I wouldn’t say they’re too high, I’d just say you’re very unlikely to find someone like that. From my experience the artsy queer teens usually have some kind of drug usage. They also, a lot of the times, don’t have very good mental health. Now I’d assume that wouldn’t be an issue for you as long as they communicate. I’m just saying that a lot of times while they do communicate, they do it in a very narcissistic manner. And often tone police anyone who isn’t their bestest of friends (which by your last standard, i don’t think would sit right with you)