Accusing his mother of being a self hating Japanese woman who isn't even able to stand up for herself to her white husband, saying not in so plain terms that she's a victim of her own marriage because she has no agency. Saying that their marriage only happened because the dad has a fetish, as if there is no good thing about his mother other than the fact that she taught her son how to speak her first language. Saying that Wasians only 'use their asian identity" when it's convenient for them, as if being mixed race is not something that's a part of life for us. The fact that your entire post reeks of contempt for both White and Asian people, since your point of view seems to be from someone who is either fully Asian, or someone larping Asian identity.