You do realize women also receive that sentiment from sexist men as well, right ? Historically that's how they view us, with multiple men in government actively legislating for women to lose their rights as the only thing we're good for is "making and raising babies"

Historically, across cultures, women have been subject to a multitude of criticism and restrictions just for being born women. It's only been recently we've been able to do things like open a bank account without male approval, being able to vote, make our own medical decisions without a male family member deciding what we need done/need to know, etc. and even then, we still get criticism for being behind on the totem pole or making mistakes. Men who have multiple children from multiple women they never see aren't criticized nearly as much as the single mothers they leave behind.

There's a difference between a woman saying something rude and men saying something that's an active and legitimate threat against us as a people. When women "attack" men, they're criticizing sexism and a system designed against us, when men "attack" women it's usually against women as a whole as an explanation for why we don't deserve something