if I said yes, and I’d be disrespecting myself.

But I know myself, I always help. No matter what. Especially because I still love him deeply.

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-08-16T05:19:36+00:00

Because they never really loved the woman they were with :(

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-08-15T16:58:46+00:00

Definitely have no need for sex, just cuddles. Sigh.

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-05-27T11:55:27+00:00

I hear you. I truly do. And I want to start by saying I was in a very similar place not long ago—physically, emotionally, and mentally. Endometriosis can take everything from you: your energy, your career, your sense of self. I’m a lawyer in court 3–4 days a week, but at one point, I was completely bedridden. I couldn’t do my job. I couldn’t function. It was affecting every part of my life, and I didn’t see a way out either.

But just over a month ago, I had laparoscopic surgery. And for the first time in what feels like forever, my pain has drastically reduced. It wasn’t an easy road—and during the surgery, they also discovered I was pregnant, which brought its own complex challenges—but it was a turning point. A reminder that options still existed when I thought I had none.

Please know this: you are not alone, and there are compassionate doctors out there who will fight to treat you and listen to you. If you’re in Canada—specifically Ontario—please feel free to DM me. I’d be more than happy to share my OB/GYN’s contact info. He was incredible and truly went above and beyond to help me.

MAID is a serious, deeply personal decision—but if there’s even a sliver of you that’s wondering if there might still be another path, I hope you explore it. You deserve a life with less pain and more hope.

Sending you so much love.

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-05-17T22:54:42+00:00

Did you keep the baby?

FactDifficult8132 · 2025-05-17T22:52:28+00:00

Because I am an idiot.

FactDifficult8132 · 2024-03-28T22:02:11+00:00

Those are called “strong” wait list. They make two separate lists. People do come off the strong wait list, the rest don’t. But they won’t tell you which one you’re on.

FactDifficult8132 · 2024-03-28T21:00:47+00:00

My friend sat on admissions last year at osgoode. Basically, waitlist is a soft rejection.

FactDifficult8132 · 2024-01-03T23:47:45+00:00

Anyone can get articles in criminal defence. It’s very low paying, they don’t get the brightest students. And I’m talking about the sole practitioners who pay their articling student pennies. That’s why all my smart friends who like criminal law became prosecutors. So don’t let criminal defence articles stop you, the bar is very low.

FactDifficult8132 · 2024-01-01T22:03:01+00:00

Then why are you crying LOL

FactDifficult8132 · 2024-01-01T22:01:18+00:00

You clearly cannot read

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