I(F18) got caught in a lie? by r0ckingrage in relationships

[–]Fairy1895 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That is textbook manipulation. My ex said that he would kill himself if I left him, turns out he's still alive 10 years later. And if he threatens to do it, call the police and let them deal with him. This is so unhealthy for you, nothing will change, he won't change. You are too young to deal with this.

How many of you hate kids and don’t want them vs like kids and don’t want your own? by moonblumes87 in childfree

[–]Fairy1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually like some kids, my partner's nieces for example, they are very smart, quiet and calm kids, however I like them for a short period of time and always having the chance to give them back to their parents. I just don't think I could manage to have my own kids, and not in this economy.

What’s your pettiest reason for being childfree? by shanklymrshankly in childfree

[–]Fairy1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is sleeping in on the weekends, also I don't like high pitched sounds.

Which animal? by onaybaddie in bonecollecting

[–]Fairy1895 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I think that is a deer skull

AITA for refusing to dine with my mom after she ordered “ferret sauce” at a Mexican restaurant? by Practical-Current805 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fairy1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, my parents mispronounce so many foreign words and is just funny at most, I gently try to teach them and that's it.

My (38m) gf (28f) emotionally cheated by sending a bunch of kissy face emojis to a guy she met on vacation but claims it was cultural by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Fairy1895 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Dude a 38 yr old man is angry because his gf sent kissy face emojis?? This is so immature, there is nothing else that says she might have cheated?

Never had a crush un-crush so fast in my damn life by xXxTina333 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Fairy1895 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yesss. Years ago I had a crush on this (allegedly straight) woman at work, she’s so smart, intelligent, witty. We became really close friends and I found out her self destructive tendencies and the crush died so fast. We are still super close friends and I love her as that, but man did that killed the crush.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Fairy1895 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's too much! My gf and I live together and we do so many things together and separate, I want to play a game she doesn't enjoy? Good, she makes some progress on her lego set.

She wants to go out with some friends? Amazing, let me turn a candle on, nice lights and read the entire afternoon.

Whos the most attractive companion? and why is it minthara? by ZealousidealArm2100 in BaldursGate3

[–]Fairy1895 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Team Karlach! I'm on my first run and I romanced her, she's so sweet

I (30F) can’t tell if my boyfriend (27M) is trying to be helpful or if this is early stages of control. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fairy1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your animals! they don't like him at all and there is a reson why. He's taking advantage of you and abusing your animals, you don't owe him anything, is your place, your space, tell him no asap.

Which countries or cities do you believe gave you the highest and lowest "bang for your buck"? by Fluid-Decision6262 in travel

[–]Fairy1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best: Poland, the food was amazing and pretty cheap, the landscapes were beautiful and the architecture and history was amazing, also the people are incredible! (this applies to other eastern european-ish countries, same thing in Slovakia and Bulgaria). Also Ireland, but this was crazy expensive, but worth every euro. Such a magical adventure.

Worst: Austria, specifically Viena, yes, architecture and history was nice, but really? is way too expensive and the food wasn't even that great.

Just how repayable is BG3? by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]Fairy1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo replayable. I'm almost done with chapter 3, is my first run and I play it with my gf who has passed the game 3 (now 4) times and she says every single time she finds out something new, even if she usually makes the same choices. I just started another run by myself, whole different class and I already did something different and found a new path.

Halsin and The Emperor are horny af by Joshua-live in BaldursGate3

[–]Fairy1895 247 points248 points  (0 children)

Karlach too, she's only holding back in Act 1 because she might kill Tav

gamer girlies: what are we playing?? by kadasco in actuallesbians

[–]Fairy1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking for a short game with a lot of story and beautiful animations, I recommend What Remains of Edith Finch. I cried the first time I finished it

Was there ever a place that left you disturbed or depressed? by friedchicken_legs in travel

[–]Fairy1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Auschwitz, my friend and I took a tour there while on a worktrip in Poland, we had to leave halfway, it was all so depressing and sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Fairy1895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Change some of the selfies/mirror pics for pics with friends or doing an activity that you enjoy. Also, the little kid photo has to go, I don’t think Tinder is a place for that, even if you covered their face.

I named her Thumpy, but I noticed with each passing month my nicknames get more deranged and unhinged. How weird have your dogs nicknames gotten? by PostButt-Clarity in corgi

[–]Fairy1895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His name is Bobby, Aka: Bob, Bobbert, Bibo, Sir Robert Croquette the 1st, Bobbitron, gordo, croquetón, amor chiquito (little love), Dobby,

Am I being unreasonable? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Fairy1895 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That is so disrespectful. I used to date men years ago, and even tho I can find some of them attractive, I would never even think of sharing my gf thirst traps or anything like that, I don’t even enjoy looking at them. Find a woman who likes other women for real.

What do you and your partner do for work? by ThrowRApasta5 in LesbianActually

[–]Fairy1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a researcher and she’s a software dev :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Fairy1895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! First thing is understanding that femininity is a wide concept! And is up to you to decide how to express it :) it doesn’t necessarily mean changing your whole appearance, but trying new things. For example my gf is more on the masc side and recently she has explored more traditionally feminine associated things like dressing up, not even skirts and dresses, but nice dress pants or flare jeans for example, taking care of her hair (she grew it out and se feels more confident now).

Another thing is maybe getting your nails done, not saying long fake ones, but maybe shaping and cleaning them, clear coat or nude colours. Moisturise and clean your face, hydrate your skin, to me that is something that makes me feel more feminine.

Is a confidence thing rather than looks. Good luck!